"Once you learn how to die, you learn how to live..." In the book, "Tuesdays with Morrie," Morrie Schwartz was faced with ALS, often referred to as Lou Gehrig's disease. As his body was degenerating, Morrie emphasized the importance of acknowledging the reality of death and using that understanding to prioritize what truly matters in life. Often times, these are matters of love, relationships, connection, and personal growth. It might mean making an impact on others. While I never want to see anyone have to face something like ALS, like Morrie did, I hope you are doing all you can to live your most fulfilled life. It's why I ask three important questions to each of my clients so we can unearth everything important to them and then prioritize those elements. About 70% of the time, the third question is where people really get clear. And while the question is simple, it's not always the easiest to answer. So what is the third question? "The doctor shocks you with the news that you only have one day left to live. Notice what feelings arise as you front your very real mortality... Ask yourself: -What did I miss? -What did I not get to be? -What did I not get to do?" If you want to learn about the other two questions and exercises you can do to help plan for your future, check out 15 Retirement Planning Tips for People Age 50+. You can DM me or comment below and I'll send you a free PDF copy. #financiallifeplanning #wealthmanagement #lifeplanning
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Many of us won't experience a near-death experience that shocks us into realizing our true priorities. Many of us will continue to grind and keep ourselves "so busy" that we won't escape the day-to-day to see the big picture. Last week, I talked about Morrie from the book "Tuesdays with Morrie" where Morrie shares his wisdom, while facing death, to help us lead more fulfilled lives. While I never want to see you or anyone have to face something like ALS, like Morrie did, I hope you are doing all you can to live your most fulfilled life. So, without intentionally putting ourselves in a near-death experience, how do we gain clarity over each of our individual priorities? Enter - THE THREE QUESTIONS About 70% of the time, the third question is where people really get clear. And while the question is simple, it's not always the easiest to answer. So what is the third question? "The doctor shocks you with the news that you only have one day left to live. Notice what feelings arise as you front your very real mortality... Ask yourself: -What did I miss? -What did I not get to be? -What did I not get to do?" This question isn't about what you would do over the next 24 hours... It's about understanding your feelings, which as Morrie tells us can lead to a richer life. If you want to learn about the other two questions and exercises you can do to help plan for your future, check out Zack Swad's guide, 15 Retirement Planning Tips for People Age 50+. You can DM us or comment below and we'll send you a free PDF copy. #financiallifeplanning #wealthmanagement #lifeplanning #georgekinder
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None of us want to admit we're going to die. But recognizing our mortality is an essential part of planning for a life in retirement. Many retirees don't spend enough because they act as if retirement isn't finite. Science shows that the fear of death often prevents us from making more rational choices. To quote my uncle, who I often refer to in my presentations on life in retirement, "Sometimes I wish there would be a clock I could set for the end of my life. If I set it now and it gave me a reading of 2,124 days, 13 hours, 25 minutes, and 14 seconds to go before the end, I would not procrastinate any more. If I was aware that every tick tock of this clock was winding my time down to zero, I might not relish those deep sixty-minute naps I am taking every afternoon, from which I awake completely disoriented. I would be painting my house. Repairing cracked caulk in the bathrooms. Attending social gatherings and musical soirees. I would be driving my Alfa Romeo Spider as fast as I could every day of the week." (from Please Enjoy Your Happiness by Paul Brinkley-Rogers). Russell James, J.D., Ph.D., CFP® has done important research on the impact of mortality salience on financial planning decisions and the techniques advisors can use to get around it.
"A great way of thinking about retirement is that your life is basically a row of dots... if you retire at 65, retirement is two rows of ten dots and one row of five dots. That's all you get." - Michael Finke from How to Retire by Christine Benz I love time visuals. After reading Michael's chapter in Christine's book I raided my daughter's marker collection. Reminded me of Wait by Why's excellent life in weeks visual which I also loved. Michael's lesson in the book is all about making sure you are prioritizing relationships and health to ensure you can make the most of those dots. While also being very intentional about how your life might change from row to row. For FIRE, it can be a lot of dots. Making the lessons even more important.
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Many of us won't experience a near-death experience that shocks us into realizing our true priorities. Many of us will continue to grind and keep ourselves "so busy" that we won't escape the day-to-day to see the big picture. Last week, I talked about Morrie from the book "Tuesdays with Morrie" where Morrie shares his wisdom, while facing death, to help us lead more fulfilled lives. While I never want to see you or anyone have to face something like ALS, like Morrie did, I hope you are doing all you can to live your most fulfilled life. So, without intentionally putting ourselves in a near-death experience, how do we gain clarity over each of our individual priorities? Enter - THE THREE QUESTIONS About 70% of the time, the third question is where people really get clear. And while the question is simple, it's not always the easiest to answer. So what is the third question? "The doctor shocks you with the news that you only have one day left to live. Notice what feelings arise as you front your very real mortality... Ask yourself: -What did I miss? -What did I not get to be? -What did I not get to do?" This question isn't about what you would do over the next 24 hours... It's about understanding your feelings, which as Morrie tells us can lead to a richer life. If you want to learn about the other two questions and exercises you can do to help plan for your future, check out 15 Retirement Planning Tips for People Age 50+. You can DM me or comment below and I'll send you a free PDF copy. #financiallifeplanning #wealthmanagement #lifeplanning #georgekinder
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People don't often fail for lack of truth, but rather a lack of action on that truth. We know that eating Doritos and drinking a liter of Pepsi on a routine basis isn't good for us. We know that working out daily IS good for us. That eating bad and not working out will lead to potential health decline. It is not good enough to simply know of truth, but rather to act on it. We all know we need money to retire, yet do people have a plan and act on the truth of one day retiring? Do we know that dying is inevitable and sickness can happen? Absolutely! Do we put protection plans in place in the event it comes about unexpectedly? Often times, no. Often times people don't act on the truths above because they need a trainer/educator/mentor/advisor to keep them accountable. They need these people to have a plan and continue along the path set before them because it is easier to deviate from that path. Who cares if you know that eating terribly leads to health risks if you don't change your eating habits? What good does that do you? If you don't have a plan, get with someone who can create one and help guide you. The countless times I have talked with advisors who are starting to work with people in their 50s who basically have no money in retirement are numerous unfortunately. The amount of times I sit with advisors to talk about income protection on their clients in their accumulation stages of life is 100x that. Act on truth. Don't simply retain it as knowledge.
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Day 12: The Circle of Life and Making It Count I just read one of the most humorously written articles a friend sent me. The writer took me on a reflective journey—narrating life’s twists and turns, the inevitability of aging, and how retirement planning sneaks up on you like an uninvited guest at a party. It was hilarious yet deeply reflective, and it made me pause to think about the circle of life. How often do we stop to reflect on what truly matters? For some, it’s about living in the moment—those vodka-fueled nights or carefree days that seem endless. For others, it's about thinking long-term—investing in family, planning for retirement, or building communities that provide belonging and support as we age. The one thing that stood out? Life doesn’t come with a manual. Aging feels anticlimactic, but it’s also an opportunity to redefine our purpose, to reflect, and to make deliberate choices. The article reminded me of a poignant truth: You were born alone, and you’ll die alone. But it also left me inspired to make every moment count—whether through building meaningful relationships, creating a legacy, or simply embracing the chaos of this journey called life. If you’d like to read the article, comment ARTICLE, and I’ll share it in your DMs. Let’s keep this conversation going. #Reflections #LifeJourney #MakingItCount
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What are the top three concerns people have about retirement?* 1️⃣ Financial 2️⃣ Financial 3️⃣ Financial Something is missing: ❤️ Health I'll share some statistics with you. 1️⃣ Life expectancy: 80.8 years** 2️⃣ Healthy life expectancy: 62.4 years** Healthy life expectancy is the number of years a person is expected to live in good health. 3️⃣ Now, let's consider the average retirement age: 66 years** 🤯 100% of the average person's retirement will be spent in ill health. Think of all those amazing things you want to do: 💑 Time with loved ones 🏌️ Enjoying a hobby 🫶 Volunteering 🛫 Travelling All the money in the world will not compensate for poor health. So, please remember, you'll need BOTH: ====== 👋 I'm Trevor Dias, A speaker, author, and coach helping people change their lives. 🔔 I'd love it if you gave me a follow; in return, you'll receive valuable content that can transform your life, covering Mindset, Nutrition, Fitness, Health, & Well-being. ====== * Forbes ** UK Office for National Statistics
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