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I'm at a tech meetup. I overheard one of the co-hosts discussing her "women in tech" initiatives, for example hosting a hackathon with all women judges because so many hackathons are judged by all, or nearly all men. Another guy also overheard and butted in. He really challenged her hard on why she'd do this. Shouldn't she strive for 50/50? Isn't she being exclusionary? He went on to joke (I think) the event should be boycotted as anti-men. Ok, so, look— fellow fellas, don't be that guy. If you don't want to go, then don't. But crusading against women creating exposure for women, in a sea of events full of men, is not the way. (But it sure is easier to punch down, isn't it?) Don't make somebody's challenges the target of your joke... By the way: later, another guy challenged this same woman on whether she could even code, as a meetup host (after she'd introduced herself as a technical founder & engineer). In both cases she handled it with the grace of somebody who's very clearly heard it all before. But you can see the grimace behind the smile. #womenintech #dei #fightbias

Jono Schneider

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