The Buyer Changed, The Sales Hasn’t.

The Buyer Changed, The Sales Hasn’t.

Only 25% of salespeople were expected to hit quota in 2024. That’s one in four.

Let that sink in.

Sales isn’t just struggling—it’s broken.

That’s exactly what we unpacked in Episode 122 of Mastering Modern Selling with Denise Murtha Bachmann . And at one point, she said something that just clicked:

❝ Most sales teams are trying to force buyers into an outdated sales process—instead of meeting them where they are. ❞ — Denise Murtha Bachman

Boom. 💥 That’s the disconnect.

Buyers have changed. Sales hasn’t.

Brandon Lee: "So what I heard is, the buyer changed… and the sales motion hasn’t. And that’s where the big loss is. The big disconnect."


So, what does this mean for sales teams?

Here’s what isn’t working anymore:

🚫 Cold calls? Ghosted.

🚫 Mass emails? Ignored.

🚫 Rushing the sale? Instant deal killer.

But some sales teams are still doing more of the same—more calls, more emails, more demos, expecting a different result.

It’s not working.

So… what should we do instead?


1. Slow Down to Speed Up

"Go slow to move fast."

Rushing the deal kills the deal.

Sales isn’t a checklist:

☑️ Get them on a call

☑️ Pitch the product

☑️ Push them to a demo

That’s how you get ghosted.

The best sellers don’t pitch first—they listen first.

They ask real questions.

They uncover actual problems.

Try this instead:

❌ Don’t rush to the demo.

✅ Spend time understanding the real problem first.


2. Give Before You Ask

Denise said something simple but smart:

"I always say: Give three things before you ask for one.


Think about it: Would you walk up to a stranger and immediately ask for a favor? No. (Unless you love getting ignored.)

Instead of leading with: 🛑 “Can I have 15 minutes of your time?”

Try this:

“Loved your post on [topic]! What’s your take on [related idea]?”

“Just read this article—thought you’d find it interesting!”

“You mentioned [challenge]—I put together a deep dive on it, here’s something that might help.”

It’s basic human nature. People respond to value, not pitches.


3. Be Where Your Buyers Are

Your cold outreach isn’t failing because you’re bad at selling. It’s failing because buyers aren’t answering.

They’re already researching before they buy. They’re watching. They’re lurking on LinkedIn without engaging.

Denise put it perfectly:

"You have no idea who’s watching you. They may never like, never comment… but one day, they reach out and say: ‘I’ve been following you for a while… I’m ready to work with you.’ That’s the power of showing up."

So... Are you showing up?

Because if you’re not visible, you’re invisible.

The Takeaway?

Stop chasing. Start attracting.

Stop selling. Start solving.

Stop cold outreach. Start warm engagement.

The sales teams winning in 2025 aren’t sending more emails. They’re building more trust.


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Consultative sales (listen first, ask questions, offer solutions, ask for the sale) is a successful and well-tested sales technique. Historically, it is used when you need to "earn" the sale, typically for larger value or more complex sales. But to start the conversation, you have to find the prospect! Those techniques you want to discard are how you find the target. If your market is tired of the "cold call" and "Spam emails" you need the new marketing to get the prospect to self-select. We found Infomercials (case studies on blogs, journal articles, and targeted YouTube videos showing how our product solves problems) generated better-quality leads than advertising and cold calls ever did.

Deepak Bhootra (Dr)

Coaching & Training to Sell Better, Stress Less and Build Resilience | Sandler & ICF Certified | 30+ Years Sales & Operations Experience | 3x Published Author | USA National Bestseller | Top 50 Author in India

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Buyers today want value, not just a pitch. The more we focus on solving their real problems, the stronger the relationships we build. 👍

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Denise Murtha Bachmann

Let's transform your sales into a human-first experience - where trust and relationships drive revenue. Together we will build your 2025 sales strategy, execute and hit your sales goals.

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We haven't adapted to our buyers and I know we all agree Brandon Lee, Tom Burton and Carson V. Heady from Mastering Modern Selling. I had a great time on the show. Appreciate you all and the audience, whether live, replay or even here reading the newsletter.

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