ALPHA MAN: FIND THE MEANING IN YOUR LIFE.

Alpha males don’t wander this planet waiting patiently for the opportunity to come to them. They make opportunities WANT to knock, and they seem to get all the biggest breaks as a result.

I'll bet you've felt a few waves of jealousy in the past, watching as the alpha males get all the best jobs, the prettiest woman, and the most money.

If you've ever sat bitterly staring on as a friend went on the vacation of a lifetime with his gorgeous, doting wife, or you've quietly hated him as he left on an all-expenses-paid trip abroad on behalf of the company who values every last noise he makes and every darned breath he takes, you know exactly what I mean.

But sitting where you're sitting, hating others for their accomplishments, and muttering about how they can't possibly deserve it more than you do, is exactly why you're not the alpha male in your group.

It's happening because, unlike that guy, you haven't decided what you want and you haven't made up your mind to go out and get it.

so what is that you want from your life? Where do you want to be 12 months from now? How about in five years? What about ten? And what about that very last moment when you breathe your last breath and shuffle off this mortal coil- where do you want to be that day.

How do I know? Because you're not an alpha male yet?

So let's take some time out here while you ask yourself a few questions - and don't come back until you have. I want to see these answers scrawled all over a whiteboard, stuck with superglue to your fridge, or typed up. I want you to answer these questions first, then fill in the blanks that come after them. 

• What means the most to you in this world?
•  What would you like to be remembered for?
•  Who is it that you want to remember you?
• What do you want to have given back to the world? 
• What do you want from your career?
• What hobbies, pursuits, and talents do you want to excel at? 
• What do you want from your love life?
• What about your family life?

with these things in mind, I want you to write down your goal or goals for your career, interests, achievements, love life, and family in the long term. I then want you to break that down and set yourself goals for six months time, a year from now, five years into the future, and decide on. 

And you will have to do that because, as you keep growing, you'll keep unlocking more opportunities and it's possible that you'll find yourself going in an entirely different direction. That's not a problem, in fact, it is good.