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A Christmas that changed me

Writers look back to the festive season that turned their lives around

  • From left: friends Owen and Sally with Jane and Rhymer in Chile, late December 2002

    A Christmas that changed me: my life was an adventure holiday – and I just wanted to settle down

    It was fun to climb mountains, visit glaciers and slide down volcanoes, until the thought of a house and kids began to seem more exciting
  • Rowan Hisayo Buchanan on Hampstead Heath.

    A Christmas that changed me: I was in no mood to celebrate. Then came an epiphany on Hampstead Heath

    As I entered the final weeks of pregnancy, I didn’t want to wallow but nor could I summon any sparkle. On a walk with my family, I had a sudden sense of the ineffable
  • ‘The holiday didn’t really kick off until the announcement “Christmas is ruined!” was made’ ... from left: Tim’s brother, Chris, his sister, Melissa, Tim, sister Lynn, his dad and mother, circa 1989.

    A Christmas that changed me: My family was grieving and behaving oddly – so my wife took us to Norfolk

    After my mother’s death, I thought my American family would appreciate the escape of a British Christmas. But we learned that grief has long arms and singular patience
  • Lucy Fulford and her mother, pictured with the goose in transit on Christmas Day in 2017.

    A Christmas that changed me: the oven broke – and I rid myself of expectations

  • Hannah Williams (seated, left) with friends during a break from teaching in Wuhan, China

    A Christmas that changed me: I dragged myself to work – and had one of the best moments of my life

  • Nell Frizzell with her mother and grandmother by a Christmas tree

    A Christmas that changed me: the spliff was as big as a parsnip – and Granny got stoned

  • From left: sister Tracey, Rachel aged eight, her mother Pauline and sister Samantha.

    A Christmas that changed me: I was late for lunch – and learned an important lesson

  • ‘I finished my day a slightly different person to the one who started’ … Hadas Hagos and Maurice Mcleod at Christmas, 2022.

    A Christmas that changed me: I distributed meals on my bike – and found friendship behind every door

  • Chloe Timms at home in Kent.

    A Christmas that changed me: I found my self-confidence on a hellish journey home

  • ‘The two punches I had been hit with taught me more than anything I’d done to get my green belt’ … Joel Snape, pictured while training at a Shaolin temple, circa 2003.

    A Christmas that changed me: I got punched in the face – twice

    I was waiting with some friends to get chips when the first blow landed. Then came another. I ran off and soon signed up for a muay thai class
  • ‘I found myself swaying even when I wasn’t holding her’ … Dale Berning Sawa with baby Tsubamé in January 2014.

    A Christmas that changed me: I was a sleep-deprived new mother. My Mum’s friend saved the day

    Hazel was as much at sea as I was. But we were able to help each other and having her there meant the world to me
  • ‘I’ll never take the joy of Christmas for granted again’ … Irenosen Okojie, right, with her mother at Christmas.

    A Christmas that changed me: My love for the season was dwindling fast – but my Mum saved it

    Last year, my mother’s sudden loss of vision made me despair. But I had underestimated her strength – and her determination that we would all have a good time
  • Ann Lee with her mum, Tim Kiu Lee

    A Christmas that changed me: the miracle of my last months with my mother

    As a family, we put more effort than usual into our celebrations that year, as Mum struggled with cancer. It taught me something indelible and important
  • ‘Hosting Christmas for the first time made us feel like adults’ … Rich Pelley and Phil in Sydney.

    A Christmas that changed me: my best friend and I celebrated in Australia – and finally felt like adults

    We were spending Christmas far from home. Very far. It wasn’t easy finding sprouts in Sydney, but the memories formed the basis of a lifelong bond
  • Jenny Stevens, circa 2013.

    A Christmas that changed me: I ended up on all fours in A&E having my buttocks syringed

    It was just a cup of steaming mint tea – but when it spilled into my lap and onto my seat, the enormous blisters were inevitable
  • ‘It absolutely blew my mind’ … Tom Fletcher (in striped jumper) and Chris Tarrant, pictured during their trip to Lapland in 1992.

    A Christmas that changed me: at seven, I won a magical trip to Lapland with Chris Tarrant

    We slept in log cabins, went ice fishing and found Santa, all of which was broadcast live. When the producers asked me to sing Silent Night, it was the start of my career
  • Shirley Ballas celebrating Christmas.

    After my brother died, we barely celebrated Christmas. Then I fell in love and a switch turned on

    Fifteen years after losing David, I was in Liverpool, appearing in pantomime. The city was glittering, romance was in the air, and I suddenly felt ready for the festivities
  • Photo of SCAFFOLD<br>UNITED KINGDOM - JANUARY 01: TOP OF THE POPS Photo of SCAFFOLD, John Gorman, Mike McGear, Roger McGough (Photo by Ivan Keeman/Redferns)

    Our song was Christmas No 1 and we wanted to watch it on TV. So we knocked on a stranger’s door

    It was Christmas Eve 1968 and Lily the Pink by the Scaffold was top of the charts. We were a long way from home - and desperate to see our performance
  • Tabitha Lasley (on left) with her sister (in white) and two cousins.

    My sister was getting married, my father was in hospital – and I realised my relationship was over

    I suddenly saw that life wasn’t all that long and you should spend it with people you love. I made a private pact with myself, to stop lying. I would not marry him
  • Rabindranath Tagore, Santa Claus and God.

    At six, I realised the truth about Santa. How deep did the lies go?

    I had a lot of existential questions. What is death? What if the dead wake in their coffins? And who was going to deliver my presents: Santa, God or Rabindranath Tagore?
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