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Self and wellbeing

Mind and body experts reveal what the latest research tells us about ourselves – and how it can help us live better.

  • Wellbeing Ranking Friends WEB

    Ever thought of ranking your friends in silly, random categories?

    It may sound childish and potentially dangerous, but actually it’s a novel way of really getting to know each other
  • Nathalie Olah

    I never realised how much freedom and comfort softness could bring

    It’s easy enough to get lured into adopting a brittle persona, but there are other ways to live your life
  • Jenny Knight shot for OM

    How returning to competitive sport after 25 years taught me resilience – and the joy of new friends

    Jenny Knight, an author who was a teen world rowing champion, is rediscovering the benefits of exercise after joining a local netball team
  • Lisa Wright leaning against a tree looking pensive

    I was alone in my grief when my parents died – but missing them gave me the answer

    As an only child, when my mum and dad both died within three months of each other, the walls of my reality crumbled – suddenly, I was an adult orphan
  • Solo writing retreat

    How a solo retreat helped relight my creative fire

    It felt selfish, but at home I couldn’t finish a thought without being interrupted by my kids – so I packed my bags and headed to the coast
  • Tim Dowling leaning backwards, holding a giant magnet, against blue background

    ‘Clearly, I have no rizz’: can a 60-year-old misanthrope polish up his pulling power?

    Love Islanders have it, daters want it and TikTok influencers will teach you how to get it – but rizz (a close cousin of charisma) is hard to fabricate
  • Anna Katharina Schaffner HI RES 190224 Obs AS 825 F

    Feeling exhausted? Here’s how to fight the weariness

    Try these top tips for managing your energy more wisely
  • Duncan Passmore-6

    When our young son died, we decided to build him a boat

    Wild Cat Island had always held a special place in the imagination of our son, so after his funeral we chose to try and send him on one last journey
  • Samuel Burr sitting at a table, smiling and looking relaxed, with a mug of coffee on the table

    ‘We’ve talked for hundreds of hours’: the joy of volunteering as a telephone friend

    We’re 50 years apart and have never met, but my connection with Pauline is deeper than I could have imagined
  • David Robson writer

    How learning about the science of shyness helped me

    I’ve managed to conquer my fears and build great friendships, says David Robson
  • Illustration of a woman, in pink leggings, a white vest and with bare feet, bouncing off a giant speaker, with sound waves coming from it, as if it's a trampoline

    Music helps you get fit – but the right mix will keep you coming back…

    Finding tunes with a tempo and rhythm to match your heart rate can help you keep the pace when you exercise – and make it more enjoyable
  • Observer Magazine<br>SELF - Author Harriet Tyce,at home in London. Writes about her relationship with alcohol adn how it plays out in her novels.

    ‘I was 49 when I had my last drink’: Harriet Tyce

    After drinking and making a fool of herself for 35 years, the writer realised that’s not how she wanted to be remembered
  • Julia Cameron, the author of "The Artist's Way," at home in Santa Fe.

    ‘My own inner critic is a bully’: Julia Cameron on creative demons and updating The Artist’s Way

    Creativity guru Julia Cameron has long inspired others. Now she’s sharing her own secret weapon
  • ‘I felt like a failure… when others seemed to find it easy’: Danyah Miller.

    Being diagnosed with dyslexia has made me happier

    Throughout her life, Danyah Miller developed coping mechanisms to help deal with certain challenges. Would she have thrived if she had known about dyslexia, or would a label have limited her?
  • ‘I sometimes found myself languishing in the romanticism of the past’: Agnes Arnold-Forster.

    That yearning feeling: why we need nostalgia

    Often misused by politicians, nostalgia is a positive emotion that could do with a makeover
  • Maxine Nwaneri - Author - shot for OM

    ‘I now know that anything is possible’: from a women’s shelter to Cambridge University

    No matter how low you sink, your dreams can still come true: one woman’s inspirational story, by Maxine Nwaneri
  • Ali Smith, 54, author of The Ballad of Speedball Baby: A Memoir, enjoying the calm of medieval cobbled street, Elm Hill, in her new home city of Norwich. Joshua Bright for The Guardian

    New York v Norwich: what my move across the Atlantic taught me

    What happens when a native New Yorker uproots her life and moves to Norfolk?
  • Observer Magazine<br>SELF - writer Sheela Banerjee, - Sari Journey - photographed at home in London.

    Material world: how the sari connected me to my past

    The colours and fabrics of my mother’s old saris are a thread linking me to my Indian ancestors
  • Tom Shakespeare shot for OM

    ‘I wanted people to laugh not at me, but with me’: Tom Shakespeare

    The activist, academic and now novelist explains why, when you use a wheelchair, it’s good to be able to see the funny side. By Donna Ferguson
  • Abigail (right) and Ruth.

    A friendship dating back to teenage years is one to treasure, especially during a crisis

    It’s not easy to maintain the closeness of the relationships of our youth but friends we grew up with deserve a special effort, writes Abigail Dean
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