Eldercare duties don't stop for the school holidays ✋
We spoke with Lydia, who has shared her thoughts on being a sandwich carer during the summer below:
"We have to plan very carefully during the summer holidays. There are a lot of spreadsheets involved, and literally every penny in this period is accounted for. The job of looking after my grandfather clearly pays no attention to whether there are school holidays or not.
My self-employed husband effectively downs tools for the whole six weeks and takes full responsibility for the childcare. We're very lucky that his work is flexible enough for him to do this, but it's not without its stresses.
During the six weeks of summer holidays, I find it very stressful, and I find myself feeling very guilty. I feel guilty that my husband has to keep the kids entertained all summer, and I feel guilty that I miss out on what they do because I'm still at work.
Then, when we do go away, I feel guilty if something happens to my grandfather, and I won't be on hand to sort it out. I don't have any strategies for coping - just throwing myself a quiet little pity party occasionally!"
For advice on how to support carers in your workplace, reach out to Seniorcare by Lottie at seniorcare@lottie.org 📩
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Director of Professional Services at Rod Barlow Digital Consultancy
2wWhat an achievement Eva Taylor-Jones 🙌 Very proud of your kindness empathy and enthusiasm to help families navigate through such a difficult time We have been there as a family and so needed Lottie I wish we had your help and advice back then. I’m glad that Eva Taylor-Jones is using her experience as a carer but also as a family member to provide help and advice in what are such challenging times