Scott Parker on his leadership at Fulham:
"At the outset, I decided to profile everyone.
I got an external company to categorise the players.
They spent time with them, spoke to them, asked questions & then gave me a document about that player & how they like to be approached, what traits they have in their personality."
"I realised at the back end of my career that the changing room had changed drastically from the one I was brought up in.
I’m very black and white."
"If I’ve been crap I want someone to say, ‘You’re nowhere near it, you’ve not been good enough’ & I’ll react to that, I’ll take it on the chin, I may go back to that person and we’ll have a disagreement but in the cold light of day when I get in my car, that’ll be it, finished."
"But there are different personalities and cultures and the game has changed.
How you approach one player can be very different to another.
One player might want it like I used to, just wanting to be told when they’ve not done well enough."
"Another player doesn’t want to be exposed in the changing room, wants it done behind closed doors.
How do you set the environment for a serious conversation?
Is it on the training pitch sitting on the ball?
Is it in the manager’s office?"
"Or do they sense it’s serious & then clam up?
That profile of every player gives me a real understanding and if I need to speak to that player, it’s always a reference for me to look at and understand."
"It’s just a reference, it’s not a definite or something I always stick to, but it’s something I can draw on.
You’d be amazed.
You walk into changing rooms now and instantly players are on their phones, they’re looking through loads of stuff."
"Social media and the technology side I’m crap at.
I don’t like it and because I don’t like it and I’m not engaged with it, I find it harder to understand, but I realise it’s something I’m going to have to improve on because it ain’t going to stop.
It’s not going away."
“Having conversations with players now, you’re not always talking football."
"When I was a player talking to a manager he might ask about the family a little bit & have a general chit-chat, but now you’re having a real conversation & you need to be more educated at certain moments.
All that stuff comes into it.” [The Athletic]
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