October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month
At 21, I remember waking up to a discomfort in my right chest and discharge. My immediate instinct prompted me to seek medical advice. I remember the doctor inquiry about my family medical history. The weight of the word "cancer" immediately loomed large in my thoughts, yet I chose to keep this discovery a closely guarded secret from my parents and friends until I was 100% sure. The specialist confirmed my worst fears– I was diagnosed with Phase 0/1 breast cancer, and the doctor immediately advised me that I should consider a double mastectomy and reconstruction for my age.
The thought of dropping this emotional bombshell on my family was too much to bear. But, my mother was my comfort and confidante of my secret and I'm glad that I didn't bear the weight of my silence any longer. Cancer shakes you up. The mere thought of it could bring jitters to your body, and it did. Not just me, but my parents. I told my father a few days before my surgery date. The news was understandably shocking for him. I remember he said, 'She's too young for this to happen to her'.
Subsequently, I underwent surgery, and the journey had still continued for me with very low iron deficiency that cause me to have blackouts every day along with treatment. My journey has been very personal, challenging and at times, excruciatingly difficult, yet I find solace in the knowledge that I have recovered.
What has helped me the MOST is only and only STAYING VERY POSITIVE. Fear can shake us up for sure, but it can not help us in any way possible. I myself had no idea how strong my mind was until this. I must stress to every woman, and men out there the importance of regular mammograms, regular health checkups, and making them an annual habit.
Unfortunately, about 2 years later, my father was diagnosed with terminal cancer, and after my father passed away in 93' ... my oldest brother was diagnosed, however, recovered. I would never know until this situation how the power of maintaining a positive mindset can not be underestimated. The unwavering support of family and friends, coupled with the incredible POWER OF PRAYER, has been invaluable throughout my journey .
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