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How we met

Readers tell the story of how their love or friendship blossomed

  • Delia (left) and Catie in Manchester, 2024.

    How we met: ‘I couldn’t imagine the day without her in it’

    Catie, 37, and Delia, 36, met in 2013 when they were trainee solicitors. They quickly became best friends
  • Meenakshi and Sankar in Chennai in 2012.

    How we met: ‘I thought straight away he was someone I wanted to marry’

    Meenakshi, 61, and Sankar, 64, met in the 1980s in Chennai and were already talking about marriage before their second date. They now live together in New Zealand
  • Jo (left) and Julie - in sunny Spetses, Greece, June 2024

    How we met: ‘I told her all about my wild exploits in college – I wanted to shock her’

    Joanna, 52, and Julie, 49, met on a school exchange trip in 1989, then lost touch. An early email directory brought them back together and led to some of the best times of their lives
  • Pip and Steve in Chicago, on the Skydeck, 2022.

    How we met: ‘We wobbled into each other for a hug and kiss. I always say I walk like a drunken camel’

    Pip, 55, and Steve, 53, met through a Facebook dating group for people with hereditary spastic paraplegia. Despite living on opposite sides of the Atlantic, they fell in love
  • ‘Being around her is relaxing and I’ve never felt I had to work at the conversation’ … Frances (left) and Laine.

    How we met: ‘I sensed she wasn’t keen on me. I can come on a bit strong’

    Frances and Laine, both 39, met while working at a primary school in New Jersey in 2009. They did not immediately hit it off
  • Loretta and partner for G2 - How we met Pictured in Stoke Rochford, 2023

    How we met: ‘I’d stopped appreciating new things because I was always on my own. Now, I really enjoy them’

    When Mark, 67, and Loretta, 64, met playing golf, neither was expecting to fall in love. They live in Nottingham and spend as much time as possible together
  • ‘I thought she seemed very friendly and someone I could get on with’ … Alex (left) and Jules.

    How we met: ‘She agreed to long, arduous bike rides just to support me through cancer’

    Alex and Jules, both 50, met as neighbours in Leigh-on-Sea. Then Jules was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer. It led to a surprising decade of sporting adventures
  • Close up of How We Met couple Bjorn and Jos - both bearded and mustachioed, with Jos's moustache between Bjorn's teeth

    How we met: ‘I worried about the age gap – but being with him felt perfect’

    Jos, 64, and Bjørn, 47, were introduced by a mutual friend in 2011. They’ve supported each other through mental health trauma and are now happily settled near Amsterdam
  • Jane and Kristi in California in 2016.

    How we met: ‘She was so glamorous – I was terrified’

    Jane, 60, and Kristi, 53, met on a trip to Scotland in 2012. They live on different continents, but visit one another every year
  • Varad and Rasika.

    How we met: ‘I couldn’t just go with the flow – so I told him I had romantic feelings’

    Rasika, 29 and Varad, 27, met while working for an NGO in rural India. A health crisis brought them closer together and they now live together in Oxford, UK
  • Sarah (left) and Joanna posing with the flags of Antigua and Barbuda and St Vincent and the Grenadines respectively in London, 2021

    How we met: ‘We went straight into sharing a bed and a bathroom with no door’

    Joanna and Sarah, both 28, were strangers when they decided to live together while studying abroad in Paris, but they bonded over a series of housing disasters
  • Philippa and Jack

    How we met: ‘I cried because the bar didn’t have any pizza and he comforted me’

    Philippa, 32, and Jack, 30, met at a post-election party in 2019. They plan to marry in September and move to Spain
  • Barb Jungr and Julian Clary, pictured at The Café Carlyle in 2009

    How Julian Clary and Barb Jungr met: ‘We both follow our hearts – and we both have psychic skills’

    Comedian Julian Clary and singer-songwriter Barb Jungr met in 1985 on the same cabaret bill. Friends ever since, they have performed together and speak nightly on the phone, having helped each other through bereavement
  • Les and Anna

    How we met: ‘From the first moment I felt a sense of happiness’

    Anna, 36, and Les, 32, met in Kyiv in 2016. Now based in Vienna, they hope to return to Ukraine
  • Natalie and Beccy in 2023.

    How we met: ‘She accosted me and told me she’d looked me up on Facebook’

    Beccy, 49, and Natalie, 60, became best friends after she visited Natalie’s rescue farm in Ontario, Canada. They now run events together on the farm and love travelling together
  • Steve and Lisa sitting in a coffee shop

    How we met: ‘It felt like chatting with an old friend rather than meeting for the first time’

    Steve, 65, and Lisa, 67, met in the mid-90s on an early online messaging system while on opposite sides of the Atlantic. They now live together near Cambridge
  • Bart and Alice in Los Angeles in 2021.

    How we met: ‘We lost touch for years – then bumped into each other in Belgium’

    Bart, 61 and Alicia, 56, became friends as students in Washington DC in the 1980s. A chance encounter in the 1990s led to a life-changing bond
  • Bethany and Rachael on their wedding day in July 2022.

    How we met: ‘I found Bethany attractive – but I thought she was straight’

    Rachael, 40, and Bethany, 38, bonded over their love of a TV show, not imagining this would lead to a romantic relationship. They now live together in Norfolk
  • Hannah and Izzy in Dublin in 2005.

    How we met: ‘I tell her things I’ll never tell anyone else – what we have is so special’

    Hannah, 41, and Izzy, 42, met in a nightclub before starting the same college course in the 90s. They both live in Suffolk and remain friends and soulmates two decades later
  • A couple from Suffolk called Chris and Sarah

    How we met: ‘To suddenly find someone is amazing. He has rejuvenated me!’

    Sarah, 66, and Chris, 70, met 10 years ago when she worked for him as an architect. They now live together in Suffolk, in the home she designed for him
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