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Empowering Educators and Parents Alike: Insights from “The Parenting Map” In both parenting and education, small shifts can lead to profound changes. This summer, I delved into “The Parenting Map,” and it left a lasting impact on how I approach my roles as both a principal and a parent. Key Takeaways: • Give Children Freedom: Ensure that children have voice, choice, and agency in everything they do. Empower them to make decisions about their future, whether it’s about education, career, or daily choices. • Avoid Labeling: In both schools and homes, it’s easy to label children—“lazy,” “smart,” etc. Instead, focus on behaviors and provide opportunities for growth, allowing children to define themselves. • Connect with Empathy: Strong connections with children and parents are crucial. Use language that expresses feelings without blame, fostering understanding and collaboration. • Foster Empathy: Show empathy continuously, offering choices and multiple chances for children to learn and grow. From My Perspective as a Principal: Teachers, it’s essential to avoid discussing children in the staff room. While challenging students are part of our daily life, confide in just one trusted colleague rather than sharing with many. Speaking about a child, whether positively or negatively, can unfairly influence their reputation and create biases. Let’s allow children to define themselves by their actions, not by what others say. From My Perspective as a Parent: Daily meditation has been a powerful tool for me in managing challenges with my children. It creates the mental space needed to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively. If you’re interested in recommendations or tips, feel free to reach out—I’m happy to share what has worked for me. As we start the new school year, I encourage both teachers and parents to reflect on these principles. What can you do to give your child or student more voice and choice? How can you connect with them meaningfully and avoid labeling? Let’s create environments where every child thrives. What are your thoughts on these approaches? Let’s start a conversation! If you’re interested in more tips on mindfulness or educational leadership, feel free to connect with me. Disclaimer: All of these ideas are my own. I use ChatGPT pro voice memo to help me dictate these blog or mini posts. #IBPYP #ICSParis #Teaching2Fish #EmpathyInEducation #ParentingAndTeaching #ChildDevelopment #PositiveParenting #EducationalLeadership #TeacherWellbeing #MindfulParenting

Transformational Parenting: A "School for Parents" 🎒 With the back-to-school season approaching, it's the perfect time to talk about transformational parenting. Indeed, there aren't really any courses or certification programs that prepare parents for daily challenges. What if we imagined a true "school for parents"? 🤔 🌍 I dream of a world where every parent has access to tailored programs to better understand what a conscious family looks like and get practical advice on how to achieve it. Imagine having excellent resources and ideas at your disposal! 🌟 I am convinced that personal development is a valuable tool for this. This concept, which we can call "transformational parenting," could very well be our "school for parents." By enriching our own view of parenting and learning about ourselves, we become better parents, able to guide our children towards a balanced and fulfilling future. 🌱 Being a "good parent" in the modern world isn't just about natural instinct; it’s a skill that can be learned and improved. 💡 The research and tools available today can bring about enormous positive change in our children’s lives. As parents, we need to prepare them to become independent thinkers, capable of navigating a world overloaded with information. 🧠 Emotional intelligence is at the heart of transformational parenting. It involves understanding that parenting concerns not only the child in front of us but also the one inside us. Learning to master our own emotions is essential for making better decisions in life. 💪 By raising resilient children, we teach them strategies to manage stress and self-control, while recognizing the importance of play as a learning tool. 🧩 Play is not just entertainment; it’s a serious way to develop essential skills in children. Parenting is a collective effort. Teachers, educators, and anyone in a supportive role, including family members, must get involved to provide children with the tools they need to grow. 👨👩👧👦 Every parent has a responsibility to continually educate themselves, seeking the information needed to thrive and face today’s educational challenges. I hope these insights help you make positive changes in your family and the world. 🌟 #Parenting #PositiveEducation #EmotionalIntelligence #PersonalDevelopment #ResilientChildren #ConsciousFamily #BackToSchool T.DRIEF © 2024

I honestly feel bad for parents who feel that they can do parenting alone, especially when raising teens. No ma, you need partners biko. You have your place as a parent and mentors/coaches have theirs. Engage them for a smooth ride. After speaking with a parent this morning who sought guidance on handling a specific issue with her daughter, I thought to myself: Parents need to realize that just as they seek help in challenging moments, they also need partners in their parenting journey—whether they are raising toddlers or teens. Did you know that sometimes, as a parent, you are too close to the situation to see things clearly? A mentor can offer fresh, unbiased perspectives on what your teen is going through. About two weeks ago, after a clarity call with a parent concerned about her daughter’s low self-esteem and her failed attempts to help, I listened patiently. Afterward, I assessed the situation and asked her a few questions along the way. At the end of the call, there was silence—Chai!—she was quiet for a moment before saying, “How come I didn’t know this all along?” "How can I sign her up for your mentor?", came the regular question. The blessing of a mentor is that they can bridge gaps in communication between parents and teens, helping both sides understand each other better. Imagine a teen who feels misunderstood because their parents want them to follow a particular career path. A mentor could help the teen express their desires more clearly, while also helping the parents understand the teen's point of view, reducing friction. Mentors are not your competitors. They are your partners. Having a mentor reinforces the values and principles you’re teaching at home. Sometimes, HEARING THE SAME MESSAGE FROM THE DIFFERENT SOURCE HELPS IT STICK BETTER. Mentors can echo lessons about responsibility, self-discipline, and integrity, giving your teen more confidence in those values. Mentors can provide targeted advice that might be outside your area of expertise. Like coach Wendy will say, your bedroom is too small to raise a king. Expose them to the right positive influence that will partner with you in helping them through their teenager journey. I will be announcing our 2025 mentorship program soon. It will be the best thing that will happen to your preteen and teen. Keep an eye here. #P&Tshow #GlobalTeenCoach

Happy to share Im certified Parent Coach From Deep Learning “Toodlers and Preschoolers “ Hello, I’m Coach Karisma Masand , and I’m dedicated to supporting parents on their journey to creating a thriving family life. With extensive experience in , child development, family counseling, or education,I offer comprehensive coaching designed to address the unique challenges and opportunities that come with parenting. In my practice, I focus on a holistic approach, which means considering every aspect of family dynamics, including emotional well-being, communication patterns, and individual needs of both parents and children. My services include: Personalized Guidance: I work one-on-one with parents to understand their specific challenges and goals, providing tailored strategies and insights to foster a positive family environment. Skill Development: From enhancing parenting techniques and improving discipline methods to developing effective communication skills, I provide practical tools and techniques that are easy to implement in everyday life. Support and Encouragement: Parenting can be challenging, and my role is to offer support, encouragement, and a non-judgmental space where you can openly discuss your concerns and aspirations. Goal Setting: Together, we’ll set clear, achievable goals for your family and develop a step-by-step plan to reach them, helping you navigate both everyday situations and long-term aspirations. Workshops and Resources: I also offer workshops and resources on various parenting topics, providing you with additional support and knowledge to enhance your parenting journey. My approach is grounded in empathy, respect, and evidence-based practices, aiming to empower you to make informed decisions that align with your family’s values and needs. Whether you’re looking to strengthen your relationship with your children, manage parenting stress, or develop new strategies, I’m here to guide and support you every step of the way. Let’s embark on this journey together and work towards creating a more harmonious, fulfilling family life. #parentingcoach#deepparenting#personilsedcoaching#helpingparents#postiveparebting

𝐈𝐬 𝐂𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐢𝐧 𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆? 𝐈𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐞𝐞𝐧𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐫????   Coaching, counselling, therapy- all these are needed by everybody at some point in time. Whenever we are stuck, a hand holding helps to swim through the obstacle.  A hand holding or guidance helps us get clarity.    In short, anybody who is willing to know that they are stuck and is willing ot change , all modalities are for them. 📢 Parenting Coaching can be for parents to be. 📢Parenting coaching can be for parents with toddlers. 📢Parenting coaching can be for parents of primary school goers. 📢Parenting coaching can be for parents of middle schoolers. 📢Parenting coaching can be for parents who need to sort relationship challenge. 📢Parenting coaching can be for parents who have emotional challenges. 📢Parenting coaching can be for parents who have anxiety.   And the list goes on.   𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐢𝐧 𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐬𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐬 ✨ 𝐏𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐝 𝐆𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞: One of the most powerful aspects of coaching is its tailored approach. Every family is unique, and coaching recognizes this diversity by offering personalized strategies to address your specific challenges and goals. ✨ 𝐍𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐠𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬: Parenthood is a journey filled with transitions, from the anticipation of a new arrival to the adjustments of raising adolescents. Coaching provides a steady hand during these pivotal moments, offering guidance and support as you navigate the evolving dynamics of family life. Whether you're transitioning into parenthood for the first time or navigating the teenage years, coaching empowers you to embrace change with confidence and clarity. ✨ 𝐁𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐅𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐬:Coaching offers tools and strategies to enhance communication, understanding, and connection within families. 🌱     Parenting is a journey best travelled with support, and coaching offers the compass to navigate its winding paths. By investing in coaching, parents can cultivate better relationships with their children. 🤝 Connect with Dr Deepa Khemani for 1 to 1 parenting sessions.   Deepa's vision is to empower parents by providing them with effective tools and techniques rooted in contemporary parenting approaches.   She is committed to cultivate harmony within families, establishing an environment that enables children to progress toward a life characterized by balance. #Deepparenting #teenmentoring #coachingforall #familygoals #parentingcoaching

I have been active on LinkedIn for quite some time but there are so many people who’ve joined me recently. So I thought why not do a reintroduction, so you can know who are you seeing in your feed. How can we truly “connect” if we don’t know each other, right? So here’s a bit about me. I have experience of over a decade in the education sector in various roles, such as positive parenting coach, children's author, and education technology consultant. ✅ As a Positive Parenting Coach- I run a platform known as The Parent Academy which is dedicated to providing valuable resources and online courses on positive parenting for busy and stressed parents. I am a parent myself so I know a fair bit about real struggles and hurdles that comes with nurturing children, and through countless training sessions for educators, parents and children I’ve helped transform the challenges of parenting into a rewarding, harmonious and even enjoyable experience. ✅ As an Education Consultant- As an Education Consultant, I enable schools to adopt personalized learning programs to ensure that every child learns with engagement, purpose and enjoyment. Over the last 12 years, I have worked with hundreds of schools in India, UK, Europe, East Asia and Middle East to adopt personalized mathematics technology consciously in classrooms and beyond. In fact, this experience was just so right because I got to work very closely with children, schools, parents, and educators and that helped me in my parenting coaching journey as well. ✅ As a Children’s Author- I have authored 5 books for children to subtly communicate important, relevant, and thought-provoking concepts to kids without preaching to them. In addition to that 🔹 I have a WhatsApp community of 350+ parents who love to interact with each other and share their parenting challenges and find comfort, guidance and solutions 🔹 I run the Parenting Truth and Dare Podcast with 79 episodes live as I write this. 🔹 I have especially designed a course for parents which I am about to launch this month. This course will offer practical advice, evidence-based strategies, and invaluable insights to help you navigate the complexities of parenthood with confidence and grace. My vision is to offer a framework for overall family wellness so that the parenting experience becomes fun for you, and growing up becomes enjoyable for your child. Now that you know about me and my work, why not share about you as well? Feel free to tell me about you in the comments below. Here to make more valuable connections and conversations. Are you with me? #parentingcoach #coach #educationalist #linkedin

From working as the Founder Principal of a CBSE K-12 School for 16 years to serving 3000+ parents as a parenting coach. 5 Things I Learned over the Years as a Parenting Coach: 1. The Value of Continuous Self-Reflection and Learning Being a parenting coach taught me the importance of thinking about my ideas on parenting. It's crucial to be open to new ways of thinking and to keep learning to help families better. 2. Families are Unique Working closely with families showed me that every family is different. There's no one-size-fits-all solution for parenting. Understanding each family's unique situation is essential to help them well. 3. The Transformative Power of Empathy and Compassion Building trust and understanding with families requires empathetic listening and a non-judgmental attitude. Once that trust is established, it becomes more impactful to help parents through the challenges of parenting. Everyone loves to be understood and parents are no exception to this. 4. Self-care is essential Helping families can be challenging emotionally, so I learned the importance of setting limits and caring for myself. This allowed me to prevent getting too tired or stressed out. Same way the parents who prioritise self-care, are better equipped to devise effective solutions to the issues and concerns related to their children. 5. Impact of Parenting on Child Development From my experience I understood that parents play a critical role in shaping their children's emotional, social, and cognitive development. There are different parenting styles and all parents have different temperaments. Have you ever worked with a Parenting Coach? #ParentingCoach #parenting #kids

“Strength-based parenting can help your child feel they belong. Strength-based parenting can help your child improve their school performance. The key is to notice your child's strengths and amplify them.” ~ Jolanta Burke, Psychology Today, August 24, 2023 Traditional parenting often focuses on correcting weaknesses, but strength-based parenting flips the script. It's about recognising and nurturing your child's inherent talents and using them as a springboard for growth. This approach isn't just feel-good fluff; it has real, measurable benefits. Firstly, strength-based parenting fosters a sense of belonging. Children who feel their unique strengths are valued are more likely to feel accepted and connected to their family, peers and community. A study by the University of California, Berkeley, found that children praised for their strengths had higher self-esteem and were more likely to engage positively with others. This sense of belonging translates to better social-emotional well-being and resilience. Secondly, strength-based parenting fuels academic success. When children leverage their strengths in learning, they're more engaged, motivated and persistent. A meta-analysis by the University of Rochester revealed that interventions focused on student strengths led to significant improvements in academic performance, particularly in math and reading. This suggests that amplifying strengths, not just fixing weaknesses, can unlock a child's true academic potential. You’re probably wondering how you can bring this approach home- It all starts with observation. Watch what your child naturally gravitates towards, what activities bring them joy and a sense of accomplishment. Celebrate their efforts, not just outcomes. Encourage them to use their strengths to tackle challenges and connect with others. All victories, even small ones matter! Please do share- What are you doing to recognise and celebrate your children's superpowers? How do you create an environment where their unique talents can shine? #emotionalintelligenceforyouth #emotionalintelligence #eq #ei #futureofwork #futureleaders #leadersoftomorrow #leadershipdevelopment #personaldevelopment #coaching #leadershipcoaching #professionalcoaching #icfcoach #kaceconsultants

𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐕𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐨𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬 ?? 🌟 Are you feeling overwhelmed with the challenges of parenting in today's fast-paced world? Do you wish you had a support system like the "village" or "community" of olden days to help you navigate the complexities of raising children? 𝐀𝐬 𝐚 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐜𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡, 𝐈'𝐦 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐬𝐲𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐦 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲. 👨👩👧👦 In today's society, many parents find themselves in nuclear families, far from the traditional extended support network of grandparents, aunts, and uncles. This can leave them feeling isolated and unsure of how to effectively address their children's needs, especially in the wake of post-COVID challenges. 🔍 That's where my expertise comes in. As a parenting coach, I specialize in understanding your unique family dynamics and guiding you towards achieving your family goals. 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮'𝐫𝐞 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚 5-𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫-𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐭𝐞𝐞𝐧𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐫, 𝐈 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐝 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐨𝐨𝐭 𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐮𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐥𝐨𝐩 𝐞𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐠𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦. 💡 Additionally, I help parents gain insight into their own patterns and limiting beliefs that may be impacting their parenting. By exploring your own childhood experiences and beliefs, you can make positive changes that benefit both you and your children. 🔑 One of the unique services I offer is fingerprint analysis, which helps parents understand their child's personality and learning styles on a deeper level. Through a consultation process, I provide awareness about your child's strengths and limitations, along with simple remedial measures to support their development. 🚀 If you're ready to embark on a journey towards more confident and effective parenting, I'm here to support you every step of the way. Let's work together to create a nurturing environment where both you and your children can thrive. Reach out to me, Dr Deepa Khemani today to learn more about how parenting coaching can benefit your family! #ParentingCoach #SupportForParents #FamilyWellness #teenmentoring #PersonalizedGuidance

HERE’S EPISODE #3! Parenting with Freedom and Connection: Kristen Himm on Radical Unschooling Kristen Himm is a former public school teacher who now advocates for radical unschooling. She runs an unschool-inspired space for homeschool families in Albuquerque, New Mexico, and supports parents through free support groups and paid one-on-one coaching. With over 12 years of parenting experience and 11 years in education, Kristen is passionate about helping parents embrace freedom and connection in their families. Kristen’s journey is a source of inspiration for families exploring alternative education methods and self-directed learning. In this episode of Unlocking the Parenting Code, we sit down with Kristen Himm, a former public school teacher turned radical unschooling mom and advocate. Kristen shares her journey from the classroom to creating a child-led, freedom-based learning environment at home for her two children, ages 12 and 7. She reflects on the challenges and joys of radical unschooling, navigating sibling interactions, and helping parents through their own deschooling and unschooling journeys. With a deep commitment to connection, partnership, and alternative education, Kristen offers Key Topics Discussed: *Radical Unschooling Philosophy: How Kristen transitioned from public school teaching to radical unschooling and what led her to this approach. *Balancing Freedom and Connection: Strategies for balancing children’s freedom with partnership and connection in a family setting. *Sibling Dynamics: Practical tips for handling sibling relationships in an unschooling household where children of different ages have varying interests. *Attachment Parenting Influence: How attachment parenting has shaped Kristen’s unschooling approach and relationship with her children. *Supporting Parents on Their Unschooling Journey: Common concerns parents have about unschooling, and how Kristen helps them navigate the deschooling process. *A Day in the Life of an Unschooling Family: What a typical day looks like for Kristen’s family and how she creates structure within a flexible, child-led learning environment. *Personal Growth Through Parenting: Kristen shares personal stories about how her children have inspired her growth as a parent. Listen here: https://lnkd.in/gehJBRJz Watch here: https://lnkd.in/gE5B85F9 PLEASE REMEMBER TO SUBSCRIBE, RATE & REVIEW TO HELP THE PODCAST GROW. #UnschoolingJourney #RadicalUnschooling #ChildLedLearning #FreedomInEducation #SiblingRelationships #KristenHimm #UnlockingTheParentingCode #Sonhoodcoaching #KristenHimm