Male Counselling in Esher, ENG

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Stephen William Slatter
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Esher KT10
There are many more.
The terminology of therapy is often confusing, but the way I work means that: although whatever has brought you to therapy is manifesting itself in your day to day life, behaviours, thoughts and feelings, I believe that it's roots could be in your past, possibly as far back as early childhood. ​Perhaps you are feeling anxious, or are experiencing low mood. Maybe you have experienced a trauma, or are dealing with a lot of stress. You might have suffered a loss, or simply feel that something isn't quite right, and that you need some help and support.
There are many more.
The terminology of therapy is often confusing, but the way I work means that: although whatever has brought you to therapy is manifesting itself in your day to day life, behaviours, thoughts and feelings, I believe that it's roots could be in your past, possibly as far back as early childhood. ​Perhaps you are feeling anxious, or are experiencing low mood. Maybe you have experienced a trauma, or are dealing with a lot of stress. You might have suffered a loss, or simply feel that something isn't quite right, and that you need some help and support.
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Lee Martin Mbacp(Sen.accred)Emdr(Accred) Ma Ba(Hons) Pg-Dip
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Esher KT10  (Online Only)
Hello and Welcome, Life has indeed become complex. Many of us are now struggling with our mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings have risen to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a Master Degree and EMDR Accredited, I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
Hello and Welcome, Life has indeed become complex. Many of us are now struggling with our mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings have risen to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a Master Degree and EMDR Accredited, I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
020 3984 8581 View 020 3984 8581
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Andy Schiller
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Esher KT10
Hello and welcome to my profile page. I am a UKCP-registered clinical psychotherapist offering short and long-term therapy in Surrey and London. Most of my work is with clients experiencing depression, low mood or anxiety. I understand that the process of therapy may appear daunting and that the first steps take a lot of courage. I also believe we all possess the capacity to make new meaning of our lives and experiences to ease any distress we may experience.
Hello and welcome to my profile page. I am a UKCP-registered clinical psychotherapist offering short and long-term therapy in Surrey and London. Most of my work is with clients experiencing depression, low mood or anxiety. I understand that the process of therapy may appear daunting and that the first steps take a lot of courage. I also believe we all possess the capacity to make new meaning of our lives and experiences to ease any distress we may experience.
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Neil Coburn
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Esher KT10
I am a specialist relationship therapist. I work with couples on their relationship challenges. I also work with individuals who are facing relationship difficulties, and on occasions, couples at the end of a relationship. My aim is always to help people to have better conversations with each other and themselves as individuals, to find a fresh start.
I am a specialist relationship therapist. I work with couples on their relationship challenges. I also work with individuals who are facing relationship difficulties, and on occasions, couples at the end of a relationship. My aim is always to help people to have better conversations with each other and themselves as individuals, to find a fresh start.
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David Abrehart
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Esher KT10
Finding a good match for a therapist can seem daunting. In consulting with me, I seek to offer you the benefits of my many years' experience with a sensitive and respectful approach.  Whether you are struggling with anxiety or low mood, or feel stuck in a difficult situation, or feel you are not fulfilling your potential, or perhaps have an adolescent son or daughter who you are concerned about, I would value hearing from you.
Finding a good match for a therapist can seem daunting. In consulting with me, I seek to offer you the benefits of my many years' experience with a sensitive and respectful approach.  Whether you are struggling with anxiety or low mood, or feel stuck in a difficult situation, or feel you are not fulfilling your potential, or perhaps have an adolescent son or daughter who you are concerned about, I would value hearing from you.
020 3835 5296 View 020 3835 5296
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Lee Martin
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Esher KT10  (Online Only)
Hello and Welcome, Life has indeed become complex. Many of us are now struggling with our mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings have risen to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a Master Degree and EMDR Accredited, I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues, undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
Hello and Welcome, Life has indeed become complex. Many of us are now struggling with our mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings have risen to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a Master Degree and EMDR Accredited, I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues, undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
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Peter Adrian Buhlmann
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Esher KT10
Seeking therapy may feel like a step into the unknown. I believe it is a respite; a place to re-make a connection with yourself. It can be a safe space to bring difficult emotions and to find some understanding and perhaps discover a way to move forward. It is a different experience for everyone. Your unique life will shape how it works.
Seeking therapy may feel like a step into the unknown. I believe it is a respite; a place to re-make a connection with yourself. It can be a safe space to bring difficult emotions and to find some understanding and perhaps discover a way to move forward. It is a different experience for everyone. Your unique life will shape how it works.
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Daniel Avital
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Esher KT10
I am an experienced psychotherapist and counsellor working with individuals and couples at my Richmond and Weybridge practices. I draw from a range of approaches including CBT, mindfulness, existential psychotherapy and hu manistic psychology. My aim is to tailor therapy to your individual needs and work with you to develop the most suitable approach.
I am an experienced psychotherapist and counsellor working with individuals and couples at my Richmond and Weybridge practices. I draw from a range of approaches including CBT, mindfulness, existential psychotherapy and hu manistic psychology. My aim is to tailor therapy to your individual needs and work with you to develop the most suitable approach.
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Nic Perrins
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Esher KT10
Are you feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, depression, or panic attacks? Perhaps you're struggling with grief or feeling lost. It’s okay to seek help, and I’m here to support you on your journey to wellness. My name is Nic, and I am a highly qualified integrative therapist with extensive experience in helping clients navigate their emotions, thoughts, and behaviours. Taking that first step can be daunting, but I provide a safe, non-judgemental space to explore your feelings. Contact me for a free introductory call, and let's navigate your path to wellness together.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, depression, or panic attacks? Perhaps you're struggling with grief or feeling lost. It’s okay to seek help, and I’m here to support you on your journey to wellness. My name is Nic, and I am a highly qualified integrative therapist with extensive experience in helping clients navigate their emotions, thoughts, and behaviours. Taking that first step can be daunting, but I provide a safe, non-judgemental space to explore your feelings. Contact me for a free introductory call, and let's navigate your path to wellness together.
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mikethompsoncounselling
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Esher KT10
I come from a background of four decades in public service where I have managed trauma in the highest profile settings.
The world is a very challenging place, particularly now. We never know what will emerge to test our resolve and wellbeing. When those episodes arise, it is often difficult to understand and make sense of what is going on.I offer a safe and confidential space where we can come together in a therapeutic setting to work through matters which are affecting you. Perhaps you are experiencing relationship difficulties, a loss such as bereavement or redundancy or are feeling anxious or depressed. It may be that you are struggling to find a direction in life or have a sense that something isn't right without knowing what it is.
I come from a background of four decades in public service where I have managed trauma in the highest profile settings.
The world is a very challenging place, particularly now. We never know what will emerge to test our resolve and wellbeing. When those episodes arise, it is often difficult to understand and make sense of what is going on.I offer a safe and confidential space where we can come together in a therapeutic setting to work through matters which are affecting you. Perhaps you are experiencing relationship difficulties, a loss such as bereavement or redundancy or are feeling anxious or depressed. It may be that you are struggling to find a direction in life or have a sense that something isn't right without knowing what it is.
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Daniel James Thomas-Wallis
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Walton-on-Thames KT12
Hello. I’m Daniel, and I specialize in crafting personalized psychotherapy treatment plans to address each client's unique mental health struggles and personal growth objectives. Whether you’re feeling directionless, held back by past traumas, or experiencing strained relationships, I am committed to supporting you on your healing journey. Together, we will explore the root causes of your pain, uncover your purpose, and work toward profound healing and lasting personal growth.
Hello. I’m Daniel, and I specialize in crafting personalized psychotherapy treatment plans to address each client's unique mental health struggles and personal growth objectives. Whether you’re feeling directionless, held back by past traumas, or experiencing strained relationships, I am committed to supporting you on your healing journey. Together, we will explore the root causes of your pain, uncover your purpose, and work toward profound healing and lasting personal growth.
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Peter Joy
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Surbiton KT6
Issues I help with include: Abuse, Anxiety, Bereavement, Depression, Loss, Trauma, Life Coaching / Development, Health, Cultural/Identity, Men's issues, Self esteem, Family, Anger, Redundancy, Stress, Work issues.
We can all be challenged or go through difficult circumstances in our lives. At times we may become stressed, experience anxiety, feel profound unhappiness or suffer a great loss. Counselling provides a protected and boundaried space in which to bring and work through these experiences. In a counselling session, you will be heard, by a trained person, in strict confidence. The counsellor's role is not to give advice or to tell you what to do but rather to be a skilled and helpful companion, accompanying you, as you discover your own process and ways of finding growth and healing.
Issues I help with include: Abuse, Anxiety, Bereavement, Depression, Loss, Trauma, Life Coaching / Development, Health, Cultural/Identity, Men's issues, Self esteem, Family, Anger, Redundancy, Stress, Work issues.
We can all be challenged or go through difficult circumstances in our lives. At times we may become stressed, experience anxiety, feel profound unhappiness or suffer a great loss. Counselling provides a protected and boundaried space in which to bring and work through these experiences. In a counselling session, you will be heard, by a trained person, in strict confidence. The counsellor's role is not to give advice or to tell you what to do but rather to be a skilled and helpful companion, accompanying you, as you discover your own process and ways of finding growth and healing.
01293 344546 View 01293 344546
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Peter Hill
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
West Molesey KT8
I have worked for many years with adults of all ages and backgrounds and with a wide range of concerns and problems.
Some feelings and problems are hard to understand or to bear. Sometimes they are overwhelming in their intensity or sometimes we just feel stuck, as if things will never change. They may arise from a sudden personal crisis or from a relationship or from ongoing anxiety or depression. They can belong to the present but can also be rooted in painful experiences from the past. Psychotherapy offers a way to think about what is happening in the present, reflect on patterns and links from the past and explore how change can happen.
I have worked for many years with adults of all ages and backgrounds and with a wide range of concerns and problems.
Some feelings and problems are hard to understand or to bear. Sometimes they are overwhelming in their intensity or sometimes we just feel stuck, as if things will never change. They may arise from a sudden personal crisis or from a relationship or from ongoing anxiety or depression. They can belong to the present but can also be rooted in painful experiences from the past. Psychotherapy offers a way to think about what is happening in the present, reflect on patterns and links from the past and explore how change can happen.
01372 677565 View 01372 677565
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Steve Lynch
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Walton-on-Thames KT12  (Online Only)
I have over 25 years experience of using CBT and Mindfulness methods to help people manage their troublesome thoughts, feelings and behaviours.
Anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship issues, stress? Develop effective psychological techniques to regain self-control, improve your mood, build confidence and develop your self-understanding.
I have over 25 years experience of using CBT and Mindfulness methods to help people manage their troublesome thoughts, feelings and behaviours.
Anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship issues, stress? Develop effective psychological techniques to regain self-control, improve your mood, build confidence and develop your self-understanding.
01372 671223 View 01372 671223
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Dr Mandeep Bachu
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Walton-on-Thames KT12
I am a clinical psychologist trained in a diverse range of therapeutic models including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) with a special interest in Schema Therapy. I have received formal training in Cognitive Analytic Therapy (CAT) as well as experience of delivering Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) interventions. I have 11 years of experience working within the NHS with children and adults with a range of psychological difficulties including anxiety, depression, and personality disorders.
I am a clinical psychologist trained in a diverse range of therapeutic models including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) with a special interest in Schema Therapy. I have received formal training in Cognitive Analytic Therapy (CAT) as well as experience of delivering Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) interventions. I have 11 years of experience working within the NHS with children and adults with a range of psychological difficulties including anxiety, depression, and personality disorders.
01344 951923 View 01344 951923
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Lee Martin Mbacp(Sen Accred) Emdr(Accred) Ma Ba(Hons) Pg-Dip
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Claygate KT10  (Online Only)
Hello and Welcome, Life has indeed become complex. Many of us are now struggling with our mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings have risen to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a Master Degree and EMDR Accredited, I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
Hello and Welcome, Life has indeed become complex. Many of us are now struggling with our mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings have risen to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a Master Degree and EMDR Accredited, I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
01494 326461 View 01494 326461
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Vasili Magnis
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Surbiton KT6
I offer open-ended integrative psychotherapy and counselling services in Twickenham, TW2, South West London. As an experienced and accredited psychotherapist (UKCP and BABCP), I draw on over 10 years of clinical experience in applied psychology. My background includes working in public and private settings, where I have served as a psychological therapist and supervisor. Currently, I divide my time between an NHS personality disorder service as a Principal Psychologist and my private practice.
I offer open-ended integrative psychotherapy and counselling services in Twickenham, TW2, South West London. As an experienced and accredited psychotherapist (UKCP and BABCP), I draw on over 10 years of clinical experience in applied psychology. My background includes working in public and private settings, where I have served as a psychological therapist and supervisor. Currently, I divide my time between an NHS personality disorder service as a Principal Psychologist and my private practice.
07988 990350 View 07988 990350
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David O'Connor
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Surbiton KT6
Hello, I am a qualified and accredited psychotherapeutic counsellor. I offer to support clients with a range of issues including abuse, anger, anxiety & stress, addiction, depression, relationship, self-confidence and workplace issues. Clients I see come to counselling for many reasons, to give themselves the opportunity to explore, clarify, gain or increase awareness of difficulties or problems they are experiencing and, or how they may want to change unhelpful patterns of thoughts, feelings or behaviours they are experiencing with a view to finding their new pathway to a more comfortable and satisfying way of being in the world.
Hello, I am a qualified and accredited psychotherapeutic counsellor. I offer to support clients with a range of issues including abuse, anger, anxiety & stress, addiction, depression, relationship, self-confidence and workplace issues. Clients I see come to counselling for many reasons, to give themselves the opportunity to explore, clarify, gain or increase awareness of difficulties or problems they are experiencing and, or how they may want to change unhelpful patterns of thoughts, feelings or behaviours they are experiencing with a view to finding their new pathway to a more comfortable and satisfying way of being in the world.
020 7870 1608 View 020 7870 1608
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Tony Williams
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Surbiton KT6
Maybe you’re thinking and feeling things you don’t want to think or feel. Or maybe feeling nothing at all. Perhaps things keep going wrong; or perhaps nothing changes. It could be you feel you can’t cope. Or something has just come and hit you for six. Counselling is a safe place to explore things like that. It’s a place with the potential for personal change. Fortunately, we hu mans can change our minds. Literally. A fancy word for this is plasticity. Even more, we are designed to change in each other’s company. It’s how hu mans learn to fit in. So we make a new relationship, you and I, and this is our vehicle for change.
Maybe you’re thinking and feeling things you don’t want to think or feel. Or maybe feeling nothing at all. Perhaps things keep going wrong; or perhaps nothing changes. It could be you feel you can’t cope. Or something has just come and hit you for six. Counselling is a safe place to explore things like that. It’s a place with the potential for personal change. Fortunately, we hu mans can change our minds. Literally. A fancy word for this is plasticity. Even more, we are designed to change in each other’s company. It’s how hu mans learn to fit in. So we make a new relationship, you and I, and this is our vehicle for change.
01748 901825 View 01748 901825
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Sinisa Jovic
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chessington KT9
As a hu man being, I believe that nothing in the range of hu man experience should be alien to me, and this consciously open and empathic attitude is one of the cornerstones of my approach to the therapeutic process.
Hello, I am Sinisa. I am an experienced therapist and Lecturer in Counselling at the University of East London. Working with me, you will find a warm and safe environment to explore your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. I am here to empower you to help yourself to create meaningful and lasting change. No matter what your background is, I am here to listen and help. I support people with a range of issues, some of which include: anxiety, depression, relationship issues, stress, low moods, sexuality and gender identity issues, low self-esteem, sadness, separation, divorce, middle-life crisis, procrastination, spiritual issues, etc.
As a hu man being, I believe that nothing in the range of hu man experience should be alien to me, and this consciously open and empathic attitude is one of the cornerstones of my approach to the therapeutic process.
Hello, I am Sinisa. I am an experienced therapist and Lecturer in Counselling at the University of East London. Working with me, you will find a warm and safe environment to explore your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. I am here to empower you to help yourself to create meaningful and lasting change. No matter what your background is, I am here to listen and help. I support people with a range of issues, some of which include: anxiety, depression, relationship issues, stress, low moods, sexuality and gender identity issues, low self-esteem, sadness, separation, divorce, middle-life crisis, procrastination, spiritual issues, etc.
020 4538 3255 View 020 4538 3255

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Male Counsellors

As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?

There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.

How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?

Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client. Prospective clients should also ask what the expectation is for treatment, and what the fee structure is, and whether and which insurance plans are accepted.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?

Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with a male therapist. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges, in the case of male clients. Some women have prior negative experiences with women that predispose them to prefer working with a male in therapy. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.

Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?

Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.



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