Love And Trust You To Have More

Why can't I have more?

More of what I love.

More joy in my life.

We are told to work hard.

To do our best.

Yet we face daily challenges that contradict what we are told—to keep doing our best and working harder—to achieve what? The lack of the results we seek.

How do we improve to have more of what we love and what brings us joy?

Here's some suggestions

• Stop listening to your negative inner voice. The one that criticises and finds fault with you. In what you do, say and dream of.

The hardest part of empowerment is to stop complaining to yourself or telling yourself you can't because...!

How often have you stopped yourself from doing what you love? Your inner voice kept saying, "What if?" or "You can't, you don't know how, or even you won't succeed."

Empowerment is a state of being, enabling action to bring about results.

Is what you believe, say, or how you treat yourself generally positive or negative? We can't always be positive, but we can be aware of why we are feeling down, demotivated, or running out of steam.   

Being conscious of how we treat ourselves through our thoughts and behaviours is a great way to understand what makes us who we are and what we can change to improve our results.

Question yourself: If a negative thought comes up, ask if it is true. Why do I believe this, and what evidence exists to prove or disprove it?

When you understand your thoughts and emotional responses more, you will empower yourself. You will get to choose another thought, an alternative way of thinking and behaving.

• Stop following the expected path; you are an individual, so be the unique you.

Yes, you have to earn a living, but money flows when you do what you love because you are vibrating at a higher level than if you are working a mundane job or not loving what you do.

Do you need to decide to step outside of what you tolerate to discover a whole new way of being you?

And even if you love what you do, have you found the sweet spot that lights you up? For everyone to see? Or is it like a dimmer switch turned down low because you have yet to find the ultimate centre amongst all you choose to do and be?

Sometimes, we believe we have found what makes us sing, but there are higher levels that we need to explore to appreciate ourselves and what we desire fully.

In doing so, you discover more about yourself and your passion and purpose at the soul level.

• Don't jump in feet first. When you think you have found your sweet spot, sit with your thoughts and feelings. Write down your thoughts and look at the negatives and positives.

Keep exploring your thoughts and feelings - let them guide you to the best possible outcome.

Trust yourself and your intuition—your intuition won't lie to you. It's the part of you that encourages and provides insights you have yet to be aware of.

You may still need to tweak a bit before you get to the centre. Still, it will be worth so much more emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually if you are willing to explore by listening to your intuition.

• Trusting yourself to know what is right for you. Hmm, why would you trust yourself? Things go wrong, don't they? Or that's what you say to yourself.

Trusting yourself means listening to your intuition, to the calm you that looks at life and chooses to accept that there is a force that is more significant than your ego, which will guide, encourage, and lovingly speak to you, not from a place of negativity or anger, but from love.

• Love yourself, care for you. Show yourself you matter.

We don't question ourselves as a baby, we get on with life. But as adults, we often forget to love ourselves.

Therefore loving and caring for yourself will demonstrate that you are deserving of more. 

Why? Because you recognise that you matter. When you ignore your needs for others, you indicate that you do not deserve all the things you desire in your life.

You keep your vibrational energy low. Low vibrational energy means lower success and joy as you are conflicted with what your mind is saying and your heart is seeking.

There is nothing wrong with wanting more - you deserve as much as you desire. But how high is your vibrational level? Do you look at life and say, "This is great; I know I can have more?" Or do you say, "Why can't I have what I want? Why are things so hard?"

Review your thoughts and be aware of your actions to stop yourself. Love, trust, and empower yourself by listening to your heart and intuition. Connect back to your playful self, your inner child.

Karen Bashford is a award-winning Empowerment Mentor and Soul Growth Therapist. She helps empower women, to be themselves, calmly confident to be living in the moment, rather than constantly doing. Her life and healing journey has been full of abuse and trauma, with her acquired knowledge and wisdom, she now works with women of 40+ who sense they want more, but are self-sabotaging. It all starts with a 30 minute exploratory call. DM to arrange your exploratory call.