Leading questions
An advice column from philosopher Eleanor Gordon-Smith, taking an inquisitive approach to life's puzzles and grey areas
My long-term partner says he wants an open relationship. I understand why, but it feels one-sided. What should we do?
One question to ask is how this arrangement might feel for you, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. Whatever you decide, it’s important not to constantly feel like this is an open question
Our neighbours never return my son’s ball when it goes over the hedge. How can I get it back without conflict?
Your neighbours may see the matter as disrespect in projectile form, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. An apology, a request and a direct conversation is better than petty revenge