Ayushi Srivastava’s Post

She worried that her friends & family would think she was "nuts" to leave her executive job and travel the world. So she stayed. Perception is one of the 4 big fears that kills career break dreams. Overcoming this fear is simple, but not easy. Here's the 2-step process: 1. Test your assumption. The easiest way to sabotage your happiness is to assume your worst fears are true, without question. It's a shortcut to feeling miserable. Instead, test your hypothesis: share your truth with a loved and see what they think. They might surprise you with open arms of support, and you may discover your fear of *their* harsh judgement was only a projection of your own. 2. Decide what's most important. If your loved ones disapprove, you'll have to make a decision: your happiness and well-being OR their comfort? It takes courage to follow your own path, but the alternative is living a life that isn't yours. And that feels terrible. Making decisions based on the naysayers in your life is a sure way to live with regret. You can apply this process to ANY unconventional dream you want to chase or desire you want to fulfill. Don't let the fear of Perception keep you from your true path. You don't have to stay stuck in life that doesn't feel right or make you happy. Which big fear should I create a flowchart on overcoming next? Boredom? Money? Career Progress? #careerbreak #sabbatical #overcomingfear #careercoaching #lifeadvice

Sometimes, life takes unexpected turns that feel like setbacks. These disappointments can be frustrating, but often, they turn out to be hidden blessings. Disappointments teach us important lessons and help us grow. When things don't go as planned, we rethink our goals and what truly matters. This helps us discover new strengths and opportunities we didn't see before. What seems like a failure can actually lead us to a better path. Missing out on a job might lead to a career that suits us better. A relationship ending might make way for deeper connections. These experiences help us become more adaptable and appreciate life's twists and turns. Sometimes, disappointments protect us from bad situations. A job we didn’t get might have been in a toxic environment, or a relationship ending might save us from future unhappiness. These moments remind us that life might have a better plan for us than we imagined. Seeing disappointments as blessings helps us stay positive and strong.Instead of focusing on what went wrong, we learn to see new opportunities and grow from them. This mindset makes us more open to change and confident in handling life's ups and downs. Realizing that things not working out can actually be good for us teaches us patience and trust. It reminds us to have faith in our life's journey, knowing that every experience, whether happy or painful, shapes us. By seeing disappointments as chances for growth, we find hope and strength. We learn to trust the process, believing that even tough times contribute to our happiness and fulfillment. Stay positive 💚

Date: 22 Day: 33 Problem Statement: The "beggar attitude" of always feeling like you don't have enough creates dissatisfaction and limits personal growth by focusing on scarcity rather than recognizing available opportunities. Resolution: Friends, Focus on what you have, rather than what you don’t. Regularly reflecting on your blessings helps shift your mindset from scarcity to abundance. Stop comparing yourself to others. Everyone’s journey is different, and comparing often leads to unnecessary dissatisfaction. Instead of focusing on external achievements, set small, personal goals that matter to you. Celebrate your own progress, no matter how small. Please remember success isn’t just about money, job titles, or social status. True success includes happiness, health, relationships, and personal growth. Try shifting your focus from what you don’t have to improving yourself in meaningful ways. Celebrate every step of progress in your life. Story of Rakesh (Name change): Rakesh always felt like he didn’t have enough, even from his college days. He saw others with better grades, more friends, and better opportunities, which made him feel inadequate. After graduating, he got a good job, but his habit of comparing himself to others stayed with him. He constantly saw his coworkers in better roles, with higher pay or more recognition, which deepened his feelings of failure. Even as he worked hard, moved up the corporate ladder, and eventually became a managing director, Rakesh still felt incomplete. Despite what many would call success, Rakesh never felt satisfied. He kept chasing more money and recognition, but none of it brought him true happiness. He had wealth, but no inner peace, fulfilling relationships, or sense of satisfaction. Though Rakesh did reach out for help, when advised to invest in his happiness and well-being, he responded by saying, "I have no time or money to invest in happiness; it's all false." Today, he remains angry, disappointed, and frustrated, trapped in a cycle of external success without any internal contentment. Rakesh's story shows that, despite all his achievements, no one can help him but himself, and true happiness comes from within, not from chasing external rewards. NOT EVERYONE IS COACHABLE www.lifecoachmonika.com #happinesshealthpeace #followyourheart #learngrowrise

Years ago, I faced a tough career crossroads, overwhelmed and exhausted, on the brink of giving up. But I confronted the struggle head-on, turning pain into a driving force. That experience redefined my strength. Right now, you're burdened by a high-pressure job, home responsibilities, and personal goals. It's in these moments of struggle that true strength is forged. Each obstacle shapes you into a stronger, more resilient version of yourself. Your family looks to you for inspiration. When you face challenges head-on, you teach them resilience. Your ability to turn pain into strength becomes their guiding light. At work, the pressure is constant. Strength isn't about never falling; it's about rising every time you do. Your tenacity and commitment set you apart, propelling you toward greater heights in your career. In your personal life, unmet goals and the struggle to balance everything are building blocks of success. Each time you push through, you mold yourself into someone unbeatable. Your dreams may seem distant, but each struggle brings you closer. Visualize your success and happiness. The path to that vision is paved with struggles. Each painful step testifies to your strength. Embrace the pain; it's transforming you into a force to be reckoned with. Life will test you, and the pain will feel unbearable at times. But remember, through this pain, your greatest strengths are born. Keep moving forward, keep fighting, and let your struggles shape you into the powerful, unstoppable person you're meant to be. ➡️ Want to live an Elite Balanced Life? Comment (or DM me) the word VIDEO for a link to 5 crucial shifts to change your life and family's future. It's free, no strings attached—I just want to help because it's that important! #motivation #inspiration #worklifebalance #stressmanagement #familyfirst #mentalhealth #highachievers #lifechanges #personaldevelopment #wellness #burnout #successmindset #timeisnow #takecontrol #livefully

What happens if nothing changes? 😳 When I look back to 2018 👀 The year I reached burnout I was in bad shape 😫 Mentally, physically and emotionally I’d prioritised career success over EVERYTHING Here I am five years earlier, Christmas 2013 I was asleep But look at my furrowed brow 😖 My pained expression No doubt my mind was whizzing along at 100mph Thinking about and plotting my next career move How I could get noticed? What could I do to outperform those around me? My conclusion was always to work harder and longer And it didn’t serve me well Five years later it absolutely floored me So, fellas, I want you right now to take a look at your life Do you feel good? Or like me back then are you wracked with anxiety and stress Silently struggling Appearing together and successful on the outside But screaming in agony on the inside Or have you come through the pain? And now you’re excited about your future But you just can’t see what that looks like Or you’ve got a dream for what your life could be But no idea where to start or how to get there What happens if nothing changes? If you don’t make progress, or if it’s slow and painful If you keep sabotaging yourself Following the rules of what is possible laid down by society What will your life look like in five to ten years? Will you be happy, fulfilled, have peace of mind and calm confidence? Will your relationships be strong and lasting? Or will you be a miserable old sod, moaning, frustrated with the world and busy blaming everybody else F–K that It’s time to change If you have a burning desire to change then DM me “CHANGE” and let’s have a chat Don’t wait. Life is too short. You never know what tomorrow may bring. Do it now. #mensmentalhealth #change #positivemasculinity #lifecoaching

Do you spend way too much time trying to avoid disappointments in an attempt to guarantee yourself happiness? That’s the pessimist’s trap. It feels safe, but safety doesn’t guarantee happiness, and avoiding risks won’t lead to a full, rich life. Choosing pessimism might shield you from some heartache, but it also blocks potential joy and growth. Change is possible. You have a choice. Dive in and choose a fuller life. _______ For more insights, read my full blog post. I'd love to hear your thoughts on the topic! #PersonalGrowth #PositiveMindset #Optimism #EmbraceChange #OvercomeFear #LiveFully #MindsetShift #TakeRisks #GrowthMindset

Are you stuck in the comfort zone, or are you sabotaging your life? Being emotionally stuck is sneaky. It shows up in your career, your relationships, and even your happiness. You feel safe, but that ‘safety’ is holding you back. It’s blocking your joy. Your future. Feeling Stuck? It’s Not a Phase—It’s a Signal. When you feel stuck, it’s not life holding you back—it’s your own growth that has come to a halt. Stagnation is a powerful message from your energy field, telling you that you’ve stopped expanding. Throughout this month, I’m exposing the truth about this comfort trap. I’ll show you how being emotionally stuck limits your growth and stops you from reaching true fulfilment and what you can do about it. Are you ready to stop settling for less? #comfortzones #stagnation #energyawareness #personaldevelopment #growth

Are you stuck in the comfort zone, or are you sabotaging your life? Being emotionally stuck is sneaky. It shows up in your career, your relationships, and even your happiness. You feel safe, but that ‘safety’ is holding you back. It’s blocking your joy. Your future. Feeling Stuck? It’s Not a Phase—It’s a Signal. When you feel stuck, it’s not life holding you back—it’s your own growth that has come to a halt. Stagnation is a powerful message from your energy field, telling you that you’ve stopped expanding. Throughout this month, I’m exposing the truth about this comfort trap. I’ll show you how being emotionally stuck limits your growth and stops you from reaching true fulfilment and what you can do about it. Are you ready to stop settling for less? #comfortzones #stagnation #energyawareness #personaldevelopment #growth

In life, we all encounter moments of disappointment and frustration. Plans fall apart, opportunities slip through our fingers, and dreams we hold dear may seem to vanish. It's natural to feel disheartened when things don't go our way. But it's precisely in these moments that we must remember this essential truth: Sometimes, what didn't work out for you really worked out for you. Think back to a time when something didn't go as you had hoped. Maybe it was a job you didn't get, a relationship that ended, or a goal that seemed just out of reach. At that moment, it felt like a setback, perhaps even a failure. But as time went on, you likely discovered that this so-called failure led you to something even better. These experiences teach us resilience. They push us to grow, to adapt, and to find new paths that we might never have considered. The job you didn't get? It led you to the career you're passionate about today. The relationship that ended? It made room for a deeper, more fulfilling connection. The goal that seemed unattainable? It redirected your efforts toward a path where you could truly thrive. Life has a way of working out, even when we can't see it in the moment. Every twist and turn, every high and low, contributes to our journey. So, the next time you face a disappointment, remember: Sometimes, what didn't work out for you really worked out for you. Embrace the unexpected, trust in the process, and know that each experience, good or bad, is a step toward your ultimate success and happiness.