Identity and Personal Transformation - Life Lists, Audits and Resumes
Dr. Chris Stout
LinkedIn Top Voice | Best Selling Author | Adventurer | Startup Whisperer | (Accidental) Humanitarian | APA's "Rockstar" Psychologist | Éminence Grise
This may now officially have become an annual tradition as this is the third time I have done a New Year’s piece on tools, experiments and approaches that I have used or done in the year prior. On January 1st 2019, I devoted an episode of my podcast as a one-person-show and reviewed a prior, long-form Influencer post, What You Need to Know to have an Optimized Healthspan: Bio-hacking for Beginners . That article was born from an experience I had concerning someone’s curiosity about my dietary choices and the results. That episode garnered a lot of kind support, and so I’m now experimenting with each New Year as similar approach of exploration and sharing.
In January 2020, I wrote Epic Ideas for 2020: Revolution over Resolutions and the following January 2021, I wrote Living a Life in Full: Revolution over Resolutions 2.0 . Like the first two years, this will be an update/follow-up. (This year, however, I will not be doing a companion podcast audio version, as the number of guests has increased so much. Also, since there will not be a companion audio narrative to this written version, I will be less wordy and more “bulleted” and, of course, everything will have links galore so you can easily learn more about whatever is of interest. And worry not, no affiliate links—I have no economic incentives nor advertising relationships with any third parties noted herein. I have not been provided with any paid endorsements, kickbacks or commercial payments – I have personally bought and paid for all products and services discussed.)
In making this public and being transparent, I hope to perhaps inform (or inspire) you to think about your life and what experiences you may want to add. By involving others, it helps to not only motivate me, but also holds me accountable.
Doing this is a little scary—to put oneself out there in a pretty transparent way. Being mindful that it is hard to give advice. We are all different and in a myriad of ways. There are a lot of intervening variables in our own lives. I don’t always keep doing the same things or in the same way as I age or circumstances change. If you try any of what follows, please do so as an experiment. Lab coat on and clipboard optional. Kick the tires, test drive, and keep in mind your mileage may vary. Please, please do your research of the links and determine what's good for you—test and retest—rinse-and-repeat. My goal is to expose you to what I have experienced, perhaps save you some time and hassle by doing so, and provide you with sources so you can decide for yourself.
This post is for general information uses only, and it does not constitute the practice of psychology, medicine, nutrition, or any other professional health care service, including the giving of medical or psychological advice. No doctor-patient relationship is formed. And as a warning label for readers, do not try to recreate or re-intact any of the activities that have any risk to your health or wellbeing without proper training or medical clearance. If you are dealing with a serious medical condition, please consult with a healthcare professional before engaging in any of the health and athletic activities discussed in this episode. Don’t be a knucklehead.
While I continue to do a bit of context-setting reprising of some areas, I’m not trying to plagiarize myself when I cover some aspects again. I encourage interested readers to click and go to the original posts (and those at the end of this piece as well). I hope you enjoy them and find them to be of use in your New Year.
I have used the following categories to organize what follows:
Quick note, as I was organizing the various areas for this piece, I came to realize that may of the topics overlap. For example, Lifestyle is made up of where we chose to live, how we interact with the environment (including waste management, planting saplings as well as our own vegetables), buying locally as well as organically (thus supporting community businesses along with our personal health and wellness or Healthspan). Intellectual and Creative overlap with the research and reading that goes into the questions and conversations in my podcast. Point is there will be many areas that overlap and are not discrete, so please scan through all the topics and pick-and-choose what’s of interest or may be a curiosity.
Professional
Non-Profit Work
One of the key areas of my work this past year has been to work on the development of my non-profit, the Center for Global Initiatives . We have continued again in 2021 to be a top ranked healthcare nonprofit and Platinum Ranked by GuideStar .
Tools for Change - LinkedIn Newsletter We launched a weekly newsletter on LinkedIn called Tools for Change . It is a long form curated/edited publication that was born from the need to provide a trusted source for pandemic, global health, mental health and humanitarian information and news. As I have opined in past articles like How to Protect Yourself from Fad Science and my three part series, The Reproducibility Problem—Can Science be Trusted? , —Shame on us? , and —What’s a Scientist to do? This is a near-and-dear topic and concern of mine and this newsletter is in service of that.
It is an experiment to help with the reach of the Center in its open-sourcing of humanitarian work by curating and sharing vetted, verified sources. I suspect it will evolve as the pandemic wains, so stay tuned. Please take a look and subscribe (free, of course) and join over 128,000 readers who stay current via our digest.
CourseWorks – Fellowship and Certificate Programs We launched CourseWorks and fellowship and certificate programs . We started by working with partners across the globe and we soon found out that with an all-volunteer organization that 1:1 work was not scalable. So, we then "pivoted" and developed an approach we refer to as "Open-Source Humanitarian Intervention," in that we freely provide tools and resources to help others with their work in the humanitarian space. We work to reduce the friction and hassles often associated in the process of helping and working with others.
Now, we have taken the open-source approach and applied it to providing instruction and learning in that all of the materials that are used in our Certificate Programs are free; all the time, to anyone, everywhere. All tuition goes to fund the work of the Center and its projects. No Core Faculty are paid, including the Program Chair.
What we have done is source and curate materials -- articles, chapters, videos, talks, lectures, webinars, podcasts, books, websites, apps, and any other helpful media -- into a syllabus, and that syllabus is part of a structured curriculum that when successfully completed will yield a Certification in the area of specialization from the Center. Students receive specific feedback and critique on each component of their submitted coursework for grading. Once there is a successful completion of the course, the student receives a transcript that may be submitted to their program or university if need be as confirmation of successful completion of the Certificate Program they were enrolled in. The expectation, however, is that most students participating in the Certificate Program will be post-graduate or post-doctoral students, and the Certification is an additional credential to apply the learning in their work and to be able to list on their resume, bio, and/or CV.
Consortium for Humanitarian Intervention - The Center has developed an education and research Consortium and contracted with top Universities, Medical Schools, and International NGOs.
We have built a world class faculty and resources in order to provide the tools, network, contacts, and support for Center Scholars to make a difference in the world and advance their careers. We rely on our Consortium colleagues to help with aspects of the Fellowship, Certification, and Center projects.
Facebook Group - We curate and provide near daily, vetted information on Covid-19, the pandemic, public health, mental health, psychology, global health and more, as well as foster a worldwide community of like-minded individuals here .
The Center’s Website - We have completed a major website revamp and expansion of CenterForGlobalInitiatives.org where you can learn about our projects and partners as well as have access to a myriad of Talks and various Tools , all freely available in our continuing efforts to Open-Source Humanitarian Intervention. We have no paywalls.
Master Class in Getting Published - As a means of raising funding for the Center’s work as well as helping students publish their work, we developed a video webinar course entitled “How Publish in the New Millennium: From Scientific Journals to Best Sellers.” It’s based on 8 video lessons with almost three hours of material providing countless new concepts, stories and examples! (Including several attempts at humor.)
We cover:
Learning Objectives – Students will learn about the best ways to approach submitting a manuscript for scientific publication in peer reviewed journals, the mechanics of book contracting (e.g., how to submit an idea, what publishers are looking for, how to evaluate (and negotiate) a contract, royalties, advances and copyright, why to NEVER first submit a manuscript to a publisher, differences between publishers, when you need an agent (and when you don’t), along with a myriad of additional considerations and advice.
The course covers eBooks, Print-On-Demand, Amazon’s CreateSpace and KDP, and other non-traditional approaches to publishing, and how to tell if platform is of high quality or not. Students will learn about marketing, media kits, how to create an Amazon Author Page, book signings, library talks, speaking and promotional tours, and being a podcast guest and other publicity aspects.
This is a rich, fun, fact-and-experience-filled course that covers everything you need to know, from a practical and actionable perspective.
Podcast: Living a Life in Full
I will continue to serve as Executive Producer and Host of the syndicated podcast, Living a Life in Full . We are heading into our fifth season, and to borrow from past guest and friend, Guy Spier, it is my way to “learn in public.” The show is in the top 5% according to ListenNotes and the social media audience reach is now over three million .
This show is for the intellectually curious. You want to not just know more about the interesting and the innovative, but also what makes them tick, and maybe even what makes them laugh.
It’s graduate-level conversations with those making a difference in the world and the lives of others. Living a Life in Full provides durable insights and actionable knowledge, along with a dash of fun. This show brings you new ideas and approaches so you can live a life in full. Guests are a who’s who of academics, bestselling authors, high-caliber leaders, world changing humanitarians, innovative researchers, paradigm busting thought-leaders and global innovators—all with a uniting thread of giving back. Click here to subscribe for a free monthly update.
Here is our guest list to date:
It's like a gym membership for your brain.
Writing - I very much enjoy writing and my LinkedIn Influencer posts on global health, technology, and humanitarian activism is a great venue. I’m thrilled to be nearing a half-million followers. And I will be working to grow my audience on Medium as well.
Advisory - I will continue to serve at varying levels in corporate advising, consulting to private equity and launched companies, and continue to be a “Startup Whisperer” as it were. In this process over the last year I have personally found it to be a stimulating challenge and learning process to be involved as a Principal Investigator on a National Science Foundation Small Business Innovation Research grant submission, a US patent, NIMH/SAMHSA grants, and with the FDA in the area of prescription digital therapeutics (PDTx), 510(k) predicated device applications, and software as a medical device (SaMD) application. I have also had some interesting experiences with a SPAC/IPO and the sale of another startup.
And I have operationalized this more so as well and curate a vast set of resources:
I've also found that in 2021 startups did not seem to have a decrease. In fact, I've become much more active in the startups that I was already a part of and I have been getting other invitations and requests for advisory or consultative roles to help promising, nascent companies. I've continued to develop my advisor tool-kit and I look forward to doing more .
Talks and Interviews - In spite of the pandemic, I have been kindly invited to speak and do interviews this past year as a rate not too different than prepandemic times.
Work > Retire
Thus far, I have shared some of my “Professional” activities. I chose to start off with them as I have shifted into what some would call “early retirement.” Retirement can be via the FIRE (Financially Independent, Retire Early) route, for others perhaps something more traditional, or even an IPO or sale of a business. How one got or gets there is not my point, but for some reason, it really chaffs me when someone refers to me as retired (obviously having not yet read the preceding). I do not think it’s because of my identity being predicated on my title or job, as I do not really fit into one profession or category.
Others have been better able to say what it is I feel:
I read a simple little note in a callout box in the March/April 2020 issue of Inc. magazine about “Return on Life” rather than the familiar “Return on Investment” (ROI). They noted it is a noun and defined as “the novel idea that the value of wealth lies in the rich life we can create with it, not in the status that that comes with exorbitant displays of it.”
It reminded me of the overarching philosophy of Morgan Housel’s new book that I have so enjoyed (and have been gifting), The Psychology of Money.
In fact, this excerpt from The MadFientist podcast of an interview with Morgan nails how I feel about retirement being a four-letter word as far as I am concerned, and financial freedom, at whatever age, is what is important (emphasis added):
“To me, the level that really matters is when you can, for various reasons, just wake up and virtually, any day, say, ‘I can do whatever I want today.’ You can work really hard at a work that you’re really passionate about if you want to do that. But if you wanted to take time off, you can do that too. You want to hang out with your family, you can do that too. It’s just maintaining control over your schedule. And there’s a lot of different ways to do that. That roughly falls into the FIRE framework—financial independence retire early—which is something that I like in the sense of financial independence. But ‘retire early’ is almost this idea that you are committing yourself to not working again, which is where it gets a little rough for me because, most people, even if they have full control over what they do, most able-bodied, smart people who are underage 65 would say are going to wake up most days and say, ‘I want to do good work today. I want to go to work. I want to put my brain to work, put my muscles to work and be productive in society.’ That’s what most people want to do. But I think just as long as you can do that on your own terms, doing the projects that you like, when you want to do them, who you want to do them with, for as long as you want to do them, and then you can stop whenever you want, that to me is the highest dividend that money paid.
“…controlling your time is something that gives most people an enduring level of happiness. And every day that you can wake up every morning and say, ‘I can do whatever I want today. I can go to work, but I could quit. I can retire. I can do something else,’ every day that you have that is going to give you a lasting level of happiness. It tends to be enduring over time. And the opposite of that—waking up every morning and realizing that you are on someone else’s schedule, that someone is going to tell you when to go to work, where to go to work, what to do at work, when you can eat lunch, when you can go home, that tends to be just a level of dependence on other people that brings a lasting level of angst and unhappiness and stress. So, that’s all I care about with financial independence, is that my career moves more towards this idea where I can do whatever I want. And what I want to do is write—which is what I’ve always done for work. As long as I can move and move toward this idea of “Look, I’m going to write when I want to. I’m going to write about whenever I want to." Hear – hear! My feelings exactly, thanks Morgan.
Here are Six Important Reasons Not to Retire Early .
Working on the Weekend Depends on How You Define Work Brad Stulberg nailed it : “Are you working on the weekend because it feels like a compulsion—either external (someone is making you) or internal (like an addiction; you don’t really want to but you can’t not)? Or, are you working on the weekend because you are choosing to from a place of freedom and love? The former never ends well. The latter can be a wonderful source of nourishment and energy.
“Also, how do you define work? If you define it broadly, as a contribution to the world, per se, then doesn’t just about everything connote work? For example, this past weekend I took my kid and dog on a 4-hour hike. I came back very refreshed (at least intellectually; my legs, not so much) and better able to see and think clearly. Was that 4-hour hike “work”?
“If you are working from a place of freedom and love , or if you are resting and recovering as a part of your work—because you define work broadly; maybe even as broadly a life well-lived—then yes, sure, work on the weekends. But I’ve never met someone who goes about work this way that feels the need to boast about it on social media or to their friends or colleagues.
Generally, if you have to boast about something it is not coming from a place of self-confidence and security (i.e., freedom and love) but more so form a place of doubt and insecurity (i.e., compulsion). At its worst, working on the weekend becomes a sort of heroic individualism : a game of one-upmanship against self and others; a race and competition to see who can grind the hardest. These races all lead in one direction: to burnout. Perhaps the grind takes you to top of your friend group or corporate ladder or whatever for a period of time, but eventually, it ends badly.
“In the final analysis, work probably should not be a moral thing at all. Working more is not better. Working less is not better. Getting ahead is a lousy goal. Being where you are and freely pursuing what energizes you is great one.”
Chip Conley on Mastering Professional Transitions
William Green and I talked about the “freedom to work until you are 106” from his book, Richer, Wiser, Happier.
I Just Retired. Why Am I Unhappy? To maintain your well-being after retirement, it helps to develop a plan .
Self-development takes a lifetime —and that’s okay
Achievement and our children - This is a great interview between Peter Attia and Hugh Jackman on one’s drive and achievement and the effect it can have our children -- when does it come to the point that it can be come disruptive rather than productive. (This link starts at that point in their conversation, but I recommend listening to the entire episode.)
For me, I get to do the work the way I want to. There is an honor in being able to do so.
All this also makes me think about the piece I wrote about Stewart Brand’s perspective about 5-year timelines for projects and to first do the math as to how many more projects you have time for, and then choose carefully. Along these lines, I've been in touch with Derek Sivers regarding his coming on the show, and his philosophy of responding to requests should either be “hell yes!” or a courteous “no.” This is particularly helpful in the context that for every “yes” you give, there needs to be a counterbalancing “no thank you” as we do not have infinite availability of time.
And speaking of time, work, and thus productivity, I have been very proud of using systems to get through and organize a backlog of 16,000 emails and now be close to inbox-zero. Here is my productivity tool kit.
And speaking of work and productivity - I was invited to write a paper on career approaches and development in psychology.
But, after my initial draft, I realized there are a number of aspects that can generalize outside of the profession of psychology. So, I revised it, added a number of links and instead published it in LinkedIn on the topic of having a portfolio career.
Related to this area, I was recently interviewed by one of my alma maters as to post-graduate career and work. This has lead to an invitation to periodically return and meet with students as a mentor of sorts, and I am over the moon.
Not dead yet -This past summer I enjoyed special honor of having my papers, books, and other flotsam and jetsam of my body of work become part of the Smithsonian’s collection in the “Dr. Chris E. Stout Archive” housed at The Center for the History of Psychology, University of Akron.
And while I was in the archival state of mind, I donated the genealogical papers I had to the County Archive where the Stout family line hails from.
Lifestyle
Location - It’s a rare gift to be able to live where you choose, if you’re not there yet, consider what’s important, and add as best you can. Once we were able to, here’s where we chose and why:
Community Sustainability Efforts Here is a sampler of how these local communities are leading the charge toward a greener and more sustainable Door County.
I am not the mayor of Door County, but quite the fan.
Conservation - Conservation has become important to us for a number of reasons. Our efforts to help lend a hand are:
Still not dead - Recently had a visit by my brother-in-law and my wife’s sister, and he noted they’d bought a cemetery plot. It got me to thinking why? Siblings disperse. Children generally are planted with their significant others. Many of us live in places not near where a loved one is buried. My wife and I have long presumed cremation. (I’m now considering more carbon neutral options but without the woo-woo.) It seems an old tradition, now encumbered with showy tombstones or worse. I’m hoping my legacy will be in my family, my relationships, my books, my patients, my students, and hopefully any difference I have made in people’s lives via my work and what I have created.
Healthspan
Eating not just what, but perhaps more importantly, when: 18:6 time restricted eating
For me, some dietary tweaks are very easy like time-restricted eating. I am currently “fasting” for 18 hours, and restrict my eating to a 6-hour window. As for mornings, I never have any kind of appetite and I do my workouts in the morning, so it's an easy way to delay eating and not feel hungry. Also, I try to do at least a 24-hour fast one day a week, and that's more of a challenge. I really have to plan that around what else is going on to pull those off. And related, I seem to be often quite able and satisfied to have just One Meal A Day (OMAD ). And here’s a good piece on time-restricted eating efficacy versus effectiveness if you really want to nerd out on it.
I have found Kevin Rose’s Zero App to be a big motivator, helpful metrics tracker, and digital accountability buddy. I use the free version and find it to be plenty.
Hydration - Last year I did the gallon a day challenge, and that helped to boost my habit of increased water consumption, and generally I get close to a consistent near-gallon-a-day still. I'm also a big fan of lemon water and I find that it is very satisfying in the evening, especially if I get hungry or just simply thirsty. Some folks swear by starting their day with a glass of lemon water, but you should know the pros and cons of doing so before adopting it.
Protein--type, timing, and cost - After my workout, I break my fast with a shot of tart cherry juice (for inflammation fighting and joint health), vitamins, vinegar caps with mother, and a vegan protein shake—and a varied lunch menu. Quick note vis-à-vis vinegar. I transitioned from drinking shots (out of concern for tooth enamel erosion and digestive system irritation). I now take 12x Potent Ultra High Strength Non-GMO Apple Cider Vinegar Capsules with Mother - 2,010mg Formula Pills with Cayenne Pepper - 20% Acetic Acid , and I am a fan. They are easier to take than pronounce.
As for the constants, conventional wisdom is that a dose of protein after a workout is beneficial to your muscle development and recovery. The idea being that doing so decreases muscle protein breakdown, increases muscle protein synthesis (growth), restores glycogen stores, and enhances recovery.
I’m somewhat nerdy as to my protein consumption. As I am plant-based, lately I've been experimenting with soy. My “formula,” per serving, is to try to get at least 20 grams of protein at less than 200 calories and a price point less than a dollar. My son recently introduced me to True Nutrition protein, they also have other products.
Their differentiator is they allow you to custom blend various types of protein powders, from a variety of vegan sources, to crickets, to a variety of carnivore sources. They have a pretty slick interface, too. You can select flavors, sweeteners, and sizes, and mix-and-match should you so desire. I also like that the powder comes in a bag to minimize waste. Proper dosing can be confusing, so the brain-trust at Examine.com developed an Optimal Protein Intake Guide that may be of help if this is a conundrum for you, too.
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One of my big goals has been to minimize eating any kind of added sugar. In the evenings that tends to be harder but as part of my routine I take one tablespoon of inulin , just straight as a powder, and that very much satisfies my sweet tooth. Plus, it's good for my microbiome. A curious phenomenon I have noticed is my cravings for desserts have diminished a great deal. I don't know if it's the combination of time restricted eating and the inulin, but I’m hoping it will continue.
Sugar, fructose, high-fructose corn syrup, and artificial sweeteners - This is an amazing episode with Dr. Peter Attia and Rick Johnson , professor of nephrology at the University of Colorado. He explains how his research into the causes of blood pressure resulted in a change of research direction to focus more on how fructose has such profound metabolic effects. Rick begins by talking about the relationship between salt and high blood pressure, then provides a masterclass into uric acid, and then expertly reveals the mechanisms and pathways by which sugar (specifically fructose) can profoundly impact metabolic health. From there, he explains how he applies this information to real life patients as well as touches on some of the most promising ideas around pharmacotherapy that are being developed in response to the epidemics of fatty liver, insulin resistance, diabetes, and obesity. Furthermore, Rick gives his take on artificial sweeteners compared to real sugar, discusses cancer’s affinity for fructose, and much more. What a great episode.
Plant-Based Eating - I will remain plant-based as to my diet. It’s not for everyone. I am not an evangelist, but I am a fan. I enjoy Dr. Michael Greger’s work, his book "How Not To Die" and here’s a great Google Talk on the topic as a primer.
I’m doing a pretty good job with eating cleaner, less processed food, and there are more farm-to-table options where we now live.
Also, for canned goods, like various beans, I only buy them in non-BPA coated cans. And here are some of my favorite vegan resources and my first, integrative article on Healthspan . From my experience, in spite of all my workouts and physical challenges, I have not taken ibuprofen (what I used to call “Vitamin I”) in years. I’m thinking this may be resultant from more yoga, eating plant-based, turmeric, and improved hydration.
Breathing - There are a number of breath-work exercises, from athletics to meditation. Here is a sampler of two of my favorites.
4-7-8 - The 4-7-8 breathing technique has been credited as being a tool for transformative relaxation. You can do it in the car, at work, in a meeting, in the middle of the night, any time and place, basically with no risk. Dr. Andrew Weill, a big advocate for this exercise, advises doing it twice a day every day for cumulative overall health benefit. Go here for a demo.
Wim Hof Method - I had Wim Hof as a guest on an episode of my podcast in 2021 , so be sure to tune in if you’d like to learn more. You may also enjoy his new book and very helpful website and app . His Method is not something you should do while active or in water. Wim is also a proponent of hormesis and cold exposure in combination with his breathing approach. I finish off all my showers with the faucet turned to full blast cold. The thinking is that cold water exposure can help your body’s immune, lymphatic, circulatory and digestive systems as well as help in the weight-loss department presumably because it seems to boost your metabolism.
Heat Exposure - My gym’s sauna is open again! I try to do 2 – 3 times a week (for 50 minutes at 185-ish degrees) as a treat. Sauna is great for so many reasons. However, one really needs to have a physician’s clearance before experimenting with heat as it seems that longer duration at higher temperatures is the secret sauce in its effectiveness, but there are obviously risks more so for some folks. Be safe and smart. I track my heartrate via my trusty and versatile Suunto 9 Lime the whole time. I listen to podcasts, a playlist, or binaural tones. Geek heaven.
Binaural Tones - In the March 2020 issue of Men’s Health magazine I read a piece on the claims of various applications and benefits of binaural beats at different wavelengths to help relax, meditate, sleep, or even concentrate. I have used the Binaural app for “Pure Binaural Beats” designed by Giorgio Calderolla on my phone, but it was not for me. What I found a better fit, and a much more enjoyable experience is using/listening to Gentle Sleep Music (ASMR Sleep Sounds) Binaural Delta Waves or "Lavender Hill" Binaural Beats Sleep Music that I stumbled upon on YouTube. There are many others at differing wavelengths. Currently I’m trying out 3HZ and 4HZ to 6HZ for relaxing, lucid dreaming, creative thinking on a project, and sleep.
A little hack—as the YouTube videos run 6 to 8 hours in length, I don’t want my phone playing them that long if I’m using them for sleep, so I have played them on my computer over an external JBL speaker, and recorded 45- and 60-minute versions via the memo recorder on my phone. Then I do not need to rely on Wi-Fi connectivity on my phone if I want to listen while in a sauna or whirlpool with my water and sweatproof Jaybird Vista ear buds . Nor do I need to worry about a timer if I’m laying down at home using Bose 35 wireless headphones as the playback simply stops after the recording finishes playing.
Hormesis and Hormetic Stress - When I had Wim Hof on my show this past year, we discussed “becoming alkaline” and the promising value of hormesis and hormetic stress in not only healthspan, but also athletic performance and longevity . The body of legit science is building. Many of the aspects noted herein can be categorized in this area.
Sleep - See above on the binaural music. I also take two magnesium tablets daily, one at the end of my fast and the other before bed, to increase sleep quality and decrease cramping risks. On an as need be basis, which has gotten to be pretty episodic these days, I take Natural Calm . My wife and I continue to be big fans of our ChiliPad.
As for my nightstand, I also will read before bed, review notes I want to think about before drifting off, keep water easily available, and have my recorder and ChiliPad remote at the ready.
For the majority of my tracked metrics, all is working for the vast majority of nights. Bonus is waking up without an alarm clock—every day.
One more thing on sleep (thanks Tim Ferriss) - Dr. Andrew Huberman — A Neurobiologist on Optimizing Sleep, Enhancing Performance, Reducing Anxiety, Increasing Testosterone, and Using the Body to Control the Mind (#521) , in particular (1) visual considerations for optimizing sleep quality [15:11]; (2) a simple new routine that’s been elevating my mood in the mornings, and what Andrew recommends for timing circadian biology to, as wise bards of yore have proclaimed, accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative [18:25], and (3) when is the ideal time to get morning light exposure, and how can we use an understanding of our body temperature minimum to shift our circadian clock if we want to avoid jet lag and the impact of working at odd hours? [23:55] to name but a few.
Nature Baths - Since our move up north I've had an opportunity to start visiting a number of nature preserves, forest preserves, and state and county parks. Some hikes are led by a naturalist which has been really enlightening to better understand what it is that I'm seeing biologically, ecologically, geologically, historically and climatically. My wife and I actually had the opportunity to participate in an archaeological dig at one of the preserves, and it was fascinating. These also allow for opportunities for trail runs, hikes and my beloved nature baths. Research shows that time spent in nature can improve our mental health and sharpen our cognition. Dr. Sam Zizzi explains how getting outside is especially important during the heightened stress and anxiety of the pandemic. It is a treat to see the sunset over the bay every evening that I am very grateful for. Bonus: The '20-5-3' Rule Prescribes How Much Time to Spend Outside
Meditation—Sorta - I had a free subscription to the premium version of Calm via a benefit from my American Express card paid membership. I've been a passive user of it with the free version for a while on an as need be basis. I very much enjoyed some specific offerings and periodically would use one of their approaches when I was having a rough time. I experimented with some of the additional features, but actually found that I didn't need to use it as much in response to anxiety and stress, because it seemed like those stresses and anxieties had been diminishing. Of course, I think that is a result of a variety of different kinds of things, not one specific approach or technique. Again, this is the inherent problem with giving advice as there so many additional intervening and extraneous variables that may or may not have a causal influence on outcome.
Quick Takes
PS: What I’m doing now seems to be working as I’m at a BMI of 21.2 (170# and 6’2”). In terms of biometrics and measuring the results of the above, it’s working well. I just had my annual labs done and all is A-Okay.
Athleticism
Stair Climbs - I thought my days of stair-climbing events were past since moving to Door County, but in honor of the 20th anniversary of 9/11, the Sturgeon Bay Fire Department hosted their first Memorial Stair Climb at the Maritime Museum. It was 10 times up and down the 11-story building equaling 110 floors in total. I *think* I was first in my geriatric age range at 44:28, and in the top three overall. It was a moving experience. Much respect.
Virtual Events – Last year I did the Everest Challenge (which got me into hill running, and to my surprise, I very much enjoyed and have now added it to my routine). This year, I learned about VirtualRunners , who develop a number of creative running challenges, worldwide. I participated in their September Guinness World Record attempt for the largest virtual 10K.
We received word that Guinness officially confirmed it. In total, there were about 40,000 successful participants. Due to the strict technical requirements, Guinness World Records confirmed 25,523.
So, these are a nice, pandemic-proof way to have a bit of community, a challenge, and often a good cause to drum-up donations for. The buzz of a traditional race has its merits, but I must say I do like the self-supported aspect and the inner-work that these can provide as well.
Murph – I suspect many of you may know of The Murph, in particular, those CrossFit folks in the audience. By way of background for those not familiar, please read the article How Murph Became the Most Legendary Fitness Challenge Ever , and it is named in honor of the late Navy SEAL Lieutenant Michael P. Murphy's personal workout. There is now the Murph Challenge . The traditional/original consists of:
If you are like me, that’s pretty intimidating, so thankfully there are some alternatives and here is a tactics to plan to prepare for your personal Murph and increase your chances of success. I know I’ll be dialing mine back a bit.
1. Commit - When you sign up at TheMurphChallenge.com, your fee goes to the LT Michael P. Murphy Memorial Scholarship Foundation. Or donate to the LT Michael P. Murphy Navy SEAL Museum, under construction in West Sayville, New York (murphsealmuseum.org).
2. Choose Your Murph
3. Scale the Moves - Not everyone can do hundreds of reps of the exercises, so scale your Murph with these substitutes.
4. Optimize Your Murph - Strength and conditioning coach Ian Creighton has helped many people train for Murph and do it fast. It’s never easy, but these tips will help.
► Start slowish: You won’t win Murph in the first mile. Run a pace that’s a minute slower than your pace for a 5K.
► Carry the load: A swaying vest can make your run awkward and slow. Hook your thumbs just above the armpits of the vest and pull it out in front of you, which will secure the weight and reduce its movement.
► Play to your weakness: “Most people run into problems on the pullups or pushups,” Creighton says. First, stay far from failure on every rep. If you can do, say, 10 pullups and 20 pushups, you’ll want to perform sets of, say, 3 pullups, 6 pushups, and 9 squats. When you start to burn out, chop up your weakest sets even further. For example, if you’re hitting snags on the pullups, you could do 2 pullups, 6 pushups, 1 pullup, and 9 squats.
► Drop the hammer: Lean into the suffering and go for broke on the final 1-mile run.
This is excerpted from the May 2021 issue of Men's Health with the headline The Legend of Murph and it’s a must read.
Fitness - If you know me, you know fitness is an important factor as obesity and early childhood physical issues conspired to make for some misery. My general protocol is a rotation of exercises that involve strength training (body-weight and free-weights) on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays are running and/or cycling (road and gravel) on hills, trails, etc. Sundays are kettlebells, and hikes with my wife are sprinkled liberally throughout each week. Daily I do yoga, planks, core, and Wim Hof breathing.
I have what I need at home for most all of my needs—trails to run and ride, easy access to nature and forest preserves and parks, chin-up bar, dumbbells, adjustable bench, kettlebells, yoga mat and block, Bosu ball, balance board, barbell plates with hand grips, and a spin bike. Thus, the pandemic did not really impact my routine.
I found hill running was both easier on joints while getting a higher aerobic/cardio benefit rather than running flats for the same distance. I found that I could do it and listen to a podcast, which, for me is less likely to do on my typical running route. That simple addition gave me something to look forward to as well. It was also a wonderful way to do my nature bathing as well. It is this kind of activity stacking that can be synergistic for mind, body and spirit—and very efficient.
Intellectual and Creative
Go - I’m learning to play Go . I have an app on my phone that’s very helpful and (kindly) coaches me. If this is an interest, take a looksee for one that fits your learning style the best.
Podcast Hosting and Producing – As a bit of an overlap from the above points, I continue to be very proud and engaged with doing my monthly podcast, Living a Life in Full . It gives me a chance to learn about a new area or go deeper into a familiar area. Being afforded the opportunity to read a guest’s newest book or to learn more about their work or how it is they do what they do is exciting, albeit a little intimidating. Getting to spend time and converse with such amazing people is also a humbling honor.
The journalistic aspect of doing background research, scripting the questions, etcetera, is also very stimulating, and yields the side-effect of an enjoyable creative process that goes into developing an episode as well. This past year there has been an increase in the number of sharp folks requesting to be on the show. I'm taking that as evidence of the show’s popularity, along with growth of our audience. Producing the show is also an opportunity for me to learn new technical tools and platforms—which the nerd in me very much enjoys.
Lyrics - My attempt at being a lyricist has been fits and starts. I have to get my head in a much different place even than when I'm writing generally. I believe I have a rough draft of the lyrics, but I'm not convinced, and I haven't yet paired it properly with the instrumental music. I will be continuing to work on this again in 2022.
Photography – I want (need) to improve my comfort and skills with my GoPro and my Nikon DSLR for shooting videos as well as stills. I plan on taking some in-person courses which should be a big help.
Stout Engineering - I recently auctioned my Ducati show bike that took forever to build. I was very proud of the result.
I’m toying with the idea of a “Ronan” build and have discussed my design ideas with a local engine guy. What would be different is that I plan on only doing consignment, bespoke builds. I really hate the feeling of “my” bike being finished and sold off. I think that if I begin with my design, but built for a specific someone else, that it will be easier for me to let it go. Click here are my past works and ideas for the Ronan .
Art – I want to get back into pencil sketching and watercolor.
And I have made the goal to familiarize myself with the works of these artists for ideas, technique and inspiration.
Reading - I also read other nonfiction that is not show related. And, of course, I keep a list. Here are the past few years’ worth.
Advice and Inspiration from Others
This is a sampler of some of what comes to my inbox that I have found particularly resonant. Please visit the sites and sources and sign up if you find them helpful as well.
Ryan Holiday - "It’s amazing how often we find ourselves using these words. Words like “unfair,” “unlucky,” “frustrating,” “unfortunate,” “annoying,” “inconvenient.” To the Stoics there was a word for these kinds of words: Opinion. Things don’t upset up , Epictetus said, our judgement about them does. Events are not fair or unfair, they just are. We make up that the stock market is good or bad, a bear or a bull. In truth, it’s just doing what it does. It’s just a reflection of perceived values at that particular moment. The more we can catch ourselves from applying these labels, the happier we will be. The more options we’ll have too. But that’s so hard!, you say. Of course it is, it goes against every impulse. Still, we always have the ability to have no opinion , Marcus says. We can catch ourselves and think, “It’s not what I wanted, but that doesn’t mean I was unlucky.” “It’s not how I would have treated someone, but that doesn’t mean this is unfair. It just is . It’s the situation we’re in. The hand we’ve been dealt. And if we spent less time calling it names, we’d have more energy and time to play the hand well, to respond to the situation. Remember this. Adjust your vocabulary accordingly." Source: Ryan Holiday
Adrienne Bankert: How Every High Achiever Should Approach Their Careers - Adrienne Bankert, an Emmy award-winning journalist and author of Your Hidden Superpower. 3 Pieces of Career Advice for High Achievers.
Jerry Saltz - How to be an Artist - “One way to think about art is that it’s a visual language--usually nonverbal arguably, pre-verbal--with the power to tell us more in the blink of an eye then we might learn an hours of listening or reading. It is a means of expression that conveys the most primal emotions: lonesomeness, silence, pain, the whole vast array of human sensation. As any writer ever found the words to capture the internal suffering and external lamentation of Rogier van der Weydan’s Descent from the Cross, 1435?
“Art is also a survival strategy. For many artists, making their work is as important, spiritually, as breathing or eating. Each day presents artists with new ideas and old beliefs, continuances and brutal breaks. Enduring beauty and decay. Revelations present themselves, then slip away. At least once in a while, all artists must feel like Penelope from Homers Odyssey--spending each day weaving tapestries from their own bank of stories, myths, fears, suppositions, dread, and personal truths, only to awaken the next morning and unweave them all, changing, mixing, improving, purposefully dismantling. The artist is on a continually evolving path, accumulating experience but always starting over.
“I have my own sort of School of Athens in my head. A team of rivals, friends, famous people, influencers, dead and alive. They’re all looking over my shoulder as I work. They all make observations, recommendations, suggestions. None of them are mean. I use music a lot. I think, OK, let’s begin this piece with a real pow! Like Beethoven. Or I listen to the Barbara Krueger in my head, who says Make this in short, punchy, declarative, aggressive. Once in a while, Led Zeppelin chimes in: Try a hairy experiment here. Let it all show, let it be weird, messy, overblown, absurd. All the Sienese paintings I’ve ever seen beg me, Make it beautiful, indulge the products of looking. D. H. Lawrence pounds on the table, demanding voice; Alexander Pope tells me to get a grip; Whitman pushes me on to merge my work with anything; Melville gets grandiose; Proust drives me to extend my sentences till they almost break and my editor step in to cut them down.
“Think about the voices in your private psychic pantheon. Get to know them they’ll always be there when things get tough.” Page 47
Ramit Sethi The Antidote to Boring - “My friend Nick Gray went to a conference on automating your life and wrote up his notes on what made one of the presenters great . The most interesting people I know all share this skill — they love to learn new things and share them with the people around them. The thing I loved most about Nick's post is that Nick didn’t need to become a professional speaker to write this post. He just tried something new and then shared what he learned. Awesome.
In fact, I valued this post so much more than someone creating a “bucket list” of how they want to become a better speaker someday. Nick showed us that you don’t need a Ph.D. or 10,000 hours to learn something new — you can do it in just a couple hours.
If you deeply absorb this, it can change your life. It’s the antidote to boring. This week, today, right now — you can learn something new, fun, and interesting. To prove it, here is a list of things you can learn in just a few hours, or minutes, with tutorials. There's something here for everyone. Pick one and give it a try:
Sunday Breakfast Club - You may also like the A Life in Full Facebook Group and its Sunday Breakfast Club posts.
Tools
Metrics Tracking - I started keeping a daily accounting of various physical goals that are important to me. I have a dedicated Moleskin for this, and while it stared as a reminder, its evolved into an accountability tool, and it also provides data for clues of what happens when I do (or don’t do what I should be).
I found doing this can be very motivating for the times in which I prefer not to do my planks or other good habits I am working on establishing. The things I keep track of are various nutritional and physical activities, such as yoga, planks, core work, tracking quality of sleep, full workouts, sauna use, weight, protein shakes, time fasting, OMAD days, etc.
Life Audit - Alicia Adamczyk wrote about the concept of a life audit from it originator, Ximena Vengoechea, in a 2014 Medium post . Vengoechea was said to have created the process in order to tune out the mundane distractions of everyday life and remind herself of the bigger picture. Alicia notes that doing so can at least offer you some clarity and control of your life.
So consider giving it a go as a revolution over resolutions as I used to say. Here is Vengoechea’s approach along with Alicia’s.
And to close with a tip-of-the-hat to our Stoic pal, Ryan Holiday and his points as to the what habits the Stoics say we ought to cease and what vices should we avoid? here are a few to consider:
Life List/Resume - Since I was a teenager I have been cooking-up and doing a bunch of challenging or interesting things, of which I keep a running tally that combines the to-do with the-done. I call mine The List or Life Resume. Take a look to see what I mean, and consider how you would design yours.
I’m still working on many of them, and will continue to evolve The List and add to it. I love the experience of accomplishing a listed goal and the subsequent treat of checking it off and having the memory of the experience.
Keep in Mind
In closing, and to repeat, we are very complex beings—biologically and psychologically. In managing our lives, we begin at a point in time and we have some options and choices. I simply recommend that we all experiment, that we try things out and on for size. Keep what works, discard what doesn’t. Tweak, iterate, experiment, and have a bit of fun. Our bodies and psyches change over time and situations, so we will always need to monitor and course-correct as need be.
Consider the setting (and reaching) of goals as more so “checkpoints” rather than “endpoints,” and to enjoy and be mindful of the associated process and journey.
Please consider this is an open invitation to join me in any of my yet to be accomplished activities. Many of you have already done them so I would warmly welcome any tips, tools, methods, recommendations, leads, hacks, contacts and/or sharing of your experience and advice.
And of course, please feel to reach out to me with any questions that I may be of help with.
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Margaret Clark Morgan Executive Director @ Cummings Center | Ph.D, Psychology | B.A, Psychology, English
2ySo much thoughtful work and joy all in one place. I think my favorite thing is that you are learning to play "Go!" Glad you are becoming strong members of your new community.