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Join The Pacific Institute's Winner's Circle Network: https://lnkd.in/edPEwf6G Here's this week's message! The Smoother Road to Success Just about everyone knows that good role models are important for a child's development, but even as adults, we can always use a good role model. Now, if you are familiar with the work of The Pacific Institute, you know that it emphasizes visualization, because we have learned that our mental images, for the most part, are what determine our reality. In other words, the way we see ourselves and the world is what decides how we will behave. How we behave determines, to a very great extent, what will happen to us. Role models serve as living, breathing mental images that help us visualize the way we'd like to live. What kinds of role models are best? No question about it, people we can actually get to know. For the young, this is often their parents. According to novelist and playwright James Baldwin, “Children have never been very good at listening to their elders, but they have never failed to imitate them.” Wise words, and potentially intimidating to those of us who are adults and parents with young children in our lives. Our children will learn far more from what we do, than from what we say. It is much more powerful when we can actually interact with someone who shows us possibilities for ourselves. “I think a role model is a mentor – someone you see on a daily basis, and you learn from them,” confirms Denzel Washington, actor and mentor himself. When we can connect with our mentors or role models on a daily or regular basis, as we do with parents, grandparents, teachers and so on, this does have the most powerful impact of all. When we meet the challenge of finding positive, contributive role models – people who care about our futures as much as we do – we will find ourselves on a smoother road to success.

Join The Pacific Institute's Winner's Circle Network: https://lnkd.in/edPEwf6G Here's this week's message! Look Beneath the Surface Most of us know what a stereotype is. It's an oversimplified, general opinion about what something or someone is like. Stereotypes are thought-saving devices, because when you accept a stereotype, you don't have to think for yourself at all. Your idea comes to you frozen, prepackaged, and ready to use. The trouble with stereotypes is that they deny the uniqueness of each human being’s heritage and experience, and do the same to the folks employing the stereotypes. When we deny others, we also deny ourselves. Sanctioning those pre-packaged ideas denies us the use of our own brains, because they require that we ignore who we are and what we know from our own personal experience. If you want to grow as a person, to be as effective as you can be, you want to become your own authority. Do your own research, your own thinking. Look beneath the surface, and be wary of labels, which are one-size-fits-all stereotypes. Human beings come in all sizes and styles, all colors and models, every kind of talent and gift, and all gloriously different! And it is long past time to celebrate our differences, not ridicule them. Oversimplification and overgeneralization rob you of your power and others of their uniqueness. And at the same time, you are denying your own uniqueness. It’s an easy trap to fall into, but each of us does have the choice to reject the mental shorthand, do a little self-reflection and take the opportunity to do our own thinking.

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Join The Pacific Institute's Winner's Circle Network: https://lnkd.in/edPEwf6G Here's this week's message! Defying Expectations What happens to us when the society in which we grow up doesn't value our personal attributes? Many of our feelings of self-worth or self-esteem have been influenced by the messages we get from society. Some of those messages are overt and up front: we know without question that our society values affluence, power, efficacy, youthfulness and health. Now, imagine how it might feel to be poor, relatively powerless, or chronically ill or disabled in this society. Some messages are subtler. We say we value diversity, children, older people – but our behavior often says something else. If movie stars and models are young, tall, thin, with expensive clothes, and look like what society has – for whatever reason – deemed “beautiful,” what message does it send to those of us who are different from that? If the kids in school laugh at us because of our accent or the work our parents do for a living, what do we learn about our value? It is terribly important that all of our children feel proud of who they are – just the way they are. And, that they learn to respect the differences in each other from an early age. Children only know the expectations of those around them, as they are too young to be able to set their own expectations for themselves. Children of all ages need to know that they are loved, prized, and capable of rising above stereotypes to be the uniquely valuable human beings they already are. Because, in the end, we rise to each other's expectations, or we fall to them.

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Join The Pacific Institute's Winner's Circle Network: https://lnkd.in/edPEwf6G Here's this week's message! The Art of Great Communication Today, let’s focus some attention on one of the secrets of being a good communicator, because good communication sits at the foundation of every successful family, organization and nation. If you take a look through the leadership programs available, you will see at least one common denominator, and that is typically “communication.” Very often, leadership style, or a lack of leadership style, revolves around the ability to communicate effectively. This ability is an art that can be learned. How can we be more effective communicators? A really complete answer would require more time than we have space for in this post, but there is one thing anyone can do to make a quantum leap in the ability to communicate, and that is to become a better listener. Communication is less about hearing one’s own voice, and more about what is behind what the other person is saying. Good listeners do far more than simply remain silent while someone else is speaking. They listen with their whole body, give signals that convey they are paying close attention, and invite more information with open-ended questions. These open-ended questions, by the way, are those that cannot be answered with “yes” or “no,” and invite the speaker to talk at greater length. It's the difference between saying, “Are you OK?” which begs for a quick yes-or-no answer that closes off any further conversation, and saying, “How are you doing now?” which invites much more. Good listeners also read body language and are sensitive to other nonverbal cues. When they get mixed or confusing messages, they aren’t afraid to ask questions to clarify. More importantly, good listeners give you the feeling that, at least for the moment, there is nothing they'd rather be doing. They raise other people's self-esteem by being interested and showing it. Even when they say very little, they are usually thought of as superb communicators. We know how it feels to have someone’s undivided attention, that elevation of spirit and esteem. It’s a great feeling, and one that needs to be shared with others. So, how good of a communicator are you?

Join The Pacific Institute's Winner's Circle Network: https://lnkd.in/edPEwf6G Here's this week's message! Choose Your Words Carefully Disney’s animated features have long been known to teach important life lessons to children, from the consequences of jealousy and hatred by the Evil Queen in “Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs,” to learning the value of humility over arrogance like Lightning McQueen did in “Cars,” and the true value of friendship as shown in the “Toy Story” series. And like all good children’s tales, most adults would benefit from revisiting these life lessons, from time to time. One lesson in particular has never lost its timeliness, and perhaps applies more today than when it was first uttered on-screen in 1942. After being reprimanded by his mother, for laughing at the ungainly newborn Bambi, an embarrassed Thumper repeats what he had heard from his father just that morning: “If you can’t say somethin’ nice, don’t say nothin’ at all.” Wise words used to teach our children how to play nicely in the sandbox with each other, with widespread application to the entire world today. Keep in mind that we humans are picture-oriented, and with newspapers and online sites publishing negative headlines in the largest font they can find, abusive “trolls” on social media sites, not to mention the proliferation of “false news” sites, it is no wonder that our minds see only the negative pictures. Perhaps it is time to stop and choose our words more carefully. Perhaps it is time to hit our mental “Pause” button, before sending that negative email, text or post. Maybe, we need to give ourselves time to let the emotion of the moment subside, put the negative texts in our mental Draft Box and come back to them at a later time, when we have analyzed why we felt the need to write them.    Are our words helping or hurting? Are they constructive or destructive? Do they support a positive change or get fractured in the heat of the moment? Only you can answer these questions.

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Join The Pacific Institute's Winner's Circle Network: https://lnkd.in/edPEwf6G Here's this week's message! Redefining Tomorrow As kids, how often did we imagine what the future would look like – who we would be, what we would do, even how we would get to work? How often do we do this same imagining today? Some time ago, the University of Washington announced that new software had been developed, by a group of its professors that could help find long-missing children. The software would do this by creating pictures of how the child would look, aged into adulthood. Applying specific algorithms and turning the face into 4000 pixels, the program takes childhood pictures and then “ages” the pictures. To test the software, these folks took volunteers’ pictures, but only using the youngest picture, aged the subject to specific times for which they had actual pictures. The actual and computer images compared were incredibly similar! As the software becomes available, we can use it to see what we will look like in the next 20, 30, 40 or 50 years . . . if we really want to know. Interestingly, the human mind uses its own software to look into the future. We know it by the name of “forethought,” which seems to be unique to humans. We can imagine into the future, visualize it, and use these visualizations to plan today for our desired tomorrows. In this way, we actually have more control over our futures than this computer software will. We can plan – or goal-set – for what we want to be like. We can lay the groundwork for this new future we want, by holding the desired vision, comparing it against today’s reality, and use the tension between the two ends – today’s reality and tomorrow’s dream – to get us to where we want to go. This is a natural process that we just need to harness and direct.