Warning: This post includes information and a discussion of pregnancy loss.
“Nobody asked me about how I was doing. Nobody. The physical pain I was treated for after my D&C was not the pain that stuck with me–the lasting impact was on how I experienced my next pregnancy.” - Canopie mom, October 2024.
We know that our healthcare system has countless gaps for new and expecting parents, but in moments of loss, those gaps widen even more. The emotional pain that lingers long after the physical pain fades is often overlooked, leaving families without the support they need. We are facing a crisis of mismanaged pain—one that urgently needs addressing.
To support those experiencing loss, Canopie offers a “Pregnancy After Loss: Self-Care & Coping With Grief” provider-led and peer support class designed to help those experiencing a pregnancy after a loss learn about grief and its effects on parents, process and reflect on their emotional state, and learn how to effectively care for themselves during this time.
We aim to create a space where parents can understand what the body and mind go through when we grieve, identify and acknowledge possible triggers, set boundaries, honor their feelings, and connect with others.
“Too often, after a loss, the focus is more on the circumstances that led to the loss and not the tenderness of what we feel, think, fear, or need in our grief,” Kendall Bassard, LMHC, LCPC, the Canopie expert leading this class, powerfully stated. “It is important to have spaces where grief and loss take center stage and have room to be the narrative, the vulnerability, the process, and the thing that leads that grief to be met with empathy and safety.”
We hope last week’s #WorldPregnancyandInfantLossRemembranceDay was a time to come together in support and remembrance with friends, family, and community. If you or someone you know needs additional support, please reach out to us at hello@canopie.health or call 988 for immediate help from the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.