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A moment that changed me

Writers reflect on a moment when their life turned on its axis

  • Rebecca Watson photographed at home in London, 2023

    A moment that changed me: My body was wedged between the train and platform – and my mortality rushed towards me

    The grip of my shoes was nonexistent and I skidded as I ran for the tube. I threw my arm through the closing doors. For a second, I felt completely disembodied
  • Zing Tsjeng holding a pink bag and wearing black shoes

    A moment that changed me: my feet appeared on a kink website that gets 20m views a month

    Sexualising my lower digits was bad enough. To be given the equivalent of a pat on the head and told ‘nice try’ was an indignity too far
  • A leatherback turtle, the largest of all sea turtles.

    A moment that changed me: I dived into the shadows of a shipwreck – and saw the 5ft turtle that altered everything

    After a season of loss and sadness, scuba diving had brought me some peace. When the beast burst out of the wreckage to join me, it provided an invaluable lesson in perspective
  • Sarah Brooks sitting on grass with rocky mountains in the background

    A moment that changed me: I walked into the party, shy and anxious. I walked out a whole new woman

    When I boarded the train at Beijing I felt timid, a cautious traveller. But a chaotic and vodka-soaked party set me off on a very different path
  • Bibi Lynch – journalist, writer and broadcaster –wearing a leopard print coat and sunglasses smiling leaning over a railing with pretty houses behind her

    A moment that changed me: I’m 58 and single since 1997. A Sex and the City meme transformed my life

    My first and only proper relationship ended the day after Princess Diana died. There followed years of dalliances and situationships, before I realised something crucial about myself
  • Close-up of Kathryn Tann in the sea – for A Moment that Changed Me

    A moment that changed me: After seven years of hiding my skin, I washed my makeup away in the sea

    I had felt self-conscious for so long, but then I held my breath and put my head underwater. It was the start of a slow, determined journey back to my own body
  • Michelle Spencer in a padded jacket, hat and scarf in the snow in Alberta, Canada

    A moment that changed me: I cured my 3am terrors with the help of a therapist – and a moose

    After cancer, my health anxieties kept me awake at night. But when a marauding moose put paid to our well, our only source of water, I felt my mindset shift
  • Ammar Kalia in Haridwar in 2019.

    A moment that changed me: Should I laugh or cry? When I scattered my grandmother’s ashes, I did both

    She hadn’t lived in India for 50 years, but her last request was to be returned to the place of her birth. On the banks of the Ganges there were tears – but also all the chaos, hustle and humour of life
  • Cath Hill, second from right, with the Manchester Survivor’s Choir in 2018.

    A moment that changed me: I survived a terror attack – and found healing through a choir

    After escaping the deadly attack at the Manchester Arena with my son, I suffered with survivors’ guilt. So I decided to do something positive to help
  • Sam Pyrah

    A moment that changed me: I thought fitness was my superpower. Then I realised it was a ball and chain

    Running had been my identity, my career, my life. One beautiful spring day, I realised it wasn’t enough
  • ‘To the trained eye, it was littered with mistakes. But I forced mine to see the bigger picture’ … Kathryn Wheeler on her big day.

    A moment that changed me: I made my own wedding dress – and learned to embrace imperfection

    A bloodstain here, a wonky seam there: it had its flaws, but so do I. And I’m absolutely fine with that
  • Silvia Rothlisberger sitting on her van on the roadside in New Zealand

    A moment that changed me: joyriders destroyed my van in New Zealand – which led to a lovely life in London

    Without the van, my husband and I had no urgent reason to live in Wellington. The short European adventure we had planned soon became much more
  • Darren Edwards, pictured during an expedition across Iceland’s Vatnajokull Glacier in April 2023

    A moment that changed me: I was paralysed on a climb. Then I made the 100-mile journey back to myself

    Seven years after a terrible fall, I teamed up with two other disabled sportsmen to scale Iceland’s highest peak. With each drive of my poles into the snow, I came closer to the man I’d once been
  • Claire McGowan prepares to go skiing in Bulgaria in 2013.

    A moment that changed me: I was divorced, broke and alone – but I turned my life around with a list

    I decided to try everything I had ever wanted to do: standup comedy, speaking Spanish, running, swimming and sailing. On the other side of fear, I learned, lay all the best experiences
  • Kyo and her mother.

    A moment that changed me: I yearned to know my father’s identity – and in the garden, my mother opened up

    After taking a DNA test, I had lots of questions for my mother. But it wasn’t until we took our conversations outside, working together in my scrubby yard, that I began to get some answers
  • Jade Angeles Fitton on the isle of Lundy, off the Devon coast

    A moment that changed me: my partner drove off and left me – and in solitude I found my self-confidence

    When my relationship imploded, I chose to remain alone and isolated. It was the start of a new, much happier life, in which I became the safe place I could always return to
  • Marco Seitelmann running an event in 2014

    A moment that changed me: I survived the Boston marathon bombing – but broke down when I ran again

    After witnessing the deadly attack, I struggled with daily life and lost my passion for running. At the Frankfurt marathon, six months later, the emotional toll caught up with me
  • Katy Massey and her mother sitting by a gas fire, with a cat

    A moment that changed me: I discovered my mother was a sex worker

    As a judgmental 10-year-old, I was shocked and ashamed when I walked in on Mam with a client. Decades later, I realised what a remarkable woman she was
  • Elizabeth Endicott, pictured in Antarctica Credit: Nikki Beard

    A moment that changed me: I went skinny-dipping in Antarctica – and realised I could survive anything

    Stalking was making my life at McMurdo Station a misery. In the ice-covered sea, I discovered how much the world still had to give
  • Paul Moss and Mr Tienh at Phanat Nikhom

    A moment that changed me: I patronised a refugee – and he taught me an invaluable lesson

    When Mr Tienh offered to treat me to lunch, I declined, embarrassed, assuming he couldn’t afford it. This insult to his dignity led to a flash of insight that would last a lifetime
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