RARE Coaching & Consulting LLC

Have we told you about the RARE Book Club? We meet monthly to discuss #RARE books, curated to enhance personal and professional development and encourage growth in areas like leadership, emotional intelligence, and resilience. Our book club discussions touch on topics like leadership, personal development, and effective communication. You'll have an opportunity to connect with like-minded individuals who are also focused on growth and development! We wanted to build a supportive community around a love of reading where members encourage and motivate each other, fostering a sense of accountability and shared growth. In November and December we'll be discussing "The Color of Emotional Intelligence: Elevating Our Self and Social Awareness to Address Inequities," penned by the visionary, Farah Harris, MA, LCPC. Link in comments to join our book club! Aiko Bethea, Esq., PCC (she-her) #BookClub #EmotionalIntelligence #leadershipdevelopment

💡 Do you want to be part of creating a workplace that puts people first and changes the game? Do you want to be more fulfilled at work and at home? If you answered "yes" to both of these questions, you are exactly who we had in mind when we built our Transactional to Transformational Leadership course led by Aiko Bethea, Esq., PCC (she-her). Let's lead our way past the days of code-switching, assimilating, and covering into an age of workplaces that support and foster inclusion, belonging, and psychological safety. Link in the comments to learn more about this course. #humanresources #Leadership #management

🌱 In a recent conversation between leadership experts Aiko Bethea, Esq., PCC (she-her) and Elaine Lin Hering, Elaine shared personal reflections on the powerful influence of family and community on how we learn silence. Elaine, the youngest daughter of an immigrant family from Taiwan, was raised in the Christian church and spoke about how those environments shaped her behaviors. "Respecting my elders meant not asking questions, showing deference, and silencing my own needs," she said. 💡  For many immigrants, assimilation is key to survival—learning how to fit in, even when it means hiding parts of yourself. Elaine pointed out how these lessons, reinforced by church teachings like "turn the other cheek" and "be the bigger person," often lead to staying silent. The result? Silence becomes a survival mechanism that’s rewarded early in professional life. Asian Americans are often seen as excellent entry-level hires, but their advancement to leadership roles stalls because their needs and ambitions remain unspoken.  🎯 Elaine and Aiko discussed the internal conflict many face when told to "speak up," only to be met with resistance or ignored. This conversation highlights a deeper issue in leadership and workplace dynamics—unlearning the silence imposed by cultural and familial norms and finding the courage to speak out. ✨  It's a conversation that resonates not just with the Asian American experience but with anyone who has been conditioned to hold back their voice. #leadershipdevelopment #humanresources #management

🌱 Loneliness, Isolation, and Solitude: Understanding the Differences for Our Well-Being 🌱 Dr. Vivek Murthy describes loneliness as a distressing feeling of disconnection, likening it to hunger or thirst—it's a signal that something essential for our survival is missing. 🧠💬 While loneliness is a personal experience, isolation—whether social or physical—can contribute to it, but they aren’t the same thing. And then there’s solitude, which is often a choice and can bring mental health benefits and satisfaction. 🌿 The key is learning to recognize these feelings and understanding how to navigate them for our well-being. 💡 Want to learn more about Isolation and how to combat it? It's not too late to sign up for our workshop. Link in comments for more information! Aiko Bethea, Esq., PCC (she-her) Tozia Ware, Ed.S, LPC-MHSP(temp), NCC Deran Young #loneliness #leadershipdevelopment #humanresources

🌱 Social media is just one slice of life. Each of us has a different relationship with it. But here's something important: 🎯 None of us know what someone else is carrying. The difference between silence that is strategic and silence that is oppressive is AGENCY. 💡 Do you choose silence, or does silence feel like the only option you have? 🎯 The same applies to voice-- your voice isn't just the words you speak in a meeting, it's how you move through the world. Being told how to show up strips away your agency and the ability to full express your gifts, skills, and talents. 💡 In a world full of calls to action, remember this: your agency matters. Silence can be violence when it's forced. Aiko Bethea, Esq., PCC (she-her) Elaine Lin Hering #leadership #teams #humanresources

Join us next Tuesday, 9/17 at 3pm ET as our founder & CEO Aiko Bethea, Esq., PCC (she-her) chats with Elaine Lin Hering, author of Unlearning Silence! #leadershipdevelopment #humanresources #management

🌟 Join Us for a Transformative 3-Part Workshop Series! 🌟 Event: Recognizing Isolation and Rediscovering Community Dates: September 17th, September 26th, and October 9th Time: 7:00 PM ET Platform: Zoom Host: Aiko Bethea, Esq., PCC (she-her), CEO & Founder of RARE Coaching & Consulting Cost: $150 for all 3 workshops (includes an engaging workbook!) Isolation is more than just being alone—it’s a growing issue, particularly in marginalized communities. Join us for an eye-opening conversation that will help you understand, navigate, and overcome the challenges of isolation in both personal and professional contexts. What’s in Store? 🎯 Part 1: Recognizing Isolation • How marginalized groups and minorities suffer more. • Understanding the pandemic’s impact on feelings of isolation. 🎯 Part 2: Loneliness and Isolation at Work • The emotional and psychological toll on individuals in the workplace. • Strategies for identifying and addressing workplace isolation. 🎯 Part 3: Rediscovering Community • The joy of true community and how to find it. • Actionable steps to rebuild and nurture your sense of belonging. 🎙️ Why Attend? This series is your guide to navigating isolation and reclaiming community. With insights from Aiko Bethea, (and special guests!) you’ll gain practical tools to foster genuine connections in both personal and professional settings. Plus, you’ll receive an engaging workbook to help you put what you learn into action. 👉 RSVP Now and take the first step toward rediscovering the power of community. Don’t miss out on this opportunity to connect, learn, and grow—all for just $150! Link to learn more in the comments! #leadershipdevelopment #humanresources #isolation

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"None of us can be truly human in isolation. The qualities that make us human emerge only in the ways we relate to other people." - Harold S. Kushner In a world where connection often feels out of reach, it's more important than ever to come together and rediscover the power of community. Join us and Aiko Bethea, Esq., PCC (she-her) on August 29th at 7pm ET for Recognizing Isolation and Rediscovering Community. 🔗 : https://lnkd.in/e2BSMvmQ Mark your calendars, invite a friend, and let’s rediscover what it means to be human—together. #humanresources #management #isolation

"Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty." — Mother Teresa 🎯 In our fast-paced world, it's easy to feel isolated, even when we're surrounded by others. The truth is, connection and community are vital to our well-being. Join us on August 29th at 7pm ET as we discuss Recognizing Isolation and Rediscovering Community with Aiko Bethea, Esq., PCC (she-her), Deran Young, and Tozia Ware, Ed.S, LPC-MHSP(temp), NCC. 🔗 to RSVP: https://lnkd.in/e2BSMvmQ #linkedinlive #humanresources #management