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PARENTING CHILDREN WITH ADD, ADHD, OPPOSITIONAL/DEFIANT PATTERNS AND EXCESSIVE RIGIDITY “Parents of children who suffer from ADD, ADHD, Oppositional/Defiant Patterns or Excessive Rigidity experience far more struggle and strife in their parenting than parents of children without these issues. Why? Because they all share a most vexing problem which each of these childhood issues creates.” “The common problem is that children with these issues find it really difficult to do what they’re told consistently, compliantly and cheerfully.” For more about parenting children with ADHD, ODD and Excessive Rigidity: https://lnkd.in/ggyWjkmZ #ADHD; #ADD; #ODD; #Rigidity; #Oppositional patterns;

Now that back-to-school season is here, managing ADHD and anxiety can be even more challenging. These tips from Additude Magazine can help make the transition smoother for both parents and students with ADHD. From creating structure to setting realistic expectations, there's something in here for everyone. Learn more below. #ADHD #anxiety #parentingtips

Parenting a child with attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) can be rewarding and challenging. Dr. Sharon Saline, a renowned psychologist specializing in ADHD, has developed a comprehensive approach known as the "five C's of #ADHD parenting." This framework focuses on building essential skills for parents and children to navigate the complexities of ADHD together. In this post, we'll explore the five C's—self-control, compassion, collaboration, consistency, and celebration—and discover how they can foster a nurturing environment for your child's success. https://lnkd.in/gbnErjeX

Here, an ADHD expert explains early warning signs of emotional dysregulation and how to teach self-control to a young child who feels things intensely. https://lnkd.in/gzQMfJNm

Join me for 10 days of mythbusting in honour of ADHD awareness month! This is an excerpt from my new book 'Raising Attention'. "ADHD is just a made-up label for naughty children and poor parenting!" One of the hardest things for parents to deal with is the way that others view and understand their child. While they may know that ADHD is a hereditary neurodevelopmental disorder, and that explosive behaviour is an indication that the child is neurologically dysregulated, others unfortunately still believe it’s just an excuse for naughty children in need of more discipline (and for discipline, read punishment). I have come across real pushback lately from some childcare professionals concerning what they deem ‘the over labelling of children.’ These beliefs usually end with a comment similar to “We need to stop labelling children with ADHD, PDA and any other ABC they can think of.” These uninformed comments undermine the diagnoses and conditions and instead insinuate that desperate parents are grabbing at a set of initials in order to label their children and abdicate themselves from responsibility for their behaviour. This view is at best uneducated and at worst parent shaming and ableist. ADHD and explosive behaviour still carries an enormous amount of stigma. Not only can this add to the shame, guilt, and feelings of inadequacy many parents and their children already struggle with, it can actually make parents more likely to use harsh discipline on their children. Sadly, research has shown that children with ADHD are more likely to be on the receiving end of harsh parenting. The more a parent feels that their child’s behaviour is their fault, the more stressed they become, and the more likely they are to turn to harsh parenting. When these methods inevitably don’t work, they hit a state of burnout and the parents themselves become highly dysregulated emotionally, which in turn is more likely to result in more out-of-control behaviour from children. What is the answer? We need to show empathy and compassion for both child and parent, remove the blame, stop ridiculing and judging and instead direct the energy displaced here into giving some actual support. ‘Raising Attention’ a guide for parents and carers of children with ADHD or explosive behaviour is out next year - you can preorder here: https://amzn.to/4gZkFjA #ADHDawareness #ADHD #RaisingAttention #adhdparent #adhdawarenessmonth #adhdsupport

🚨 ADHD Parent Survival Alert 🚨 If you’re this close to losing your mind while raising your ADHD kid, don’t panic—I’ve got your back! 🙌 I pulled together the ultimate ADHD Parenting Survival Kit, full of resources that saved my sanity (and could save yours too). From sensory must-haves and focus tools to my favorite apps and support groups, this kit is a total game-changer. Trust me, we need all the help we can get, right?! 🧠💡 #ADHDParenting #SurvivalMode #SanitySaved #ADHDTips #ParentingHacks #Neurodivergent #ADHDSupport #MomLife https://lnkd.in/eG3MkKYK

A new study tracking nearly 300 kids from when they were 4 months old to 15 years old found that long-term ADHD severity hinged on a combination of a child's temperament and parenting style. What type of parenting style was beneficial? A balance of warmth, limits, and space for children to practice their self-regulation. Being too controlling, on the other hand, was linked to increased ADHD symptoms over time. If you're struggling with this right now, our dedicated ADHD expert can help guide you toward a parenting style that fits your child's temperament. Check out www.yourcooper.com/adhd to learn more ⭐ https://lnkd.in/eFgQCpAB

Know about some effective strategies to care for your child with ADHD. Follow our page for more such updates. . . . . . . . #parenting #effectiveparenting #adhd #paretingtips #hapinuscare

Parenting an ADHD overachiever is a unique adventure, filled with brilliance and challenges. In this guide, we explore the delicate balance of ADHD perfectionism and offer actionable strategies. #ADHD #parenting #overachievement #perfectionism

ADHD: CREATING RULES AND LIMITS  USING POSITIVE INCENTIVES AND PUNISHMENTS “My son has ADHD. He gets me so angry. He never follows my orders, doesn’t obey, doesn’t cooperate.” “My teenage daughter has ADHD. She has an answer for everything I say. She acts as if she doesn’t have to answer to anybody in the home. All parental discipline and authority have broken down."   Parents often tell me that all discipline has broken down in their home. Here is what I advise: https://lnkd.in/gn_ppzWz   #ADHD; #Rules; #Limits; #Incentives; #Punishments