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Pressure is the twin of corporate life. When pressure mounts, emails get shorter, messages get sharper, emotions charge the interstitial spaces between people. It can feel twice as hard to do a thing that feels effortless on most days. On those days or for those moments, minimize your external interaction. Because conversations in emotionally charged, high- pressure meeting room often don't go well. Take some time away to center back. Then when you return you will be far more resourced to operate from a place of strength.

ACTS OF SERVICE Acts of service in the workplace is all about helping someone out when they need it most, it focuses on performing meaningful acts for people to help elevate pressure and meet deadlines. The key to this love language is centred around thinking in a “actions speak louder than words” mindset. Tips for performing acts of service: - Ask yourself "what can I do to help this person out, or to remove an action item off their plate?" - Ask them if they want your help, don't just assume as this could be misinterpreted in a negative way. - Investigate what work still needs completion to determine where you can assist. - Avoid doing work that gives you the limelight or the glory. - Perhaps you could make copies, send follow-up emails, schedule meetings or make coffee while your colleague updates your manager or CEO.

Sometimes, clients get annoyed with me. I notice their eyes getting bigger, and their heads tilting slightly sideways, confused and slightly shocked by what I ask them. It's because I call them out. Often, I get clients complaining about their partners because they don't feel supported by them. To which I ask, "Have you ever said that to your partner and asked for support?" Client: "No, but he should know." Me: "How do you expect your partner to support you in a way you want if you don't ask if you don't communicate it?" Client: "True!" Often, we want our partners to read our minds and do whatever we want the way we want. Then, we get angry at them when they don't meet our expectations. Don't expect your partner to read your mind; be clear about what you want and voice it assertively (passive-aggressive communication will backfire, I’ve tried it, doesn't work…). Often, what happens is that our partners are supporting us, but in a way, they know and think is best, which doesn't necessarily mean it's the way we want to be supported. That's why it's important to communicate your needs and wants before you're full of resentment and explode at them the next time you have PMS. The first times it will feel uncomfortable, but I promise you, the more you do it the easier it gets. #personaldevelopment #mentalwellbeing #relationshipadvice #communicationskills #assertive #assertivecommunication

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK – Mastering Interruptions Like a Pro! I hope this message finds you well. Last week’s Thought for the Week was; “Navigating Tough Talks” about handling challenging discussions with grace and empathy. If you missed it, feel free to catch up here: https://lnkd.in/eAEzpzD6 As we navigate the challenges of the week, I wanted to share a thought that many of us can relate to: handling interruptions gracefully, especially when you're eager to express yourself. How we handle these interruptions speaks volumes about our communication skills and our ability to navigate challenging situations gracefully. The Talking stick, used in many Indigenous cultures, is an ancient and powerful “communication tool” that ensures a code of conduct of respect during meetings is followed. The person holding the stick, and only that person, is designated as having the right to speak and all others must listen quietly and respectfully. In our environment, interruptions are inevitable. Whether it's during a team meeting, a crucial presentation, or a one-on-one conversation, there are times when we find ourselves yearning to say, "Let me finish!" So, how do we maintain composure and navigate interruptions with grace? Consider this: Interruptions can stem from enthusiasm, differing communication styles, or simply a desire to contribute. While it might be tempting to react defensively, there's an opportunity to respond thoughtfully. In my blog this week, I give some tips on how to handle interruptions. Read on here: https://lnkd.in/egQJ_7VG “Those moments where we are interrupted are often the moments we learn the most about grace" -Journeys in Grace- Remember; effective communication is a two-way street. While asserting your need to finish a thought is important, so is fostering an environment where everyone feels heard and valued. If you're curious to explore more about enhancing your communication toolkit, I invite you to book a Complimentary Consultation with me here: https://shorturl.at/ajAS4. It's a chance for personalised insights and clarity on your journey ahead without any obligation. Wishing you a week filled with meaningful connections and the courage to navigate conversations with grace! With warmest wishes, Korinne Thrive Coaching & Training – Empowering you to Thrive! Testimonials: https://lnkd.in/eRWQYcJh #Communication #ThoughtForTheWeek #ActiveListening #CommunicationCode

We've all been there: you’re building a promising relationship with a client or professional contact, and suddenly, they stop responding—poof!—they disappear. No emails, no calls, no smoke signals—they’ve ghosted you! 👻📞✉️ Ghosting isn't just for dating apps; it happens in the professional world too. And while it can be incredibly frustrating, especially when you were excited about the potential collaboration. It's important to approach this situation with empathy and patience. First off, let’s cut them some slack. Life happens. Maybe they’re swamped, or there could be many other reasons for their silence. Instead of bombarding them with desperate follow-ups, acknowledge their busy schedule. A light-hearted, “Hope all is well in your world! Let’s catch up when you have a moment,” can do wonders. It shows you're considerate and still interested. 📅 If more time passes and there's still no response, it’s time to address it directly but gently. Send a message that’s both respectful and straightforward, such as, “Is everything okay?” or, “If you’ve decided to move in a different direction, no hard feelings—just let me know!” This approach shows you’re respectful of their decision and just want to know where you stand, and even that sometimes doesn't work. While it might feel daunting to send such a message, remember that you have little to lose. If they’re already unresponsive, this might be the nudge needed to reignite the conversation. If not, you gain valuable clarity and can focus your efforts elsewhere. 💬 The key is to remain genuine and respectful. Show that you care about their perspective and are open to hearing their reasons. This human touch can often reopen lines of communication and even if it doesn’t, it will leave a positive impression. Ever had a professional contact or client ghost you? How did you handle it? ✨ #ProfessionalConnections #ClientEngagement #EffectiveCommunication #Networking #BusinessStrategy #HumanApproach

In a world filled with constant chatter, the art of strategic silence emerges as a powerful tool for achieving personal and professional goals. #StrategicSilence #EffectiveCommunication #PersonalGrowth #WorkplaceSuccess https://lnkd.in/grZacs7P

Keep your communication clear, no matter how friendly your client is. Imagine a road without any direction boards or sign boards. If you are driving on that road, there is are high chance of you having an accident. Communication works the same way. Without clarity, we risk getting lost in misunderstanding or confusion. You just make sure that you are damn clear from your side so anyone cant make you responsible for things that are going wrong. And if I tell you a fact: keep your communication clear with your clients to avoid the unwanted drama in your work life. I just wanted to save you, people, from the blunder you can make without having clear communication. Learn to say no if you are not able to work for any reason. ⁃ It helps you to avoid mistakes that occur without your focus on the work. Learn to ask them if you have any doubts. ⁃ It helps you to work according to their requirements. Learn to keep a record of your work. ⁃ It helps you to prove yourself right when you are in trouble. Learn to inform them when you are done with the task of the day. ⁃ It helps you to be clear from your side. I know you will scroll down after reading this post and forget what I said the second you reach the next post. I know you can't understand or learn from my experiences until you go through such situations. As I learned this lesson after losing a client last night. So, believe me, that being clear and vocal about things keeps you safe. #personalbranding #smm #linkedinforcreators #engagementstrategiest

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK – Mastering Interruptions Like a Pro! I hope this message finds you well. Last week’s Thought for the Week was; “Navigating Tough Talks” about handling challenging discussions with grace and empathy. If you missed it, feel free to catch up here: https://lnkd.in/eRjW78Q2 As we navigate the challenges of the week, I wanted to share a thought that many of us can relate to: handling interruptions gracefully, especially when you're eager to express yourself. How we handle these interruptions speaks volumes about our communication skills and our ability to navigate challenging situations gracefully. The Talking stick, used in many Indigenous cultures, is an ancient and powerful “communication tool” that ensures a code of conduct of respect during meetings is followed. The person holding the stick, and only that person, is designated as having the right to speak and all others must listen quietly and respectfully. In our environment, interruptions are inevitable. Whether it's during a team meeting, a crucial presentation, or a one-on-one conversation, there are times when we find ourselves yearning to say, "Let me finish!" So, how do we maintain composure and navigate interruptions with grace? Consider this: Interruptions can stem from enthusiasm, differing communication styles, or simply a desire to contribute. While it might be tempting to react defensively, there's an opportunity to respond thoughtfully. In my blog this week, I give some tips on how to handle interruptions. Read on here: https://lnkd.in/eZQxAAdS “Those moments where we are interrupted are often the moments we learn the most about grace" -Journeys in Grace- Remember; effective communication is a two-way street. While asserting your need to finish a thought is important, so is fostering an environment where everyone feels heard and valued. If you're curious to explore more about enhancing your communication toolkit, I invite you to book a Complimentary Consultation with me here: https://shorturl.at/ajAS4. It's a chance for personalised insights and clarity on your journey ahead without any obligation. Wishing you a week filled with meaningful connections and the courage to navigate conversations with grace! With warmest wishes, Korinne Thrive Coaching & Training – Empowering you to Thrive! Testimonials: https://lnkd.in/evgWVF-8 #Communication #ThoughtForTheWeek #ActiveListening #CommunicationCode

Holiday gatherings come with unique challenges and interactions with friends and loved ones may be a trigger for stress. Most of us find ourselves interacting with people who have different points of view and communication styles during the holidays. Practicing our communication skills is one way to help navigate the challenges that come along with holiday gatherings. As our resilience consultants remind students during our Project Resilience social emotional learning lessons, “it can be tricky to communicate when our emotional brain takes over from our thinking brain. That’s why we need practice.” Check out these communication tips that we shared in our newsletter last year, and try them out when you find yourself entering challenging conversations this holiday season: https://lnkd.in/gDkVPNmF

"Busy lives can strain even the strongest relationships, but intentional communication can make all the difference. Take 10 minutes today to reconnect with your partner. Want deeper conversations? Let’s talk! Book your free 10-minute consultation now! 💬