How did the second time compare with losing my “first” virginity? It was certainly more memorable

The conflicted man

‘To me, young women all look the same; but older women are distinctive and uniquely beautiful – they have become the people they are meant to be’

‘Rather than feeling sexually repressed, it’s given me a kind of freedom’

The woman longing for a celibate marriage

The Christian polyandrist

I was aware of every muscle in my body and began to understand the interplay with my breathing

The 46-year-old virgin

‘My inner Sid James has been replaced by a benign old gentleman’

I’m happily dating four people, who are aware of each other. How can we expect one partner to meet all our desires?

I’m not sure where the fear comes from exactly, even after months of therapy

I have no interest in wearing heels, or any women’s clothing. But I like to handle them

When my husband first suggested swinging, it took me 10 years to agree – and then I was instantly hooked

Because I kept buying her flowers and putting off being intimate, she thought I might be having an affair

We have occasional hugs and brief kisses, but that’s it. He doesn’t seem to care

He visits my wife and I once a month or more. It’s an arrangement that has saved our marriage

It became an erotic fantasy: I liked my wife being on the internet, knowing only I could have what her subscribers wanted

The Mormon waiting for the right woman

All my attempts at intimacy have been fraught with shame and secrecy