When Teachers Can Identify Symptoms of Anxiety, They'll Be Better Able to Support Their Students.
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Schools can be breeding grounds for anxiety. Exhausting schedules, demanding courses, and a litany of other stressors create a high-pressure environment that can overwhelm students.
Anxiety is biological. The brain is not fully developed until 25 years of age, and adolescence, in particular, is a time when major changes take place. Teenage brains are still learning to manage emotion, making middle and upper school students especially vulnerable to anxious feelings.
Identifying responses to anxiety inducing stressors
When you perceive a threat—whether emotionally or physically—your body automatically initiates a survival response. Adrenaline and cortisol (stress hormones) begin pumping through your system, activating the fight-flight-freeze response to keep you safe. During fight-flight-freeze, your heart rate becomes elevated, your palms begin to sweat, breathing becomes rapid, and thoughts race. These changes are your body’s way to prepare you to either confront the danger or flee from the threat.
For students, fight-flight-freeze might manifest as avoidance, fidgeting, isolation, defiance, unresponsiveness, and anger, among other symptoms. A lack of sleep, a lack of social connections, and social media use can exacerbate these symptoms.
Here’s what fight-flight-freeze might look like for students.
“Fight” Reaction: Confront the threat aggressively or defensively. Example: Yelling at a family member when the student is not able to find their backpack.
“Flight” Reaction: Run or flee from danger. Example: Panicking and hiding because they're worried when summoned to the Principal's office.
“Freeze” Reaction: Unable to move or act against the threat. Example: Forgetting what they had studied when taking a test and they stumble over the first question—worrying about disappointing their parents.
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Emotional Coaches: Assisting and coaching students through irrational anxiety
When students express their anxiety or exhibit its symptoms, teachers should validate their feelings and ask empowering questions. Instructions like “calm down” and “it’s not a big deal” are dismissive and unhelpful.
Instead, consider the role of emotional coaches—individuals who use moments of heightened emotion and resulting behavior to guide and teach a young person about more effective responses. Emotional coaches can be teachers, advisors, or guidance counselors. The goal of the emotional coach is to approach students with compassion rather than judgment, creating a safe space for students by asking what they need and what they believe causes their anxiety.
Most important, emotional coaches prioritize building students’ emotional intelligence, making them more self-aware and empathetic. They help students understand that while their feelings are legitimate, they are also temporary.
Children thrive in an environment of high empathy, compassion, and guidance. By acknowledging students’ feelings and empowering them to work through these emotions, you can help them grow into thoughtful, independent, and resilient adults.
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