Three million people in the United States and 61 million worldwide died in 2023, according to the U.S Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. A small portion may have written their life stories, but it’s a pretty safe bet that the vast majority did not. Ever since I became aware of the dramatic loss of knowledge and information that occurs when people die without writing their life stories for posterity, I’ve been trying to figure out a way to quantify the loss. With no expertise in mathematics, I relied on proxies to provide a rough idea of the magnitude of the disappearance at death of the accumulated knowledge of 61 million people. As a counter balance, I examined anecdotally what happens when the information is passed down through the generations. A guy named Johnnie C. Godwin has been writing a page a day in his journal for decades. Let’s say a page symbolizes one day of your life. Writing a page a day for 50 years, for instance, results in 18,250 pages. Overall Perspective What if practically none of the 61 million people who died last year wrote their life stories for posterity or otherwise preserved their own personal body of information? According to Google, 61 million x 18,250 equals more than 1 trillion — 1,113,250,000,000 to be exact — pages of knowledge and information, a staggering loss to history. While the number may seem comical, think for a moment about what it represents in terms of the loss to the world, especially when multiplied over and over for generations. Individual Perspective Five generations of Johnnie Godwin’s family have had the extraordinary benefit of knowing their family history intimately because Johnnie kept daily journals for years. His journal-writing habit was passed down from his mother. After inheriting his mother’s journals, Johnnie read about “the simple wedding of Dad and Mother.” He was able to read his mother’s “thoughts about my birth” within hours after it happened. Also, “I got to read a unique and touching and very personal story that told about her early life, its patterns, and about when and how she met my dad and their courtship during the great depression …” Johnnie’s wife, Phyllis, says she benefitted from his daily writing because he recorded their meeting, courtship and marriage. “The struggles, joys and blessings are there,” she said. “The birth of our three sons, eight grandchildren and growing group of 13 great grands are documented. We often use the journals for reminders or fact checking.” A perfect solution is to write your life story for posterity using your journals or diaries as resources. Those who lack journals or diaries can rely on their memories. Relying on memory is easier than it might appear because the Decade-by-Decade Method is chronological. The sooner you start, the better. https://lnkd.in/gUy2yiQN
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