We often talk about how social media and our society generally inundates young girls and teenagers with messages about what they should look like, what they should eat or not eat — the kinds of messages that can lead to disordered eating. But these messages can impact kids and teens of ALL genders. Even inadvertently, it can come from family, school, friends...and even comic books and superhero movies 🦹♀️, as this article from Romper covers in conversation with Erikka Dzirasa, MD, MPH, DFAACAP, Chief Medical Officer at Arise. So what can we do to address these messages when they come up with our kids? 👐 Have open conversations with younger kids early and often. These little comments (like "wow, that superhero is strong, but most men don't look like that") can give kids a sense of reality. 💬 Ask questions and actively listen to what kids have to say. As Dr. Dzirasa shares, "Listen. Don't solve. Validate their feelings. If they are struggling, you might say: 'Wow, that must be really hard to feel that way.' Approach them with curiosity rather than criticism." 💜 Model body acceptance by not commenting on how we (or anyone else) looks, or talking about movement as something that feels good for our bodies and minds, not about how we look. Read more here 👉 https://lnkd.in/e35dpgYw
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From a very young age, children start to learn about society’s ‘ideal’ expectations of what bodies should look like to be deemed worthy, attractive or successful. It’s not just girls who are impacted – young boys are increasingly reporting a desire for a more muscular body, and it’s not difficult to see why when such emphasis is placed on muscularity as an indicator of attractiveness and success for men, particularly through media like action or super-hero films, books and toys. In this article, writer Rachel Friedman describes how despite her best efforts to keep diet culture and appearance-focused media out of the home, her 7-year-old has begun to internalise the muscular ideal through comparing his body to superheroes & action figures. Experts also highlight the ‘red flags’ to look out for that your child might be experiencing something more serious, how to know if #disorderedeating behaviours are influenced by #bodyimage concerns or something else like #trauma, and the conversations to have with young people to help. Read more ⬇ https://lnkd.in/gsMiMG6t
My Little Boy Is Obsessed With Superheroes. What Is That Teaching Him About Body Image?
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grandma says your kid just needs to sit at the table and eat the food that’s presented. and if he doesn’t, then he’s spoiled. but you know for your autistic child that he does best with his safe foods and that large family gatherings are very overstimulating. have you planned out how you will react to a situation like that? you’ll want to handle situations calmly and confidently, without feeling overwhelmed or reactive >> so preparation is key. rehearsing responses can empower you to stay present and respond with composure. it will keep your nervous system regulated. comment HOLIDAY and I’ll send you the podcast episode where I review my best tips for navigating this holiday season with your autistic child. a must listen as we head into Christmas week and lots of family gatherings. #navigatingtheholidays #navigatingautism #autism #autismjourney #autismsupport . . . DISCLAIMER: Information shared by Dr. Taylor Day "Dr. Tay" on social media is not intended to replace or be constituted as clinical or medical care. It’s intended for educational purposes only. Dr. Tay always aims to provide neurodivergent affirming care, which includes ongoing learning and pivoting. It’s important to be aware that although tips shared on social media can be useful, she is unable to provide specific applications to your child or relevant nuance to your family's situation. If you need support, please establish care with a licensed provider so that they can provide tailored recommendations for you or your child.
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Never knew kids that small could teach us so many good habits and bring about such a positive lifestyle shift. Tending to the needs of a small baby can be overwhelming and exhausting. And I read something around the lines of - your baby enters your world, not you, theirs. Now this was supposed to bring me some peace because it meant that the baby has to adapt and learn to live our way of life. But instead, it created a slight panic because I realised just how messed up our world actually is - - busy lives, the stress, the constant worry - lack of attention towards our health and eating habits - addiction to screens and other vices Do I want my kid to adapt to this far from ideal world? Absolutely not. Some might argue that it's exaggerated parental paranoia because kids that small can barely tell the difference between wrong and right, good or bad. Yes, exactly my point. The kid does not know any better, but we as parents, with all our degrees, ought to. Even before they start walking, kids are observing, subconsciously picking from the smallest of our behaviours and mannerisms, all eventually adding up to become elements of their core. And we definitely want to guard that core against all the noise and distractions out there, as much as we can. So not sure who's teaching who all these good habits, but here are a few changes that we as parents, very consciously brought about that we don't mind our daughter adapting to - 1. Less screen time - using our mobiles phones less around her; significantly restricting OTT hours to only after she's slept 2. Waking up early - this one we don't have much choice or say in. She called the shots on this one and made us proud members of the 5 am club. Are we complaining? Not so much :) 3. Being more active - less screens means more nature. Stepping out for walks and hikes. Also there's a lot of running around after a toddler and let's just say we are doing alright on our step count for the day 4. Reading - trying our best to raise a reader and that requires us to be reading more to her and also reading more around her We are living more in the moment, smiling more often and re-discovering the world with an additional pair of eyes and innocence. Leading by example has never been this rewarding :)
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This post is for those who have grown apart from the digital media. Getting back may seem like a huge task. In fact, it is a huge task. Once you take the detox period, you understand how heavy digital consumption can mess you up and make you restless. Prior to this digital revolution, there were people who had great focus even on mundane tasks. There were people who'd do routine activities and never complain of getting 'bored'. Today, our general public is dopamine deficient. Dopamine deficiency is closely linked with ADHD. Continuous reels/shorts/social media consumption leads to dopamine deficiency. Watching a plethora of multi-emotion short videos/posts can mess up the brain's reward system. A happy post then a sad post and then a grim post, within a few seconds can make the brain confused and clouded. Once all of these conflicting hormones are released, the brain doesn't know what to do. It becomes stressed. A large section of the world's population is on the verge of becoming ADHD. What do you think, should we think better for ourselves and make rules for our screen times and diligently implement them? #healthcare #socialemediamarketing #productivity
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Decades before "Social Media" was a thing, two female psychologists coined the term "imposter syndrome" in the 1970s. Since those psychologists first observed high-achieving female clients who were plagued with thoughts of inadequacy, feeling "less than," not feeling worthy of notable accomplishments, etc., social media seems only to be dumping fuel on the wildfires of imposter syndrome within people of all ages. While I felt the effects of imposter syndrome (perfectionism, feeling "less than" others, never measuring up, etc.) as a kid well into adulthood, the term "imposter syndrome" was foreign to me until just a few years ago. While I wrote my book "Silence the Imposter" with other adults in mind, the more conversations I had with readers of my book, the more it became clear that social media is impacting pre-teens, adolescents, and beyond. (Heck, the imposter didn't wait until I was 21 to start whispering in my ear. It tormented me from the time I was eight or nine years old.) Whether you are a college student, a young professional, a seasoned executive, or someone with kids in middle school or high school, the need to silence the imposter seems more imperative now than ever, given the pressures to compete & compare. Regardless of our age, it's time to silence the imposter. Agree? If you or someone you love might struggle with imposter syndrome, "Silence the Imposter" could change their life. (Link in comments.) #imposter #impostersyndrome #anythingbuttypical BGW CPA, PLLC
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I've just finished Jonathan Haidt's 'Anxious Generation.' In it Haidt argues that the combination of smartphones and social media has harmed the generations that grew up with this development through exposure to age inappropriate experiences (in a nutshell), and proposes corrective actions for parents, schools, and governments. I found it thought-provoking and in places very convincing. Although...as someone who sometimes pines for the days of dial-up broadband and flip phones of my teen years, I wonder how much nostalgia plays into (and, for some, taints) the comparison of current youth experiences with those of older generations. I imagine my Nickelodeon/ cable TV addiction would probably rival many kids' use of social media today, at least in terms of time lost to distraction and non-outdoor 'play'. That said, I do think the online element, combined with the size and therefore the potency of some platforms, makes the current dynamic different and more problematic in many ways. Separately, I wonder how far Haidt's thesis would hold if richer data were available from a wider range of geographies, for children from a variety of socio-economic backgrounds and with differentiated needs. Has anyone else in my network read Haidt's book? What do they think? Does anyone know of alternative theories for explaining the stark trends in children's mental health which Haidt references?
The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness
amazon.co.uk
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