State Bar of New Mexico’s Post

Do you rely occasionally or often on punishments or threats of punishments to motivate or get your kids to do what you say? I’ve been there. I want to assure you that there are much better ways to create connection and cooperation with your kids than to threaten them into compliance. The threat of punishment only works temporarily anyway, and your child learns absolutely nothing from it, other than to fear you and to fear mistakes. For more tips on this topic, check out episode 123 of The Real World Peaceful Parenting Podcast! https://lnkd.in/gpyscHmt

The best time for a couple to de-escalate or pause an argument is as soon as it becomes unproductive. Even a fifteen minute break can help calm and reset. This week, we’re in session with Grace and Finn, a young married couple who struggle to keep their disagreements from turning into full-blown arguments they later regret. We help them identify what goes wrong and give them practical tools for substituting faulty assumptions and accusations with openness and vulnerability. Click on the link below to listen to the episode and subscribe for free now so you don’t miss a single episode on apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. If you’re enjoying the podcast, please help others find it by leaving us a review on apple.podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts–thanks very much for taking the time to do that. Lastly, please share this episode with people who you think might benefit from it. https://lnkd.in/dHujiFy2

HATE, HATE, HATE, DOUBLE HATE, LOATHE ENTIRELY.... On the most recent episode of the ACS Group podcast 'A Yorkshire Office', I asked a question to the hosts, and the listeners, what things in the office really get under their skin. Things that just don't need to happen. Things that need to STOP. The usual suspects came up like cooking fish in the microwave, colleagues not cleaning up after themselves, leaving things on your personal desk... The one that I passionately described was the REPLY ALL button. JUST WHY? I get that it has its uses, especially when it's an important trail, but for individuals to continue having a conversation with another colleague and getting everyone involved. JUST NO. People who reply all just to say thank you or something, when they sit RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU. *insert GIF of Michael Scott saying "No, God No" here* Did you know the average carbon footprint of an email is 0.3g CO2e? You're literally killing the planet with unnecessary e-mails. So... reader... I ask you. What grinds your gears? We'll discuss the best ones on the next episode. Let's see if you're guilty of any of them.

The first in our series of podcasts on RASSO practice… take a listen. It’s important that the Bar consider the perspectives of complainants and victims who are waiting for their cases to be heard.

TGIF! Happy #lightheartedFriday - the second of five in March! The weather is getting warmer, but unfortunately it looks like a wet and windy weekend is ahead of us. If that leaves you indoors, why not use the time to brush up on your estate planning knowledge? We've got a brand new podcast up as of this morning, along with over 100 more episodes on all sorts of elder law topics. We know, estate planning isn't something that people can't wait to do, but waiting too long can be very detrimental. Learn what you need to do and think about and how to get started by checking it out, along with our YouTube channel as well. Podcast https://lnkd.in/dskxcwr YouTube https://lnkd.in/eTekeaEa

As we've navigated family crisis for the first two months of 2024, this podcast episode hit me deeply. It's a whole conversation about "how the act of asking for help goes beyond vulnerability—it's a gateway to deeper connection with others." And "why our worthiness isn't tied to independence—but rather to our ability to build a web of support." Such an important and thoughtful conversation on how much reaching out for help - and saying yes to those who offer it - is a gift to everyone involved. https://lnkd.in/dpwnhip4 #AskingForHelp #CommunitySupport #PodcastEpisode #Vulnerability

I'm speaking with MaryAnn de Mestre (TEP) of M de Mestre Lawyers and Nick Donnelly of Plenary Wealth in today's episode of Your Aged Care Compass podcast. We're discussing a topic that many people wouldn't give too much consideration to, until they find themselves is such a situation, Elder Abuse. This thought provoking conversation highlighted what an individual can do and where to go to report elder abuse as well as what some red flags might be, that they've come across in their practice. Pop over to the website and catch today's episode 🎧 https://lnkd.in/gNG8SSUF . . . #elderabuse #podcast #elderly #finacialadvice #legaladvice #lawyer

Today’s the day! 🎉 We’re so proud to launch our first original podcast, Anatomy of a Stalker - a 5-part true crime narrative series investigating what makes stalkers who they are. Hosted by Ruchira Sharma (freelance journalist for The Guardian, BBC, and VICE Media), episodes see her embark on a journey inside the mind of a stalker by looking at their characteristics, motivations, and prospects of rehabilitation. The first episode sets out to discover what stalking actually is and delves into the five clinical types of stalkers: 1️⃣ Rejected 2️⃣ Intimacy seeking 3️⃣ Incompetent 4️⃣ Resentful 5️⃣ Predatory Further episodes explore the impact of stalking, the realities and shortfalls of the law and police response, current interventions and approaches taken to those who stalk, and more. Episodes 1 & 2 are available now on all major listening platforms, with the further 3 instalments dropping weekly. Anatomy of a Stalker is a Crime+Investigation Original Podcast by Cue Podcasts. Massive thanks to Sam Pearson of A+E Networks EMEA for entrusting us to tell this story. Executive Producer: Niall Killeney Taylor Lead Producers: Kim Montgomery & Graeme Woodcock  Production Support: Jack Williams, Tom Hughes, & Laura Shenton #anatomyofastalker #truecrime #podcast

As we've navigated family crisis for the first two months of 2024, this podcast episode hit me deeply. It's a whole conversation about "how the act of asking for help goes beyond vulnerability—it's a gateway to deeper connection with others." And "why our worthiness isn't tied to independence—but rather to our ability to build a web of support." Such an important and thoughtful conversation on how much reaching out for help - and saying yes to those who offer it - is a gift to everyone involved. https://lnkd.in/di6e_TYR #AskingForHelp #CommunitySupport #PodcastEpisode #Vulnerability