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Practice positive self-talk ⭐ We all have an inner voice. It’s an endless stream of unspoken thoughts. This “self-talk” can be negative or positive. To see which way you lean, check in with yourself during the day. If you tend to be positive, keep it up. If you tend to judge yourself negatively, try to soften your approach. Talk to yourself in the same way you would talk to a dear friend. Show kindness, gentleness and encouragement. Reframe your negative thoughts ⭐ When you find yourself engaging in negative self-talk, pause. See if you can spin what you’re thinking in a positive way. Here are a couple of examples: If you’re thinking: “I don’t know what I’m doing, and I’ll probably fail.” Reframe it: Say to yourself, “This is a chance to learn something new.” If you’re thinking: “There’s no way I’ll get this job.” Reframe it: Say to yourself, “I have the skillset for this job.” Be curious ⭐ When you’re curious, you’re open to new experiences. You take an interest in those experiences. You also spend a lot of time asking questions, rather than mulling over negative thoughts. End each day with gratitude ⭐ Gratitude is being aware of and thankful for good things happening. And practicing gratitude helps you feel happier.6 Here’s a popular gratitude exercise. Before bed, simply think of three things you’re grateful for that day.

Practice positive self-talk ⭐ We all have an inner voice. It’s an endless stream of unspoken thoughts. This “self-talk” can be negative or positive. To see which way you lean, check in with yourself during the day. If you tend to be positive, keep it up. If you tend to judge yourself negatively, try to soften your approach. Talk to yourself in the same way you would talk to a dear friend. Show kindness, gentleness and encouragement. Reframe your negative thoughts ⭐ When you find yourself engaging in negative self-talk, pause. See if you can spin what you’re thinking in a positive way. Here are a couple of examples: If you’re thinking: “I don’t know what I’m doing, and I’ll probably fail.” Reframe it: Say to yourself, “This is a chance to learn something new.” If you’re thinking: “There’s no way I’ll get this job.” Reframe it: Say to yourself, “I have the skillset for this job.” Be curious ⭐ When you’re curious, you’re open to new experiences. You take an interest in those experiences. You also spend a lot of time asking questions, rather than mulling over negative thoughts. End each day with gratitude ⭐ Gratitude is being aware of and thankful for good things happening. And practicing gratitude helps you feel happier.6 Here’s a popular gratitude exercise. Before bed, simply think of three things you’re grateful for that day.

In recent times, there’s been a lot of talk and worry about anxiety. It remains one of the most common mental health concerns in the world. To be clear, anxiety can be very difficult to experience. And, in chronic form, it can be disruptive to your life and put your health at risk. 😮💨 But mild bouts of anxiety can actually help you. Those feelings of fear, worry and unease arise to tell you something important about your immediate circumstances. They can help sharpen your awareness, intensify your focus and spur you into action. When you feel anxious, your body reacts to a perceived threat or danger by going into “fight or flight” response. As part of this response, it releases hormones to speed your heart rate and breathing, increase your blood pressure and tense your muscles. These temporary physical reactions essentially heighten your ability to flee faster or fight stronger. (Though, in some cases, you may freeze instead, which in some scenarios, can be the best way to protect yourself.) This survival instinct is hardwired into us. In modern times, these anxious feelings tend to be more about a mental and emotional concern than about a physical threat. These feelings usually are triggering you to adapt to a situation, make a decision or resolve a problem. For example: Maybe you’re worried about an upcoming deadline or test, so you work or study harder to be prepared. Maybe you’re nervous about a first date with someone you’re really excited to meet, so you focus more on making a good impression. Maybe you’re trying to get around an unfamiliar neighborhood, so you’re more alert to your surroundings. If your strong feelings persist and are becoming harder to manage, consult with a medical or mental health professional. Anxiety disorders are treatable.

Being active is a key way to help you stay healthy at any age. As you get older, whether you’re 40, 50, 60 or older, it’s especially important. The better you move, the more you can get out there and do the things you love to do. 💪 Exercise #1: Yoga or chair yoga Exercise #2: Tai chi Exercise #3: Single-leg balance exercises Exercise #4: Standing back leg raise Exercise #5: Walking Exercise #6: Step-ups Exercise #7: Push-ups or wall push-ups Bottom line: Getting older doesn’t mean parking yourself on a couch more hours of the day. In fact, it’s even more important to stay active. What better time to get moving than in the summer? ☀️☀️

5 tools to add to your flight-anxiety toolkit ✈️✈️✈️ 1. Zero in on what makes you anxious 🧳 Not everyone’s flight anxiety is fueled by the same thing. Common fears include: Feeling a lack of control The plane crashing Exposure to germs in a confined space Feeling claustrophobic or being “trapped in the sky” Takeoffs Landings Turbulence 2. Educate yourself as much as you can 🧳 Knowledge is power. It can help you gain control over your flight anxiety. For example, let’s say your anxiety stems from a fear of the plane crashing. In this case, safety information may help you feel a bit better. 3. Focus on what you can control 🧳 This can help prevent other stressors from aggravating your anxiety. I find that the following can help: Know your flight details Research airport dining and entertainment options before you arrive. That way you can stay distracted and busy before you depart. Avoid caffeine and alcohol if they worsen your anxiety Arrive at the airport early. Most airlines recommend arriving 2 hours early for a domestic flight and 3 hours early for an international one. 4. Leverage CBT 🧳 For example, picture yourself completing your trip from the safety of your home. Imagine yourself packing. See yourself driving to the airport. Then arriving at the airport. You get the idea. The key is to picture it before you actually do it. Visualizing the experience, imagining potential outcomes, and calming yourself through it can be done by yourself. Or you can role-play with a friend. It’s a simple practice that can help the real thing feel more manageable and less stressful. 5. Distract yourself 🧳 Getting sucked into a great movie or book can be the perfect escape from flight anxiety. And the airlines help deliver here, with most flights offering personal screens with an array of entertainment options. Some airlines even let you browse options before you board. Uninterested in what’s offered? Watch or listen to whatever you prefer on your device. Just be sure to download it for offline access. SOURCES: Oakes, M., & Bor, R. (2010). The psychology of fear of flying (part I): a critical evaluation of current perspectives on the nature, prevalence and etiology of fear of flying. Travel medicine and infectious disease, 8(6), 327–338. http://spr.ly/6045YmA45

It’s easy to find the school bully in classic teen movies. They’re often the kid who’s pinning other kids against a locker and stealing their lunch money. 🏫 Physical bullying does still happen in schools. But other forms of bullying may not be as easy to notice. And the problem is very real. 📐 Common types of bullying There are a few different types of bullying. Some happen more often than others. But each kind can be difficult for children. Verbal harassment: Teasing. Mean comments. Being made fun of. These are all forms of verbal bullying in schools. One of the most common is name-calling, says Nekeshia Hammond, PsyD. She’s a licensed clinical psychologist in Brandon, Florida. Other forms of verbal bullying include: Homophobic comments. LGBTQ+ youth (and those perceived as being LGBTQ+) are at an increased risk of bullying, according to http://spr.ly/6046Y3x3O. Insults Teasing Name calling Hate speech and racist comments Intimidation Social harassment: Social bullying is more common among girls. But it can affect both boys and girls. It can include: Encouraging kids to exclude another kid from activities Playing mean jokes on other students Spreading rumors to damage someone’s reputation Physical bullying: This type of bullying causes physical pain. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, it can involve: Kicking Hitting Punching Pushing Choking How to help First, ask if something is going on at school. Then listen to what your child has to say. Let them know that they’re not in trouble and that they can tell you anything. Help them role-play how to respond to bullying behavior. For example, they can walk away (or ignore a mean text). They can say, “I don’t like that” or “Please don’t say that to me.” And they can ask a trusted adult, such as a teacher, for help. Alert your child’s school about the problem. And work on solutions together.

Are your kids nervous about heading back to school? Here’s how to help them feel less worried about returning to the classroom. 🍎📚 How to spot the signs of anxiety It’s natural to be jumpy before the first day of school. But how do you know if it’s routine nerves or something more serious? Experts say the following symptoms are red flags:1,2 Sleeplessness. If your child is unable to rest or wakes up in the middle of the night, it could be a sign of anxiety. Changes in eating habits. Anxious children often refuse food or eat excessively. Headaches or stomachaches. Everyone complains of these symptoms sometimes. But if the complaints persist, it may be a sign of something more. Irritability. If your child is quick to get angry, argue or cry, think about talking to your pediatrician or a behavioral health specialist. Bed-wetting or bathroom accidents. If your child suddenly starts experiencing these symptoms, check with your doctor. Soothing Tips 1) Normalize your child’s feelings. Let your child know that their feelings are OK. Tell them that new things can feel scary. Plus, it’s natural to be jittery about a new school year, no matter how old they are. 2) You can also remind them about the good things that come with a new school year. They’ll learn new things and make new friends. Maybe they’ll also get some new privileges, too, such as a later bedtime or a later weekend curfew (for older kids). 3) And don’t forget the power of new school supplies. Buying new notebooks, pencils and other school supplies is fun for kids. Set aside time to pick out things together, then get their homework space set up. You can even decorate it together. That will help them see that you’re excited, too. Sources: Centers for Disease Control. Children’s mental health: Anxiety and depression in children. Last updated April 19, 2022. Accessed June 27, 2022. American Academy of Pediatrics. School avoidance: Tips for concerned parents. Last updated September 5, 2017. Accessed June 27, 2022.

From improving brain function to lulling you to sleep, a little bit of exercise can go a long way in supporting your mental health. 😅🎽 1. Cancel stress Had one of those days? We’ve all been there. While it may be tempting to reach for your favorite comfort food or curl up in front of the TV, consider going for a walk to sweat out those feelings instead. Exercise can reduce stress and release endorphins, which are our body’s natural feel-good chemicals. 2. Reshape your brain Struggling with your mental health doesn’t just impact your mood or habits. It may also impact the structure of your brain. According to one study, exercise is one way to improve functions your brain performs daily, including managing your emotions, memory and speech. Brain functions can be affected if you have depression. 3. Improve your mood In life, it’s easy to sweat the small stuff. Looming deadlines, a broken washing machine, long lines at the pharmacy. Sometimes these everyday challenges can be enough to push us over the edge. Turns out adding activity to your day, however you can, may help put things into perspective and lower your stress. 4. Get better sleep When you’re feeling low, quality sleep can help you feel better. In sleep, memories are stored. Emotions are rehearsed. You reload serotonin (another feel-good chemical in the brain) and dopamine. And the brain gets recharged.

It’s true: Kindness really is its own reward. Ever helped an older person cross a busy street? Stretched up to grab a box of cereal for someone who couldn’t reach? Tied a child’s shoelaces? Health benefit #1: Kindness can make you feel happy 🤗 One important feel-good hormone is called oxytocin. A hormone is a type of chemical messenger. It’s mostly known for its role in helping new moms bond with their babies. But its benefits go beyond motherhood. Oxytocin rewards you when you connect with another person. It’s also thought to play a role in trust and relationship-building. Health benefit #2: Kindness can be good for your heart 🤗 Little acts of kindness make your heart happy, literally. They can make it healthier, too. First, kindness may lower your blood pressure. That’s one key measure of heart health. In one study, spending money on others reduced the blood pressure of older adults at risk of heart disease, according to the American Heart Association. Health benefit #3: Kindness helps with stress 🤗 Constant stress can be bad for your health. When you’re stressed, your body releases hormones, like adrenaline and cortisol, into your system. These are chemicals that trigger your fight-or-flight response. Usually, your cortisol levels return to normal once the stressful situation passes. Sources: Endocrine Society. Brain Hormones. Last updated January 24, 2022. Accessed September 28, 2023. Cleveland Clinic. Oxytocin. Last reviewed March 27, 2022. Accessed September 28, 2023. American Heart Association. Does kindness equal happiness and health? Published February 15, 2022. Accessed September 28, 2023.

How different mental health professionals help you heal 👨⚕️ ⭐Licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) Social workers use talk therapy to care for people with mental health issues. But they’re also trained to help you with other problems. They can help you find legal help. Or they can put you in touch with food assistance or health care services. How an LCSW can help: They’re a great choice if you need social services. Need to find memory care for an older adult? Having trouble finding a ride or a place to live? A licensed clinical social worker can help you with those issues. ⭐Licensed professional counselor (LPC) This is a type of behavioral health specialist. They use talk therapy to care for mental health issues, like depression, anxiety and substance use disorders. They teach you skills to help you change the way you think and act. They’ll give you the tools you need to deal with issues such as anxiety or panic attacks. How an LPC can help: Counselors can help you create a practical action plan to get real results as soon as possible. ⭐Psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner (PMHNP) These are nurses who care for mental health conditions. They can do talk therapy. And in most states, they can also prescribe medicines. How a PMHNP can help: They’re trained to care for everything that affects your health. And unlike many other therapists, they can usually prescribe medicines. You might want to see a nurse practitioner if you think you may need both therapy and pills. ⭐Psychiatrist Psychiatrists are medical doctors (MDs) who care for all kinds of mental health conditions. They’re trained to learn the cause of mental health problems. They may do talk therapy. But usually they focus on medicine. A psychiatrist can help you find medicine to feel better. And because they’re medical doctors, they can order tests to see if a physical illness is linked to your mental health. How a psychiatrist can help: Psychiatrists may be trained trained in newer treatments that can be used with medicine and therapy. Some examples are vagus nerve stimulation and transcranial stimulation. Those techniques send signals to parts of your brain that handle your mood. They can take care of depression and other mental health issues.