7 steps to find healing during grief and loss
Last week was a hectic one for me as a therapist as I worked on cases of loss and grief which I've not worked on in a while
As humans, we can grieve over anything (yeah, I said so)
From the loss of a loved one to the loss of a job, a relationship, or a significant life change
The journey through grief is real and can feel overwhelming
Grief is a natural response to loss...
It is an emotional response, an acknowledgment of whatever is gone and may never be recovered
In all these struggles, there are strategies and coping mechanisms that can help you navigate this difficult time which will lead to your healing
✅ The first thing you need to do is acknowledge your feelings
- Allow yourself to feel whatever emotions arise without judgment
- Grief can manifest in many ways, such as sadness, anger, guilt, or even denial
✅ The next step is to take care of yourself!
- Eat nutritious meals, exercise regularly, and get plenty of rest
- Engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation, whether it's reading, listening to music, or spending time in nature
✅You have to find healthy outlets for expressing your emotions, such as journaling, art, or music
- This will help you process grief as an emotion and also lead you to find meaning in your experience
✅ Do not hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or a support group for comfort and companionship
- It will provide you solace and comfort during this period
✅ Allow others to help you in practical ways, such as running errands, preparing meals, or taking care of household tasks
- It is a good antidote to fight loneliness and helplessness particularly if you are grieving the loss of a loved one
✅ Healing is a process not a sprint!
- Allow yourself the space and grace to move through the process at your own pace, and do not rush yourself to "get over" your loss
✅ While it is important to honor your grief, it's also essential to celebrate life and find moments of joy amidst the pain
- Treasure the memories you shared with your loved one and find ways to keep their spirit alive in your heart
Remember, grief is a natural and necessary process, and there's no timetable for healing...
I am Bosede Oyelakin, your Mental Health Therapist and Counsellor
I am open to offering training to organizations, speaking engagements, and collaborations on mental health and wellness, child and adolescent development, and self-development
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