Day 12: The Circle of Life and Making It Count I just read one of the most humorously written articles a friend sent me. The writer took me on a reflective journey—narrating life’s twists and turns, the inevitability of aging, and how retirement planning sneaks up on you like an uninvited guest at a party. It was hilarious yet deeply reflective, and it made me pause to think about the circle of life. How often do we stop to reflect on what truly matters? For some, it’s about living in the moment—those vodka-fueled nights or carefree days that seem endless. For others, it's about thinking long-term—investing in family, planning for retirement, or building communities that provide belonging and support as we age. The one thing that stood out? Life doesn’t come with a manual. Aging feels anticlimactic, but it’s also an opportunity to redefine our purpose, to reflect, and to make deliberate choices. The article reminded me of a poignant truth: You were born alone, and you’ll die alone. But it also left me inspired to make every moment count—whether through building meaningful relationships, creating a legacy, or simply embracing the chaos of this journey called life. If you’d like to read the article, comment ARTICLE, and I’ll share it in your DMs. Let’s keep this conversation going. #Reflections #LifeJourney #MakingItCount
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