The Gottman Institute

The Gottman Institute

Professional Training and Coaching

Seattle, Washington 158,881 followers

A research-based approach to relationships.

About us

Co-founded by Drs. John and Julie Schwartz Gottman, The Gottman Institute has two major functions: helping couples directly, and providing state-of-the-art training to mental health professionals and other health care providers. The Gottman Institute applies leading-edge research on marriage in a practical, down-to-earth therapy and trains therapists committed to helping couples. No other approach to couples education and therapy has relied on such intensive, detailed, and long-term scientific study of why marriages succeed or fail. Just as Masters and Johnson were pioneers in the study of human sexuality, so Dr. John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage. For nearly four decades he has conducted research on all facets of relationships, including parenting issues. At The Gottman Institute, in collaboration with Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman, he developed an approach that not only supports and repairs troubled marriages and committed relationships, but strengthens happy ones. The Gottman Institute provides live workshops and take-home training materials for couples, while The Gottman Referral Network provides therapy referrals to couples. We understand that the human family is in crisis, and that all individuals are capable of and deserve compassion. It is our mission to reach out to families in order to help create and maintain greater love and health in relationships.

Industry
Professional Training and Coaching
Company size
11-50 employees
Headquarters
Seattle, Washington
Type
Privately Held
Founded
1996
Specialties
Relationships, Research, Education, Marriage Counseling, Psychology, Mental Health, and Therapy

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Employees at The Gottman Institute

Updates

  • A connected team is a stronger team. 🤝✨ Workplace Rituals of Connection, like warm introductions, meaningful recognition, or engaging team meetings, create emotional safety and strengthen trust among coworkers. Investing in these rituals not only builds morale but also improves collaboration and productivity. Curious how to incorporate these practices in your workplace? Learn more: https://bit.ly/3VHbCuE

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  • This month marks one year since Drs. John and Julie Gottman released Fight Right, transforming the way couples navigate conflict. Rooted in decades of research, this book has helped countless partners turn disagreements into deeper understanding and connection. Conflict isn’t the enemy, disconnection is. Fight Right teaches you how to argue in a way that strengthens, not weakens, your relationship. Have you read Fight Right? Share your biggest takeaway in the comments! 📖Grab your copy of Fight Right and get access to a free download of helpful relationship tools! https://lnkd.in/gHz2SEbv

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  • As the month ends, there is still time to start the year by connecting with your loved ones and sharing your dreams. 🌟 Create a dream jar together, revisit it periodically to celebrate achievements, and add new goals to keep the momentum alive. Reflecting on your shared dreams strengthens your bond and guides your journey ahead. Subscribe to Love Notes Newsletter and get this months free download: https://bit.ly/4fDXjPd

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  • Parenting can feel overwhelming; one effective way to navigate big emotions and challenging behaviors is to build Rituals of Connection. These small, intentional moments create opportunities for children to feel seen, valued, and connected, which can reduce misbehavior and foster cooperation. From quick morning hugs to weekly one-on-one activities, these rituals are invaluable investments that strengthen the parent-child bond. Read our latest blog to explore simple ways to integrate these practices into your family’s routine here: https://bit.ly/41FHvYg #Parenting #TheGottmanInstitute #GottmanMethod

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  • Building a foundation of trust from the start is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship. To prevent common pitfalls and ensure a lasting bond, here are four practical, proven ways to establish and maintain trust. Remember, trust isn’t built overnight, it’s nurtured through daily actions and intentional effort. Want to dive deeper into each tip? Read more on our blog: https://bit.ly/4hxchqP

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  • Kind words have ripple effects. Compliments boost dopamine, the "feel-good" chemical, making both the giver and receiver feel more connected and happier. According to Gottman’s research, small positive interactions, like compliments, play a big role in strengthening relationships. This National Compliment Day, take a moment to share a heartfelt compliment and deepen your connection.

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  • California’s wildfires have left many searching for strength and a path to rebuild. Dr. Pauline Boss’s Ambiguous Loss Theory, used to support 9/11 and Hurricane Katrina survivors, offers powerful insights. Paired with Drs. John and Julie Gottman’s work, these approaches provide six compassionate strategies for coping and healing. Even amid heartbreak, connection and resilience can light the way. For guidance and support, read the full post on our blog and share it with friends, family, or anyone in the LA area who may need it. Together, we can navigate this challenge. Read more n our blog: https://bit.ly/3PJIzTM For more support, the CalHOPE Warm Line is available 24/7 at 833-317-HOPE (English) and 833-642-7696 (Spanish).

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  • What is the difference between setting a healthy boundary and engaging in manipulation? How can you influence someone's behavior without controlling them? Many well-intentioned couples unknowingly fall into manipulative behaviors due to poor communication and unclear boundaries. In this webinar, you will learn how to identify common manipulation tactics such as love bombing, silent treatment, social isolation, emotional blackmail, and triangulation. Do not let conflict avoidance stop you from setting the boundaries you need. Register here today: https://bit.ly/3qpebk6 Can't make it live? All registrants will receive a recording of the webinar!

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  • It’s National Hug Day! Hugs aren’t just comforting, they’re scientifically proven to strengthen emotional bonds. By boosting oxytocin, known as the “love hormone,” hugs create feelings of trust and closeness. They also lower cortisol levels, helping to reduce stress and promote a sense of calm. According to Gottman’s research: ✨Hugs activate the parasympathetic nervous system, reducing stress. 💞Physical touch creates emotional safety and strengthens bonds. ⏳Even a brief 6-second hug can turn toward your partner’s bids for connection.

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  • Have you and your partner talked about your big, shared life goals? Whether it’s starting a new chapter, achieving a career milestone, or planning for the future, creating space for these conversations can strengthen your bond. This New Year, make your goals tangible by building a dream jar. Include both individual and shared dreams, and consider enhancing the experience: 🎨 Use color coding to organize by category (e.g., personal, career, relationship) 📌 Pair it with a vision board to bring your goals to life visually 💡 Add notes on why each goal is meaningful A dream jar isn’t just a fun activity, it’s a roadmap for mutual support and shared success. What’s one big goal you’re working on in 2025? Subscribe to Love Notes newsletter today: https://bit.ly/4fDXjPd #GoalSetting #NewYear #Gottman

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