Como você pode incentivar seu coachee a se abrir sobre seus desafios?

In your role as an executive coach, imagine crafting a sanctuary of trust, where every fear and aspiration is not just heard, but deeply felt. Through active listening and empathetic understanding, you become more than a guide; you're a beacon of hope. Your open-ended questions are keys unlocking profound self-awareness in your coachee. This is not just coaching; it's an intimate journey towards self-discovery and growth. With patience and genuine connection, you're not just shaping leaders; you're nurturing souls, inspiring a lasting change that echoes beyond your sessions.

Building trust and rapport first with your coachee is vital in establishing the foundation for their comfort to open up. Once that has been established, follow through with consistent genuineness and statements that are free from judgment and biases. This will let you coachee know that your level of consideration extends to everyone regardless of whether or not they are present. This should allow the coachee to feel secure in sharing .

Assuring confidentiality and respectfully guiding the discussion towards capabilities of the coachee is a method that can be followed, also by de-personalising discussions and role plays or sharing hypothesis may help in the coachee to share freely. by using positive psychology and appreciative inquiry, if the conversation is guided towards strengths of the coachee, the resulting discussion is deeper and can being more confidence to the coaching space.

Supportive space gets created when : 1. Coachees strength and weakness are analysed. 2.Be empathetic and impart a sense of confidence in Coachees abilities. 3.Respecting coachee as an individual entity who is having an undiscovered potential within (what ever the state he/she might be)

Building trust is key. Be empathetic, listen actively, and create a non-judgmental space. Ask open-ended questions, and share your own experiences when appropriate to foster a sense of connection.

By seeking to understand the meaning and intent behind the words that the coachee uses, the coachee will feel heard and valued. During the discussion, the coach can be fully present in the conversation and show interest by practicing good eye contact, withholding judgements and reflecting back what the coachee says, asking open ended questions like...tell me a bit more about this, what do you think about that and tell me how you could have responded differently...can raise the curiosity level of the coach as well as that of the coachee.

The best thing I’ve found to deliver on this is all done prior to the session. Create a place to be clear of other distractions, and that wont have them during your session - Phone on silent/ put away - Have a 10-15min break from prior tasks or appointments. - Make sure that you are hydrated and taken care of your personal needs - Organise the area you are conducting the session in. Having a clear, organised mind and workspace sets set the right environment for you to be fully present, engaged and coaching at your best.

In my experience, I found that some of the coachees might not be aware of what they're looking for or what they're expecting. In such cases, using the GROW model helps both the coachee and the coach to navigate and go through what's the goal, where we are at the current point of time reality, what the possibilities and options we've, and how we want to reach the goal. Structuring the conversation using GROW model helps coachee to open up and share their perspectives, challenges and thought process, and also helps coach to understand the vulnerability coachee could be going through.

Creating a safe and secure space is foundational in facilitating meaningful discussions and fostering trust between a client. From my experience, I've observed that establishing this safe space is a necessity to enabling individuals to lower their defenses and begin to cultivate a sense of trust within the therapeutic relationship. In my client containers, I prioritize the creation of an environment where clients feel comfortable and supported enough to let down their guard and openly share their challenges. This space is deliberately designed to encourage vulnerability without fear of judgment or repercussions. This approach demonstrates empathy, active listening, and genuine interest in the client's well-being.

Objetivo , Realidad, Opciones y Voluntad, trabajo o acción. El modelo GROW es importante. Aunque nunca hay que perder de vista que la meta no siempre depende por completo de quien se la fija, hay imponderables, tales cómo la economía, la competencia, los recursos, etc. En este sentido, la meta es muy importante para saber a dónde vamos. Más importante aún es el proceso, cada paso, los detalles. Si se cuida el proceso, muy probablemente se logrará la meta. O, se dará el aprendizaje. El coaching es una técnica educativa y de transformación, sobre todo para acompañar el proceso del coachee.

Yes I believe that creation of a safe space is absolutely fundamental for the co-creation of the coachee’s ideal future state. The trust factor has to be established before the coachee can feel safe to share . The coachee must be in an environment where emotional vulnerability poses no risk. Only then can the coachee’s ideal future state be facilitated by the coach. A Trauma-Informed and Resilience Life Coach is a professional who has been trained to provide such a coachee experience.

Encouraging a coachee to openly discuss their challenges requires creating a safe and trusting environment. Start by affirming confidentiality and employ non-judgmental listening. This establishes a foundation where coachees feel valued and understood. Utilize coaching questions that prompt self-reflection: -What do you perceive as your biggest obstacle right now, and how is it affecting your decision-making? -What’s the worst thing that can happen if you try and fail? These questions are designed to help the coachee articulate their experiences/perspectives, fostering self-awareness and identifying growth areas. They encourage the coachee to engage in introspective thinking, aiding in the discovery of blind spots and potential solutions.

During the follow-up conversation, we can check with the coachee on their progress based on the action items and next steps discussed in our earlier conversation. We can check on what's working, what's not working, anything specific to be changed, and so on. This helps the coachee to identify how they want to tweak and adjust their plans to achieve progress.

Followup has 2 dimensions to it 1. If a coach followsup his coacheee, it indicates the concentration coach has on his coachee, it inturn boosts the confidence of Coachee as Coach is the lone person who sensed coachees strength, believed in his/her abilities, challenged at times and made coachee to think and find solutions on their own. 2.Followup post sucess is something which a coach wants to ensure mindset of a coachee. Either he/she is neither too overwhelmed nor in too distress. Continue to carry a growth mindset for lifetime. Follow through on course of time shall not be felt as a micromanagement at the Coachees end and it shall only resemble that he/she is having an empathetic helping hand.

People are less likely to share with you when they feel 'lesser' than you in some way. It is so easy to think that we are flawed in some way, or that something is wrong with us. We are surrounded by success stories and have not seen enough of the rough draft of those 'successful' people, so we think less of ourselves. Share your own challenges, show your humane and emotional side, feel equal to the other person, hold them in high esteem. Your coachee will open up to you. Give them the time to do so. It also helps to be naturally composed. People hesitate to share when they think they might 'shock' you. Be genuinely cool calm and collected. Be that gentle soft pillar of strength.

I have found that when I share my own experiences that are connected to what they are going through, I find there is a higher likelihood that a coaching client will also share their own challenges because they don't feel alone.

vulnerability is dope. for sure. AND. often coaches get caught in spaces rambling on about their own lives, missing the mark entirely. this interaction isn’t about me, it’s about my client. as such, i model authenticity and vulnerability throughout the onboarding, marketing, and promotion process…so they know it’s a part of the experience. if they want to know about my life, they will ask. but often times we inflate the meaningful nature of our own experiences and miss opportunities to reach people where they are. when i’m facing challenges, i don’t need examples of hardship…i’m in one already. a lot of coaches can’t make meaning from others’ experiences, and that begs the question of who is this ACTUALLY for?

Erspüren Sie, welche Begegnung ihr Coachee braucht. Distanz und Neutralität oder Empathie und Mitgefühl? Achten sie darauf, sich durch ihre Art, auf ihre/n Coachee einzugehen, nicht "vor einen Karren spannen zu lassen" und ermutigen ihn/sie dadurch nicht, in festgefahrenen Mustern zu verharren. Ihr Coachee wird sich nur (wirklich) öffnen, wenn es für ihn/sie "dran" ist. Es ist alleine seine/ihre Entscheidung. Respektieren Sie, dass ein/e Coachee auch nicht bereit sein kann, sich zu öffnen (was auch immer das heißt). Wichtig ist, dass die Supervision/das Coaching ihn/sie weiter bringt und ein Mehrwert / ein Ergebnis / Klarheit entstanden ist.

consider the cultural norms of the people you serve, AND the cultural norms they are currently surviving within. as humans, we often conflate experiences and give guidance to issues that have no relevance because they don’t consider the cultural norms at play. if our job as a coach is to make space for true curiosity to unfold, it makes sense that things would be centered on the needs and standards of the humans we’re working with. how i make meaning in the world has little to no value in that context, instead, i can be a thought partner who gives space for folx who are often occupied providing space for others. if it’s not about me, it gets to be about them. that’s the goal. and we can’t do that fully without factoring in culture.

Estableciendo el llamado "rapport", es decir, una sintonía, con lenguaje corporal, escucha activa y ausencia de juicios de parte del coach. Esto genera un indispensable del coaching, la confianza. La confianza es el valor de los valores, sin esta, no es posible generar ese espacio de intimidad necesario para que el coachee o cliente pueda encontrar la solución a sus retos.

Be patient and allow pauses for them to share more deeply. Don’t cut them up as building trust over time is crucial and this can start by simply helping people in your day to day LinkedIn posts. These can help people for free!