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She worried that her friends & family would think she was "nuts" to leave her executive job and travel the world. So she stayed. Perception is one of the 4 big fears that kills career break dreams. Overcoming this fear is simple, but not easy. Here's the 2-step process: 1. Test your assumption. The easiest way to sabotage your happiness is to assume your worst fears are true, without question. It's a shortcut to feeling miserable. Instead, test your hypothesis: share your truth with a loved and see what they think. They might surprise you with open arms of support, and you may discover your fear of *their* harsh judgement was only a projection of your own. 2. Decide what's most important. If your loved ones disapprove, you'll have to make a decision: your happiness and well-being OR their comfort? It takes courage to follow your own path, but the alternative is living a life that isn't yours. And that feels terrible. Making decisions based on the naysayers in your life is a sure way to live with regret. You can apply this process to ANY unconventional dream you want to chase or desire you want to fulfill. Don't let the fear of Perception keep you from your true path. You don't have to stay stuck in life that doesn't feel right or make you happy. Which big fear should I create a flowchart on overcoming next? Boredom? Money? Career Progress? #careerbreak #sabbatical #overcomingfear #careercoaching #lifeadvice

In life, we all encounter moments of disappointment and frustration. Plans fall apart, opportunities slip through our fingers, and dreams we hold dear may seem to vanish. It's natural to feel disheartened when things don't go our way. But it's precisely in these moments that we must remember this essential truth: Sometimes, what didn't work out for you really worked out for you. Think back to a time when something didn't go as you had hoped. Maybe it was a job you didn't get, a relationship that ended, or a goal that seemed just out of reach. At that moment, it felt like a setback, perhaps even a failure. But as time went on, you likely discovered that this so-called failure led you to something even better. These experiences teach us resilience. They push us to grow, to adapt, and to find new paths that we might never have considered. The job you didn't get? It led you to the career you're passionate about today. The relationship that ended? It made room for a deeper, more fulfilling connection. The goal that seemed unattainable? It redirected your efforts toward a path where you could truly thrive. Life has a way of working out, even when we can't see it in the moment. Every twist and turn, every high and low, contributes to our journey. So, the next time you face a disappointment, remember: Sometimes, what didn't work out for you really worked out for you. Embrace the unexpected, trust in the process, and know that each experience, good or bad, is a step toward your ultimate success and happiness.

Ever find yourself stuck?   Wallowing in regret? Unable to take action.   If so, I have one piece of advice to help you move forward.   "Take time to reflect, but never regret."   Life is full of actions, reactions, rewards, failures, consequences, and above all learnings.   All too often we regret our actions when things don’t turn out as planned.   We envisioned what our life would look like someday. A new deal. New client. New job. New relationship.   But things don't always work out as planned.   So we end up questioning our choices. Leading to self-doubt, declining confidence, and often inertia.   We let regret creep into our thought process.   But regret is a wasted emotion. Nothing good comes from it.    There is so much to learn from everything we do. So instead of wallowing in regret do this:   ► Reflect on the memories. The words. The phrases. The special moments. ► Reflect on the senses. The places. The sounds. The tastes. The smells. ► Reflect on the learnings. The mental. The physical. The emotional. ► Be confident you did everything to ensure success. ► Be confident that the outcome is not a result of your lack of effort, focus, or commitment. ► Be confident that while you may not have achieved your goal you made a difference.   Life is busy. Time flies by. Stop worrying about what happened in the past.   Rather reflect and smile for all the great moments, memories, and learnings along your journey.   Your future is bright. You are fortified with renewed energy. You are ready to focus on your new goals. Your destiny!   Take time to reflect, but never regret!   ❓ What is one regret you are dwelling on that is holding you back?   #Leadership #Empowerment #ConfidenceCoach #CommunicationCoach #CareerCoach 

Stop Settling, Start Living: Disappointment is Okay for Growth We all crave the approval of those we care about. But sometimes, chasing after that approval can hold us back from reaching our full potential. Here's the truth: disappointment is inevitable. Whether it's a career change, a personal boundary you set, or a different path than you expected, it might disappoint someone you love. But here's the key: disappointment doesn't have to be a bad thing. Think about it: ➡ Are you stuck in a job that makes you miserable because you're afraid to disappoint your parents who love stability? Change! ➡ Do you feel drained by people who constantly push your boundaries? Set limits! Living a life of "yes" to everyone else often leads to a big "no" to your own happiness. I switched careers at 29, didn't get married "on schedule," and set strong boundaries at work. Did it disappoint some people? Sure. But guess what? I'm finally happy. And guess what else? My relationships are stronger now too. Here's the takeaway: ↪ You are responsible for your own happiness. ↪ Disappointment is temporary, but resentment can linger. ↪ Prioritize your well-being, and you'll be better equipped to make others happy. What are your thoughts? Have you ever had to make a decision that disappointed someone, but ultimately led to your happiness? Share your stories in the comments! #GrowthMindset #HappinessMatters #HealthyBoundaries #LiveYourBestLife #diappointmentistemporary

Hey there, for many of you who may not know who I am or my life story prior to who I am today, I've often found myself being attached with the wrong crowds or doing countless reckless things which had continued through my early adulthood. In doing so, my mindset was programmed with some negative traits, thoughts, behaviors, and decision making which only set my life course to an unusual yet rather difficult spiral. I've often questioned why was it that whenever something bad happened, it always happened to me or at least I felt like I've experienced nothing but misfortune the universe has to offer. A tad bit silly mentality now that I'm looking back at it, I know, but that's essentially how I managed to cope with stress and hardships. After a while of experiencing trial and error with pleasures and pressures, I've stopped questioning the universe's odd design of continuously trying to toy with me, but rather started listening to it by looking internally. "What kind of people was I surrounding myself with?" "What is it that I seek for?" "How can I achieve success?" And since that day, I've changed my life. I've figured that one of the earliest solutions to start with was to create a list of the people who are in my life and compiling them between 2 categories - positive and negative. The positive side are the ones who want the best for me, who support, motivate, encourage, and want to see me grow. The negative side are the ones who spreads resentment, bring you down to their levels, demoralizes your self worth, and to bring out the overall nasty version of yourself. After reviewing this list, I've understood the changes required to make to have a rather more fulfilling life so I've refrained from surrounding myself with the negative people. Look, I'll be honest, I'm not exactly perfect since then as I still have a bunch of things I have to reprogram my mind and relearn after being accustomed to this mindset for years, however I can say that my life has definitely improved for the better after making that list. I feel as if I'm more like myself, I've switched careers, and I've found someone who loves me for my imperfections and wonder. I feel like I'm more approachable, honest, and hardworking and all it took was just a bit of self-reflection. I remember reading a quote from Soichiro Honda, the founder of Honda Motor, that goes like "Success is 99% failure" and his story is actually quite inspirational. I'd suggest giving his story a read through this article I've found as perhaps it might provide insight, reminder, or self reflection to help us keep on keeping on and achieve our pursuit in life. https://lnkd.in/gUvEfDfs

Reject discouragement and welcome the opportunities ahead As we start this new month, let's decide to reject discouragement and welcome the opportunities ahead. Life presents numerous reasons to feel disheartened, such as encountering repeated failures despite your hard work, not being recruited for a job, or facing negativity despite your efforts to do good. Discouragement can lead to unwanted outcomes if not managed properly. It can make you doubt your abilities, feel demotivated, and even consider giving up. It often prevents you from trying new things and fosters a negative mindset. Allowing discouragement can lead to procrastination, reduced productivity, and a cycle of negativity. Ultimately, discouragement can hinder you from achieving your goals by eroding your confidence, motivation, and focus. Friends, cultivate a resilient mindset, and utilize practical strategies to sustain motivation. Acknowledge when you’re feeling discouraged, but don’t let those feelings take over. Instead of viewing setbacks as failures, see them as opportunities to learn and grow. Each challenge is a chance to improve. Reflecting on past successes can boost your confidence when you need it most. Surround yourself with supportive people who uplift you, and share your challenges with mentors, friends, or colleagues who can offer guidance and encouragement. Even when progress seems slow, keep moving forward. Consistent effort, even in the face of discouragement, builds momentum and leads to eventual success. By refusing to succumb to discouragement, you are building mental and emotional resilience. A positive mindset encourages creative thinking and better problem-solving. Persistence in overcoming discouragement increases your chances of success, helping you stay on track and work steadily toward your objectives. Saying no to discouragement opens doors to new opportunities, as others notice your determination. Ultimately, rejecting discouragement is important to achieving long-term success and creating a fulfilling life. As the "ember" months begin, this is a perfect time for reflection and reassessment. Evaluate what you’ve accomplished so far, identify areas for improvement, and make strategic adjustments to ensure a strong finish to the year. Stay focused, stay positive, and keep pushing toward your goals. Let each setback strengthen your resolve. "For I know the plans that I have for you,’ declares the LORD, ‘plans for prosperity and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope" Jeremiah 29:11. This month is full of potential—make the most of it!

Looking back 10 years ago, the most powerful change I made? → It wasn’t a new job, a bigger paycheck, or even moving across the globe. → It was changing the way I talked to myself. For years, I let my inner critic run wild. Every mistake? Was taken as Proof that I wasn’t enough. Every setback? I used to turn it into Evidence that I didn’t deserve success. But in 2014, I decided to shift things. I started a daily check-in with myself. Here’s what I did: → Check-In: "Hey, how are you feeling today?" - I asked myself this simple question daily. - Naming the emotion—anger, fear, grief—was step one. → Feel: Did a body scan. - Where in my body was I feeling this? - Recognizing the sensation helped me stay grounded. → Breathe: Focused on my breath. - Emotions are energy; I moved them through breath(whoever has met me, my positive energy is unmatched). - Stayed with the sensation, breathing through it. Today, I am more positive, optimistic, and I wouldn’t give up this for anything—neither: → Money → Job → Or anything else you can name. Whenever my mind started to judge, I’d say: “It’s okay to feel this way.” It wasn’t an overnight fix, but each day, the more I validated my feelings, the less power they had over me. Life changes when you change the way you relate to your emotions. Give it a try. Perspective is everything. (If this resonates, share it with someone who needs it today ♻️) P.S. How do you check in with yourself?

Simon Alexander Ong These insights are truly profound and resonate deeply with me, especially number 2. It's a powerful reminder that everyone we encounter is fighting their own battles, and our kindness can make a significant difference in their day. It's a call to be more empathetic and compassionate towards others, which is something I strive to embody in my daily interactions. What's one small act of kindness you've experienced or witnessed recently? Share in the comments below! 👇👇👇 #LifeLessons #KindnessMatters #Empathy #Compassion

Hey everyone! 👋 Today, I'm getting real with you. Behind every polished LinkedIn profile is a real person with real struggles. So whynot we create a space where we can share our victories and our vulnerabilities. Because it's in those moments of raw honesty that true connections are made. So, here I am, ready to spill the beans. #Mistakes. We all make them, right? Well, today, I'm sharing mine – the stuff we usually keep hidden from the prying eyes of the world. But not today. Today, I'm breaking the silence and shedding light on the six career mistakes I wish I could've whispered to my past self. 1️⃣.Comparing Myself with Others: It's so easy to scroll through social media and see what seems like everyone else's perfect life. But let's be real – it's just the highlight reel! Comparing myself only led to unnecessary stress and self-doubt. Remember, everyone's journey is unique, and it's okay to go at your own pace. 2️⃣.Chasing Success Rather Than Experience: I used to think success was the ultimate goal, but I've learned that failure is a part of the journey. Each setback has taught me valuable lessons and shaped me into who I am today. Embrace the journey and the growth that comes with it. 3️⃣. Undervaluing Self-Care: It's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of a career, but neglecting self-care only leads to burnout. Prioritize your well-being – nurture your mind, body, and spirit. Trust me, you'll perform better when you take care of yourself first. 4️⃣. Being Afraid of Making a Switch: I used to fear change and worry about what others would think if I pursued a different path. But staying stagnant only holds you back from reaching your full potential. Don't be afraid to take risks and follow your passions, regardless of others' opinions. 5️⃣.Procrastinating Happiness: I spent so much time chasing success that I forgot to enjoy the present moment. Happiness isn't something you achieve in the future – it's something you cultivate in the here and now. Be grateful for what you have and find joy in the little things. 6️⃣ Hesitating to Ask for Help: Admitting we don't have all the answers can be tough. But here's the truth: asking for help isn't a sign of weakness; it's a sign of strength. Let's break down those barriers and lean on each other for support. Looking back, I wish I had discovered InsideIIM.com | AltUni.in sooner. It's a fantastic resource for career advice and guidance, offering valuable insights and opportunities for growth. If you're looking to make smarter career choices and unlock your full potential, I highly recommend giving them a follow! Let's learn from our mistakes and grow together! 💪 #contentwriter #messagetopastself #CareerAdvice #PersonalGrowth #InsideIIM