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Narrative Based Psychotherapist I Integrative Approach I Critical Lens I Researcher

As a therapist, I am constantly reminded of the weight that our stories carry —especially those touching on the harsh realities of being a woman. The recent tragedy at R G Kar Medical College, where a second-year PG resident was horrifically assaulted, has left me grappling with emotions that are both deeply personal and painfully universal. In the therapy room, these conversations take up space —space heavy with echoes of our shared experiences. One of my clients recently shared a chilling realization: they felt privileged that their situation was not as bad as what happened to this young woman. This sense of comparative relief is a heartbreaking testament to the pervasive nature of violence against women, a twisted normalization that many of us live with.  The client’s reflection reminded me of the ever-present fear that, at any moment, it could have been us. The boundaries breached, the violations endured, and the fear that shadows our lives—these are not just statistics. Our bodies are often treated as less than human, navigating a world where respect and safety are not guaranteed, but hoped for. While our experiences may vary, the thread of fear, pain, and resilience connects us all.  These conversations don’t just sit in the room; they linger, echo, and demand to be heard, forcing us to confront uncomfortable societal truths—truths often minimized or brushed aside. These experiences are a reflection of the broader structures of power and oppression that we navigate every day.  For women in healthcare these stories carry an added layer of pain. We are healers, yet often need healing from the very spaces we occupy.  The therapeutic room becomes a sanctuary—not just for the client, but for me as well. It is a place to reflect on the paradox of meaning-making in the face of such horrors, holding space for the grief, the anger, and the shared burden that we, as women, carry. These stories matter. They need to be heard, held, and honored.  Holding space for these stories is not just a professional responsibility, but a necessary act of solidarity and support. It’s about bearing witness to the truth of our shared experiences and recognizing that the fight for justice, safety, and respect is far from over.  #Violenceaginstwomen #Holdingspace #WomeninHealthcare #MentalHealth

Nitya Vashistha

Counselling Psychologist

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Thank you for sharing this. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

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