My team lost to a bunch of girls.
When I was in high school, my cousin and I and a few friends decided we were going to enter our community's 3-on-3 basketball tournament. The only problem was that none of us really played competitive basketball, which is just a nice way to say we were really bad at basketball.
But our one advantage was that everyone else knew we were bad at basketball too. Somehow, we weaseled our way into the women's bracket of the tournament because even the other boys teams agreed that is where we belonged.
Suddenly, in our little minds, we become REALLY good as basketball. There was no need to have a game plan, there was no need to warm up, there was only talks of ally oops and holding the ball over their heads where they couldn't reach (none of us were tall enough to do either of those things). There was no way we could lose! We had already put our "Champion" t-shirt sizes on our application so they could have them ready for us at the end of the day.
We lost to a team of middle schoolers from a neighboring town, and to a team of moms (it hurts a little less knowing the moms did have the current high school basketball coach and our high school's all-time leading scorer playing together). There were no t-shirts, no wins, and barely any points scored by us.
That hot July afternoon we learned more than just a confirmation of our inability to "ball out". We learned 1. Not to underestimate our opponents; 2. Prepare better; and 3. Not to assume that special accommodations are the only thing guaranteeing a win.
I haven't touched basketball since. But I did take some of what I learned from that experience and took 8th in state wrestling the next year.
What experiences in your life have helped you learn how to manage your expectations of what the world is presenting you? Are you more successful now because of those experiences?
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