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Why am I like this?

Elle Hunt explores how to live well in the modern world

  • illustration of person wearing blue top sits at green chair and looks to the left

    Why do I feel like I’m stuck in a ‘waiting room’, hoping for my life to get started?

    Joy can feel elusive in today’s economy – a counsellor talks to us about moving the needle from surviving to thriving
  • illustration of a woman holding a tablet with posts in the air around her saying things like 'ur cancelled'

    Everyone’s so intolerant online. Am I right to stay silent?

    Call-out culture has left many of us afraid of posting. Africa Brooke offers suggestions for navigating online hostility
  • ‘In late 2020 the cumulative toll hit and, after six months of working almost around the clock, I broke down at my computer mid-sentence.’

    Is it possible to break the cycle of burnout for good?

    The cycle of busy periods, burnout and recovery has started to feel grimly predictable. Are we doomed to repeat it forever – or can we develop immunity?
  • If you spend most of your time by yourself, and not by choice, alone time may feel like a burden.

    I like my own company. But do I spend too much time alone?

    With growing numbers of people living without partners and children, and working from home, more of us are spending time alone. But is this actually a problem?
  • illustration of a locket broken in half. One side says 'best' and the other says 'friend'

    In the age of ‘toxicity’, are we walking away from friendships too quickly?

    As platonic relationships receive more attention, both good and bad, we may be erring by trying to ‘optimise’ our friendships
  • illustration of two similar looking male faces with a tick and a cross next to them

    I keep dating the same type of person. Should I break my own habits?

    Having a type isn’t necessarily an issue – but it can become problematic when inconsistent with our desires
  • Illustration of a woman in a yellow dress wearing a party hat.

    Beer, vaping and scrolling: my bad habits make me feel good. What do I do?

    Is there a gentler way of thinking about vices – one that doesn’t make us feel like villains?
  • Intuition

    Everyone has an opinion – but my gut is telling me differently. Should I trust it?

    Our intuition can reflect knowledge or understanding that is well-founded but just below the level of our awareness
  • illustration of an adult wearing a baby onesie and with a dummy in their mouth

    I’m an adult. Why do I regress under my parents’ roof?

    Millennials and gen Zers are striving to become their grown-up selves. But around their parents, that self-development goes out the window
  • illustration of a woman sitting in front of mountains with a child

    People say you’ll know – but will I regret not having children?

    I’m scared of picking the wrong path. But we owe it to our future selves to truly consider what’s behind the question
  • illustration of a person standing in front of an image of a dream home, with smaller images of phone screens overlayed

    Why we can’t stop looking at homes we’ll never own

    Property listings are Elle Hunt’s biggest weakness. Introducing her new column about modern happiness, why am I like this?
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