❤️ Empathy Over Education 🏫
As health and fitness professionals, we often live by the ethos of taking personal responsibility for our health. Exercise and healthy eating aren’t just habits for us—they're a lifestyle, a passion, sometimes even a mission. We’re driven to share the benefits of exercise and nutrition, hoping that with enough education, people will “see the light” and adopt healthier behaviors.
But let’s be honest: the ones engaging with our posts, liking our content, and resharing our material are usually already on the same journey. They’re the ones who already prioritize fitness and health. So, are we really reaching those who need this information the most—the sedentary, those who don’t prioritize nutrition, or those who aren’t yet motivated to change? I don’t believe they’re one Instagram post away from starting a workout routine just because we talk about the benefits of resistance training as we age.
We see ourselves as educators, sharing knowledge and expertise, yet the needle hasn’t moved much on improving the physical activity level of the U.S. population. We know exercise is critical for preventing disease and enhancing quality of life. So why aren’t more people embracing it?
Maybe it’s time we shift our approach. Instead of leading with education, let’s lead with empathy. Instead of assuming what people need, let’s get curious about their values. What makes life meaningful to them? What are their hopes and dreams for the future? What do they envision for their later years?
This isn’t an opportunity to jump in with, “Well, you should start an exercise program because it will help you with that walking tour of Europe.” It’s a chance to make people feel seen, understood, and heard—without an agenda. We don’t need to preach about exercise. Our lifestyle already communicates what we value. But if we want to truly make an impact, we have to stop placing judgment on those who aren’t there yet.
Judgment creates distance. And if people feel judged, why would they seek us out for support? We can make a real difference by accepting people as they are, loving them, and letting them feel seen—regardless of their lifestyle choices. It’s difficult to watch loved ones struggle, especially when we know they could improve a downward trajectory through healthier habits. But we must respect their autonomy to make their own choices.
Here’s something I try to keep in mind: “I may not agree with the choices you're making, but I respect your right to make them.”
Let’s stop preaching and start truly listening. When people feel safe, seen, and accepted, that's when real change becomes possible.
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