Today is Are You Safe at Home? Day.
This year alone, a woman is being killed by a man every four days. That is of course is just the women we know about and doesn’t fully capture all the missing and murdered women from Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander communities. While we continue to advocate to governments for a fully-funded and comprehensive response to this national crisis, we cannot forget that ending family violence is everybody’s responsibility. That’s why Are You Safe At Home? is such an important initiative.
We know that family violence occurs in all communities and in all types of relationships. Many people experiencing family violence will never contact police or services on their own, or experience barriers to this type of support. This includes women who are murdered. Sometimes, the homicide is the first time they come into view of the system. And while responses from police and services are absolutely crucial, we will never eliminate family violence unless we have commitment and action across this board – and this includes people in the community.
This year’s Are You Safe At Home? Day campaign is centred around three words: ask, listen and believe. It can be really overwhelming to talk about family violence. It can be scary to think you might say the wrong thing, or that you might be interfering. But we really want people to understand that you don’t have to be an expert. By starting small, you really can make a world of difference. We really need to turn society on its head, we need to all move from being observers to active participants if we are truly going to see the change we need.
So whether you’re an individual worried about someone you know, or you’re an organisation looking to improve your awareness of and responses to family violence, I encourage you to check out the Are You Safe At Home? website which features a suite of accessible tools and resources to help you. This includes a one-page conversation guide - a really clear, simple resource you can display and share with your networks to help you navigate conversations with people you're worried about. Remember, you can start from the very beginning and take small steps. Any step is helpful!
Please share the campaign if you can - areyousafeathome.org.au