Step onto the table I say, if you have to. Invitations to participate may never come.
In the past some of our biggest changes to social policy affecting women, required getting on our feet to march and protest. On March 3, 1913, 5,000 women marched up Pennsylvania Avenue in Washington, DC, demanding the right to vote. There was no invitation, if women wanted change, they had to show up.
Things have improved somewhat, but the tide of change is slow and it is unlikely that men of their own volition will be the ones to identify all the areas of women’s lives that require improvement to bring forward equality- justice or a social revolution.
These things will not be offered on a plate- they are still hard fought, by many advocates across our community, in government, in NFP’s, by individual change makers, trailblazers and very brave people who through personal tragedy demand change.
For me, business and decision-making done at ‘tables’, without diverse representation by women is the most blatant form of arrogance, it can no longer be disguised as anything less. To imagine that decisions large or small, can be made about the general population, half of whom are women or girls, without them being integrally involved, is ignorance, which in today’s society is unacceptable.
Men do not walk in our shoes, they never have, and therefore they cannot make decisions for us. As Annabel Crabb said today at the Adelaide IWD Breakfast, 'smart organisations and leaders know diversity is key to better outcomes. Not including diversity, is an extremely risky way of doing business.
I like to think #countherin starts with each of us, both men and women.
In an ideal world, we would have men continually reaching out to us, eager to hear our views on all matters. The reality is, we are not there yet - so we must count ourselves in. Not wait, not stand on the sidelines of life, hoping for an invite.
You can go it alone or join an interest or advocacy group, learn about issues that impact you as a woman or young girls and decide how you want to address it. It can begin with the smallest steps.
We can each be part of the ongoing improvement to women and girls lives in all its forms. Together we are better, together we can do more.
At Catherine House Inc an important part of our work, is not just to advocate for women we support, but to teach women the skills to confidently advocate for themselves, to ensure they are counted in- not left out of decision making, that affects their lives and to know how to navigate the bigger social issues that adversely affect them.
If you can breathe- you matter – you count- you need to be counted in- included. If you can’t yet actively count yourself in, reach out to women who can help.
#iwd2024 #countherin #inclusionmatters #womenchangemakers