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The divorce survival guide

Guardian writers gather to commiserate on one of life's most difficult ordeal: getting a divorce

  • ‘You have to admit that you have lost.’

    How to survive a divorce: find acceptance after falling apart

    Amid the pain of a failed marriage, it is impossible to forgive your former partner. But it is possible to come to terms with the split – by admitting you have lost
  • ‘In many cases, judges still consider a woman the more natural caretaker.’

    Dads' rights: the rise of firms for fathers going through divorce

    Many men feel they get a raw deal from the family court system when it comes to custody and access to their children. But are specialist lawyers the answer?
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    Parenting after divorce: the art of not being ugly

    Having separate homes may not qualify as ‘bird’s nest custody’. But by building a whole new relationship with your ex, the spirit of nesting can help maintain a healthy environment for your children
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    'I was totally knocked sideways': readers share their stories of divorce

  • Suzanne Finnamore, with her son Pablo, 10, at home in 2009.

    'What should I have done differently?' A conversation with my son about divorce

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    The moment our marriage was over: 'With a few words, she destroyed my life'

    I never expected to fall in love again in the waning years of middle age, with a failed marriage behind me. But this love did not lend to living together as spouses
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    The moment our marriage was over: 'I shook as I held his cellphone'

    When my husband came home from a work trip and was different, it wasn’t long before I discovered why – but it took his refusal to change to get me to finally draw the line in the sand
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    Marriage advice and bullet holes: lessons from my mother, the divorce lawyer

    Mom and Dad practiced law in our family home and while my childhood was happy, the specter of divorce haunts my own marriage – but that’s OK
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    The moment my marriage was over: 'I found my husband smoking meth'

    What I didn’t recognize for a long time after my husband left was that this was not about our marriage or our child. It was about his unrelenting addiction
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    The moment our marriage was over: 'I saw a complete lack of kindness'

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    Heartbreak specialists: how Mississippi bluesmen got me through my divorce

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    The moment my marriage was over: 'What if he hadn’t read my email?'

    Sometimes I wonder if we would have gotten divorced if he hadn’t read my emails expressing doubts about our marriage
  • Thomas Haden Church and Sarah Jessica Parker star in HBO’s new series, Divorce.

    The good, the bad, the ugly: share your divorce stories with us

    We’re launching a series of stories all about divorce – the messy parts, the surprising moments of levity, what comes after – and we want to hear from you
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    The moment my marriage was over: 'I had no idea I was living with a drug dealer'

    I was a student holding the military draft at bay, and she was a pampered girl who liked to party – and I knew it was over 48 hours after we were married
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    Seven things I wish I'd known before my divorce: an optimistic guide to the future

    The abrupt end of my 18-year relationship left me traumatized. But as I round out the first year, I wish I could hug that poor woman and tell her these truths
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