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June 23, 2020 - Posted by Elaine to Guides, Office, Paper

Snail Mail: The Art of Letter Writing

Writing letters by hand is a delightful custom that was around long before phone calls, emails, or instant messaging. “Snail mail,” nicknamed due to its leisurely pace, might be less popular today, but it still connects friends and stationary lovers around the world. Taking the time to write by hand allows you to slow down and choose your words with care, and when you can’t say hello face-to-face, a letter is a personal and thoughtful way to get in touch. Plus, it’s a great opportunity to use your pen and ink collection.

Read on or watch the video below to learn more and discover some of our favorite tools for letter writing!

Snail Mail Supplies
Letter Paper
Various Types and Sizes of Letter Paper
Letter paper comes in many sizes, weights, and styles.
There are various factors to consider when choosing the perfect paper for your handwritten letter, such as paper size, weight, and sheet style. For example, if you write with fountain pens, it’s best to use smooth paper that can handle ink. If you’re a long-winded writer, you’ll want lightweight paper since postage is determined by the ounce. For more information, check out our Fountain Pen Paper and Paper Sizes Explained articles.
Envelopes
Various Types and Sizes of Envelopes
Buy envelopes or make your own with a template.
Envelopes come in many shapes and sizes, suitable for uses including business letters, wedding invitations, and simply putting a smile on a friend’s face. See the end of this guide for a comprehensive overview of envelopes offered by JetPens. Choose envelopes to match your pen and paper—for example, fountain pen writers may want to use fountain pen friendly envelopes. For creative folks, another option is to make DIY envelopes out of any paper using an envelope template.
Letter Sets
Letter Sets
Stationery sets contain pre-paired paper and envelopes.
Specially paired letter sets take the guesswork out of matching papers with envelopes. Because the paper is blank with no pre-printed greetings, it’s easy and convenient to keep a set on hand for any occasion that warrants a handwritten note.
Postcards and Greeting Cards
Postcards and Greeting Cards
Cards are great for brief messages.
Postcards and greeting cards are designed for brief correspondence. Great for sending a quick hello, they are thoughtful and personal without requiring a full page of written text. There are numerous options to choose from—you could send a postcard that highlights a local attraction, a greeting card with a charming printed design, or a simple and elegant correspondence card.
Writing Instruments
Writing Instruments
You can use any pen to write a thoughtful letter, but we suggest a fountain pen or ergonomic pen.
A letter will be appreciated no matter what it’s written with, but you can outfit yourself to write in style. Fountain pens are an undeniably classy choice with many customization options for expressing your creativity. Or, if you want a luxurious experience for your fingertips, an ergonomic pen will keep you comfortable.For more information, check out our Guide to Choosing a Fountain Pen and our Guide to Ergonomic Pens.
Wax Sealing Supplies
Wax Seals
Wax seals add a vintage touch.
To secure envelopes with a vintage touch, use traditional wax seals. Sealing wax has been used throughout history to keep important documents safe from prying eyes. It’s a sophisticated way to finish off your letter, and your recipient will be delighted.

For step-by-step instructions on how to use sealing waxes, read our Wax Seal How-To article. We recommend using supple sealing wax for any letter you send through the postal system. As it’s less brittle, it can take a beating and still arrive intact.

Mail Accessories
Snail Mail Accessories
Cute and practical add-ons make letter writing more fun.
Your snail mail arsenal can also include charming embellishments and practical supplies. Washi tapes, stickers, and special edition postage stamps add visual highlights to your letter, making it more personal. A glue pen or tape runner makes it easy to attach embellishments or photographs, and it’s convenient to have a cute letter opener on hand once your pen pals write back!
How to Write a Letter

Not sure how to get words onto paper? Keep in mind that a friend will be happy to hear from you no matter the quality of your prose, and read on for more detailed letter-writing tips.

How to Start a Letter
Starting a letter.
Begin a letter with the date and a greeting.
First, write the date in the top right or left corner of your paper. Future historians will thank you. Then, start your letter with a greeting and the recipient’s name. Though you’ll never go wrong with “dear” or “hello,” the joy of letters is that you can be unique and express yourself however you choose. Feel free to address a friend casually with a “hi” or “‘sup” like you would in real life.
How to Write the Body of a Letter
Letter body text.
Fill out your letter with specific details.
We have suggestions for letter topics for all occasions later in this guide. Often, you can start with whatever first inspired you to sit down and write a letter. Try to use specific examples in your writing. “I went to the boardwalk and watched a seagull steal a hot dog out of a child’s hand” is more fun to read than “I had a nice weekend.” If you hope to open a dialogue, be sure to ask questions or give a prompt to inspire your friend to write back.
How to End a Letter
Ending a letter.
End a letter sincerely.
Traditionally, a letter closes with a sign-off phrase and your name. Common sign-offs appropriate for friends include “warm regards” and “yours truly.” You can have fun with an elaborate sign-off like “your old friend and erstwhile companion”1. or “I thank you for your attention, and I'm out of here.”2 Looking up other historical valedictions might inspire you. Or go short and sweet: the classic “love” will always work.
When to Write a Letter

When should we write? Many occasions call for the personal touch of a handwritten letter. In the scenarios below, we offer some writing topics and recommendations to get you started.

Pen Pals
Writing a Letter to a Pen Pal
For longer letters, write neatly on lined paper.
Whether your pen pal is a long-time friend or a complete stranger, the best part is exchanging stories about your daily lives. For longer letters like these, we recommend Strathmore 500 Paper. It has dotted lines to help you write neatly, but they are printed in light blue for easier reading. You can also add stickers, colored inks, and other embellishments to make your letter fun to read.

Topic Suggestion: Offer a recent book, movie, or recipe recommendation.

Recommendations: Strathmore 500 Series Letter Set, Midori Sticker Marché Stickers, Pentel EnerGel Philography Gel Pens

Thank You Letters
Writing a Thank You Card
Write a quick, thoughtful note with a fast-drying EnerGel pen.
Instead of sending a quick text or email, take a moment to express your appreciation in writing. We like these whimsical Teacup Collection Notecards because of their bright, colorful prints. If you are writing many notes at a time, such as after a wedding or after the holidays, a fast-drying pen like the Pentel EnerGel-X will let you write quickly without smearing.

Topic Suggestion: Personalize your letter by describing how you intend to use the specific gift item.

Recommendations: Chronicle Books Assorted Notecards, Bande Washi Tape Sticker Rolls, Pentel EnerGel-X Gel Pens

Condolence Letters
Writing a Letter of Condolence
Letters of condolence should be minimal and sincere.
Expressing sympathy can be challenging, but your sentiments will comfort your friend in a difficult time. For these situations, it is best to use simple, neutral-colored stationery. The Pilot Letter Pad has clean white pages with wide ruling for you to write a short, sincere note. In Japan, it is customary to use gray ink for written condolences—the idea being that the writer’s ink was diluted by tears of mourning.

Topic Suggestion: Be empathetic while staying positive by writing about a fond memory.

Recommendations: Pilot Letter Set, Pilot Iroshizuku Kiri-Same Ink, Pilot Cavalier Fountain Pen

Travel Letters
Writing a Postcard or a Letter Home while Traveling
Send a letter or postcard that captures your exciting travels.
If you’re somewhere far from home, send a letter back to share your travel experiences. Vintage style LIFE Airmail stationary is lightweight and won't add bulk to your carry-on. Another fun way to write home is to find local postcards of places you’ve visited, or carry along a mini sketchbook and marker pen to draw your own.

Topic Suggestion: Instead of writing about a major tourist attraction, describe a hidden gem.

Recommendations: LIFE Airmail Letter Set, Maruman Zuan Postcard Size Sketchbook, Sakura Pigma Micron Drawing Pens

Love Letters
Writing a Love Letter
Romantic details like scented ink will make your letter special.
A romantic love letter is perfect for Valentine’s day, an anniversary, or whenever you feel inspired by your beau. To quote William Wordsworth, “fill your paper with the breathings of your heart.” Elegant touches like subtly scented ink and silky smooth paper will make your love letter truly special. We love the beautiful floral scent of this J. Herbin Rose Red ink.

Topic Suggestion: Write a list of things you appreciate—especially things they may not notice.

Recommendations: Clairefontaine Triomphe Letter Set, Lamy Joy Calligraphy Fountain Pen, J. Herbin Scented Fountain Pen Ink

Mail Art
Creating a Mail Art Collage
Etegami is the art of pairing quick observational paintings with a simple sentence.
Snail mail doesn’t even have to be handwritten! You can create whimsical art pieces made with all sorts of mixed media, found objects, and a trusty glue stick. You can also try your hand at the Japanese art of etegami–small, postcard-size paintings of everyday items combined with a brief, pensive sentiment.

Topic Suggestion: Have fun using watercolors to make simple observational paintings, or create a collage from magazines and doodles.

Recommendations: Akashiya Etegami Postcard Paper, Kuretake Gansai Tambi Watercolors, Pentel Brush Pens

Nesting Letter Kit
Nesting Letters
Midori MD Envelopes and Midori Letter Sets fit together perfectly.
If you never receive any letters back, resort to bribery. Include a smaller stamped envelope with your letter, and your letter recipient will have no excuse! We recommend pairing the Crown Mill C6/5 Envelopes with the Life One Touch Airmail Envelopes as a more affordable option, and the Midori MD Envelopes with the adorable Midori Letter Sets if you want to give your friend, and your future self, a nice treat.

Topic Suggestion: Keep it brief so you don't overstuff your envelope.

Recommendations: Crown Mill C6/5 Envelopes, Life One Touch Airmail Envelopes, Life One Touch Airmail Envelopes, Midori Letter Sets

Finishing Touches

Once you’ve written a heartfelt letter, only a few steps remain before it reaches its destination. While addressing and mailing a letter are simple tasks, they contain plenty of opportunities for creativity.

How to Address Envelopes
Addressing an Envelope
Use Uni Posca Paint Markers for lettering or decoration that won't wash away.
Envelopes should be addressed on the center front, with a return address in the upper left corner or on the back flap. When addressing, write the address parallel to the longest edge of the envelope. If you’re worried about keeping your writing tidy or centered, use a ruler with an Ames Lettering Guide and draw guidelines in pencil. Write addresses in waterproof ink in case your envelope gets wet in transit.

If you want to create complex illustrations on your envelopes, Uni Posca Paint Markers are great for durable decorating. You can use your fanciest lettering for your recipient’s name, but be sure to print the address neatly and legibly.

How to Mail a Letter

Buy stamps online or from your post office and place as many as necessary on the top right corner of your letter. If you're not sure how many stamps you need, check the USPS website. For those who prefer not to lick stamps or envelopes, we recommend keeping a water brush handy for a simple and clean way to paste stamps and seal envelopes. Finally, leave your letter in a postbox or in your own mailbox. You may choose to use a stamp code—Victorians would tilt stamps at strange angles to communicate secret meanings—but make sure you warn your recipient.

Envelope Sizes

If you've put time and care into your letter, check to make sure you can mail it. If you’re in the US, your envelope must be bigger than 3.5 inches by 5 inches, smaller than 6.125 inches by 11.5 inches, and not more than a quarter inch thick. A letter outside these bounds will be rejected by US post offices.

Common Envelope Sizes
Standard envelope sizes carried by JetPens.
Envelopes, like paper, have different names and sizes in North America than in the rest of the world. In North America, envelope sizes have names like No. 7-3⁄4 and No. 9. No. 7-3⁄4 envelopes are also known as Monarch envelopes, despite the absence of monarchy in most of North America. North America also sometimes labels envelopes A2 through A10. This has no relationship to ISO paper sizing, which also uses A as a category, and JetPens avoids describing envelopes this way. No. 9 envelopes are perfectly suited to Letter-sized paper.

Outside of North America, envelopes come in international standard sizes. JetPens carries C6, C5/6, and DL (“Dimension Lengthwise”). C envelope sizes are proportional to ISO paper sizes, with the same consistent 1:√2 side length ratio. For more information, read our guide to paper sizes. A C6 envelope fits an A6 sheet of paper, or an A5 sheet folded in half, or A4 folded in quarters, and so on. A C5/6 envelope or a DL envelope will fit an A4 (or Letter) sheet folded into thirds.

C6 envelope and paper comparison
C6 envelope and paper comparison.
C6/5 envelope and paper comparison
C6/5 envelope and paper comparison.

Envelope and Paper Compatibility
Envelope Measurements
Envelope Features
Sincerely Yours

Have we sparked your interest in snail mail? If you love pens and paper as much as we do, take the time to write a letter by hand when the opportunity arises. It’s a great way to practice your penmanship while brightening a friend’s mailbox, and we hope you’ll join in on the fun!

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Ready to start writing letters but don't have any cute stationery? Check out our Snail Mail Set and keep the art of handwritten correspondence alive! The set includes two cute fountain pens, airmail-themed stationery, a waterproof gel pen for writing addresses, and a handy envelope template.
Notes
  • 1 From Margaret Atwood’s novel Alias Grace.
  • 2 The close of Kurt Vonnegut’s last speech, printed in Armageddon in Retrospect.
  • 3 Peel and Seal seals act like stickers. Gum seals require licking or other moistening. No-seal will require a glue stick or tape.


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