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Adopting views

Adopting views is a regular Society Guardian column by Jane Green, the pseudonym for a mother of two adopted daughters. She writes about the behavioural impact of the abuse her daughters suffered as young children before they were adopted and the lack of support to help them, and her, deal with it
  • Teenaged girl with horse

    Why did I need to write about my adopted daughters?

    Jane Green: If I've helped raise awareness that children who have suffered abuse and trauma need far greater support, then the stress of writing was worth it
  • A womans hands close up with red painted finger nails holding a smart phone

    Who will pay the price for my daughter's misdemeanours?

    My younger daughter is stealing from us and I worry she's spiralling out of control again. It seems like there's nowhere to turn

  • 'The nurses also know that when Jess was put on the pill, she got pregnant within weeks'.

    The pull of my daughter's phantom child still drags her down

    Jane Green: We all agree she shouldn't get pregnant, but she tells people that she is, and posts pictures of babies on her Facebook page
  • sad teenager

    I hear my adopted daughter sing, and what I hear is pain and confusion

    Jane Green
    Jane Green: What happens if her boyfriend goes to prison? My daughter's songs are incredibly painful to listen to. Then she asks me: 'Would you be sad if I died?'
  • Teenage girl on bench

    How to keep a lid on my adopted daughter's violent anger

    Jane Green
    Jane Green: I discover my daughter is on the warpath - but any further trouble could land her in custody. What support is there for adopted teenagers with a history of abuse?
  • It turns out that the visitor is from a loan company.

    The consequences of being abused as a young child run on and on

    Jane Green
    Jane Green: A mother of two adopted daughters who were abused as children, I struggle to deal with the daily fallout, as my elder daughter invites strangers into our home
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