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Desmond Guilfoyle in his book “The Charisma Effect” writes about how to captivate an audience and deliver a winning message on page (69) and tells the way of developing the trait by imagining being light-hearted in a future situation. Jumping in your body and noticing how it feels, observing the audience response, hear how your voice sounds, notice how your body moves and sense how you go about naturally being light-hearted. Now step out of your body and see how it all comes together. Look at yourself as you would if you were watching yourself on wide-screen television. See yourself standing in front of a group or audience and being appropriate light-hearted. Notice how your personify the things you saw, heard and felt when you were light-heartedness inside your body. He says people who have intensely clear representation of the traits they want to amplify or develop are much more like to achieve them. The more one visits the idealized trait or attribute (as in imagining what it is like) the more probable that one will generate the behaviours require to achieve it.

6 Lessons from the book "How to win Friends and influence People" by Deep note 1️⃣ Don’t argue! ❌ You can’t win the other person through arguments, so the best thing is to avoid it. 2️⃣ Show respect for another's opinion. 📍 Never say to their face, "You're wrong". Even if you don’t agree with them. 3️⃣ If you are wrong, admit it! ❗️ When you know that you have done something wrong, admitting it will save you time and help avoid unnecessary quarrels. 4️⃣ Begin in a friendly way 🤓 When advising others, first mention a few of their good qualities. 5️⃣ Let the other person feel that the idea is theirs 👉 No one likes to feel they're being sold something or told to do a thing. 6️⃣ Dramatize your ideas 🤠 The movies do it. Tv does it. Why don’t you do it? Make the task seem more entertaining and interesting.

Want to grab your readers’ attention from the get-go? Start your stories at a point of high drama. Most stories don’t get interesting until the middle, so why not skip to the good part right away? Hook your reader with an exciting moment, then take them back to show how you got there. Here’s how to do it... 👉 Identify the most dramatic point in your story 👉 Start your email with that moment to instantly capture interest 👉 After hooking your reader, explain the events leading up to the drama 👉 Tie the story back to your main message or call to action By structuring your stories this way, you keep your readers engaged and eager to know more Follow for more tips like this 🤘

Often times we struggle with what to say to someone in crisis. We fear that if we say the wrong thing, it might make it worse, so we say nothing. It is true, our responses make an impact, but the 'right' thing to say might be easier than we think. Here are the three main things to communicate: You are not alone, I am here with you You have the space to feel all of your feelings, and it is okay to feel them You are supported and have access to resources and people that can help you Listen to the audio below for some examples of what this looks like

Easy to make an assumption. But, remember that they influence our decisions, actions and expectations. Thus, don’t pass judgement before checking whether your assumptions can be verified.

As promised, more content coming from the interview with Dan Martell 🔥 𝑷𝒖𝒍𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑽𝒐𝒄𝒂𝒃𝒖𝒍𝒂𝒓𝒚 - just as the First Agreement mentions 𝐵𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝐼𝑚𝑝𝑒𝑐𝑐𝑎𝑏𝑙𝑒 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑌𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑊𝑜𝑟𝑑, the words we choose and the vocabulary we "pull" have the potential to powerfully impact ourselves and others alike. The words we speak can make our dreams, or break them. Can lift others up, or tear them down. Can instill hope and confidence, or leave us overcoming feelings of despair. You hear it often, "The Words We Speak Are The House We Live In" So choose wisely and watch your perspectives completely arrange As well as the impact you have on those around you 🎬 𝐖𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐧 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐓𝐮𝐛𝐞: https://lnkd.in/g8MAfPD3  🎧 𝐋𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐨𝐧 𝐀𝐩𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐏𝐨𝐝𝐜𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐬: https://lnkd.in/gDC3A7zc 🎧 𝐋𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐨𝐧 𝐒𝐩𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐲: https://lnkd.in/g5zQk5pw

Q: Who are the better storytellers, Nigerians or Americans? In episode 169 (out now!) Zainab Olanrewaju (The Stolutionist) discusses how to tell brand stories like nobody else in the world. 🤣

WTF??? Not swearing here, just shining a spotlight on our new video series We Try First, which Sue-Ann Cheow, Rosalind Ang and I have been working on as part of our HeadSTart newsletter revamp over the past nine months or so (I guess it's really become our baby). Join us as we test various concepts related to personal finance, careers and lifestyle. Adulting is hard but we hope the series will add some fun to it. Catch the videos over the next seven weeks in our weekly HeadSTart email newsletter, which you can sign up for in the link below. We launched our first ep on Tuesday! Full video here: https://str.sg/GSkT A teaser of what's to come in the next few eps: 📄🖊️ Yay or nay to using AI to write your CV? 👜👔 What's the best colour to wear to an important meeting? 🥃🃏 Investing in whisky and collectible cards #adulting #personalfinance #career #ai #investing

Brilliant! Be You: The World Will Adjust Podcast

[TV Show idea] Looser is the winner In this show, the one who loses is the winner. For example: 1)     In a singing competition the one who sings the worst is the winner. 2)     In an acting competition the one that does the worst acting wins. 3)     In a writing competition the one who wrote the worst story or essay wins. 4)     In a debate competition the one who does the worst speech wins. 5)     In a logic competition the one who is the most illogical wins. (I especially like this because being worst at logic, you have to be extremely logical, to bring out the worst logic possible)