I look vaguely familiar

Usually at this time of the year, posts abound on new year's resolutions. I'm not making any this year; or at least not officially. This post is not even occurring as a result of a milestone birthday; although they're all milestones at this point...

I am quite a different person than I was at New Year's 10, 20 and even 30 years ago. Many influences and instances in my life have transformed me into the woman I am today. I see my reflection in the picture above, yet my present is clearly in front of me in vibrant colors and deep dimples.

My grandparents celebrated 50 and 65 years of marriage and we just celebrated my folk's Golden 50th. Their resolve influenced my marriage in the sense that I experienced first hand what they went through and I know I want to hit my 50th and God willing 65th and look back with no regrets.

My 3 kids are getting the benefit of older parents albeit with a little less energy than if we were in our 20's. This just lends to us being perhaps a little more wise in our decisions and what's really important.

My husband and I are both blessed with good health and a friendship and strong foundation that will certainly make that 50 year journey more enjoyable. We have endured a lot in our relationship together, but have built a stronger bond through those trials. Infertility struggles and maintaining bonds with our extended families have proven to us time and time again how much we rely on each other yet support each other's individuality.

Even though I've enjoyed nearly 20 years in the same career, I truly enjoy helping others achieve success through knowledge and relationships. I can hope only for another 20 achieving those same goals no matter where my career journey takes me.

So, it's true, I look vaguely familiar to myself from decades past and that is not a bad thing. I resolve to appreciate all of those influences and instances that are molding me even as they're occurring. There you have it, I did make a resolution of sorts, just not in the traditional sense.