In the past three weeks, I’ve had the honor of caring for five decedents under the age of 17. At Return Home, we firmly believe that no family should have to bear the financial burden of saying goodbye to a child. That’s why we don’t charge anything for these services, including a laying-in ceremony to help families find a moment of peace and connection.
Yesterday, as I worked on an autopsy repair, someone asked me how this work feels different. The truth is, it’s profoundly different. This experience isn’t just about a single moment of care—it’s about shaping a family’s entire relationship with death.
For many families, the last time they saw their child was in the chaos of paramedics trying to save them or when the medical examiner took them from their home. Now, I have the privilege of creating a new and final memory for them—one where their child is beautiful, peaceful, and at rest.
In that moment, in the prep room, I am nowhere else. This is their time, and I am fully committed to them. My focus, my care, and my heart are wholly dedicated to ensuring that this child is prepared with the utmost dignity and love.
Reuniting a child with their family under these circumstances is both the hardest and most meaningful work I’ve ever done. It’s a reminder of why I chose this path: to bring dignity, comfort, and healing to families in their darkest moments.
If you’re ever looking for a way to support families experiencing loss, consider how we can all contribute to compassionate, meaningful care that changes lives.
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2moAs always Another Great Day at Piedmont Healthcare!