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Guardian readers solve your problems
My teenage son shows no interest in school
I’ve tried being as encouraging as possible, but nothing seems to work. And now I’m worried his younger siblings will follow in his footsteps
My friend has become worryingly anxious about coronavirus. What should I do?
They are isolating themselves completely, but insist nothing is wrong. I don’t know whether to intervene or let them be
My ex-girlfriend contacted me during lockdown. Is it callous to ignore her?
When we broke up after 10 years, I decided not to speak to her again as the relationship had been volatile and she had cheated on me
How can I stop being attracted to deeply damaged men?
My father was an abusive alcoholic and everyone I have been involved with in recent years has had addiction issues. How can I escape this negative pattern?
Should we snoop on our nine-year-old's covert internet use?
Since finding TikTok, our eldest has become secretive about what she’s looking at, which may influence her sisters. But we worry that using an app to track her usage is snooping
My fiancee left me for another man. Will I ever be able to trust again?
I feel humiliated and abandoned and don’t know how to move on after such a bad betrayal
I'm worried that my father is smoking and vaping too much
He is vaping the equivalent of 30 cigarettes a day and smoking roll-ups, but gets angry if criticised about it. What can I do?
A school bully ruined my life 50 years ago. Should I expose him now on Facebook?
My tormentor subjected me to brutal homophobic abuse – today he is married to a man and well thought of. Will telling my story publicly help overcome the hurt?
I’m middle aged and my mother has died. Is it too late to build a family of my own?
As her main carer, she filled a huge part of my emotional life. But I am acutely aware of not having a partner, and sometimes feel like a failure
Covid-19 has put a terrible strain on my marriage. What can I do?
Our life together is nothing but cryptic sighs, sullen glares and fights about money. I don’t know how to endure more months of furlough like this
My childhood left me traumatised. Will I ever find a partner?
Men are attracted to me but soon lose interest, perhaps because I am so intense. I’m losing all hope of a happy relationship
I've shared lockdown with my new boyfriend. Should he move in properly?
We got together at Christmas and we’ve enjoyed living together. I’m wondering if we should make it permanent
My partner has been seeing another woman for years
He is psychologically abusive towards me but treats her much better. How can I stop thinking about them and be happy?
My ex is breaking lockdown to visit her parents with our five-year-old son
This is a serious breach of trust, but I am wary of raising it because she is likely to react angrily and defensively and further damage our relationship
Should I tell my mother that my father is cheating on her?
I confronted my dad over his affair with a woman and although he promised to end it, he’s still seeing her. Is it time to tell my mum?
I got intimate with one of my lodgers and now I'm in turmoil
I have always maintained a professional relationship with my two female lodgers but spending more time together recently led to a lapse in judgment
My brother cut contact with me after a misunderstanding. How can I repair the relationship?
I was suffering with anxiety and OCD when I missed a meeting that meant a lot to him. I am now expecting a child, but my happiness is tinged with sadness at this loss
I love my partner – but he always feigns ignorance of household chores
He is an intelligent man, who has no reason to make childish domestic queries. Does he do this simply because I am a woman?
I am disillusioned with the gay scene and worry no one will ever accept me
I am now at an age when I want a career and to settle down and start a family, but I am afraid of rejection
My two adult children fell out over money – now they refuse to talk
They stopped speaking two years ago and won’t consider reconciliation. Is there anything that could help heal this rift?
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